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re: My wife is using an app on my 14 yr old sons phone to spy on him.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:12 am to Rustontiger43
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:12 am to Rustontiger43
i like the question. need more details. ultimately i'd say no.
and re: spying, it isn't really spying. it's not the kid's phone.
and re: spying, it isn't really spying. it's not the kid's phone.
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Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:12 am to Rustontiger43
My god.
If I was your son and found out about this you'd be fricked.
1. I would never give you any information about me ever again.
2. I would not tell you that I know about it. I'd troll your fricking life. I'd send random txt's to friends like "You got the shite?" and have them respond with a pic of some frickin black tar heroin and a needle. Then I'd be like "
be over in 30 min". Then I'd go tell ya'll I was going to study with said friend and leave the house.
You'd have a frickin stroke over the shite I'd put you through
If I was your son and found out about this you'd be fricked.
1. I would never give you any information about me ever again.
2. I would not tell you that I know about it. I'd troll your fricking life. I'd send random txt's to friends like "You got the shite?" and have them respond with a pic of some frickin black tar heroin and a needle. Then I'd be like "
be over in 30 min". Then I'd go tell ya'll I was going to study with said friend and leave the house. You'd have a frickin stroke over the shite I'd put you through
This post was edited on 8/14/14 at 10:14 am
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:13 am to jpggpj
quote:
Botttom line, you better be heavily involved in who and what your kids are doing. Letting the public raise them and influence them won't work but if you think that's the fair thing to do....have fun.
Bottom line: you failed as a parent if you have to have a dinner time "phone check."
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:14 am to Master of Sinanju
quote:
I think its okay to monitor, but doing it in secret is not the way to go.
this is the problem.
i put the fear of God into my kids by telling them every website & text they send is logged by my router & showed them a couple of 'examples'.
a better policy would be something like what i do..i collect all their phones & ipads every night before they go to bed.
nothing good can come from your kids laying in bed at 2am texting/facetiming with 'friends'.
This post was edited on 8/14/14 at 10:15 am
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:14 am to Monk
quote:
Sorry you are alone, poor and uneducated and/or a possible abuse victim.
I have a gorgeous gf, two doctorates, and no kids.
Yeah, I'm so "mad"...
My point is you are giving the op faulty advice. I'm sorry if your opinion doesn't match up with the law or current trends in prosecution. Dint be angry at me and lash out with ad hominem attacks...Just accept the fact that you are wrong.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:14 am to GaryMyMan
quote:
My point is that assuming she doesn't immediately delete the picture(s)
I don't disagree with that. If we are going to now assume that this lady is keeping and not deleting these photos, then she could be in violation of the statute you referenced.
It's an interesting scenario.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:15 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
I'd have some girlfriend txt me saying she was pregnant. I'd have a big long fricked up convo with her over txt. All the while I'd be trying to do whatever you are most against, i.e abortion or keep it.
Then I'd act sketchy as hell around ya'll IRL
Then I'd act sketchy as hell around ya'll IRL
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:15 am to Monk
quote:
My point is that assuming she doesn't immediately delete the picture(s)
too late..google done ratted her out.
SWAT will be along shortly with flash bangs.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:16 am to LoyalTiger
quote:i cant believe some people here are justifying the kids sending noods to each other.
Let the kid be a kid.
i mean im not for spying but the kid is 14, what the hell does he need a phone for?
This post was edited on 8/14/14 at 10:17 am
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:17 am to Mickey Donovan
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Mickey Donovan
Yeah well you aren't exactly father of the year either Mick.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:17 am to CarRamrod
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i mean im not for spying but the kid is 14, what the hell does he need a phone for?
seriously?
i have a 6 yo, 13yo and a 16yo.
all 3 in different schools.
if my 13 and 16yo didn't have phones we'd never keep everything straight.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:18 am to Rustontiger43
That's pretty fricked up. You should tell him about it.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:19 am to Rustontiger43
It would be better if you were just honest with him and said give me your phone.
We checked all my kids shite all the time.
We checked all my kids shite all the time.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:21 am to Rustontiger43
Your wife is psycho. If you don't trust your kid with a phone don't give him one.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:22 am to Neako27blitzz
I agree that we should tell him about it.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:23 am to Neako27blitzz
quote:
If you don't trust your kid with a phone don't give him one.
Trust but verify.
And like I said before, let your kid know up front that you will be verifying that trust whenever you feel like it.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:24 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
quote:
DirtyMikeandtheBoys
You wouldn't do any of that shite. Just STFU
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:24 am to Rustontiger43
Does your son not see the ap on his phone?
This post was edited on 8/14/14 at 10:25 am
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:25 am to GaryMyMan
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Bottom line: you failed as a parent if you have to have a dinner time "phone check."
Says the spoon-fed 19 y/o. I don't need dinner time.
Posted on 8/14/14 at 10:26 am to Darth_Vader
That's more appropriate. Use parental restrictions on his device...but spying without his knowledge just doesn't seem right.
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