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re: Just got my arse chewed for saying "honey" to a co-worker

Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:36 am to
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:36 am to
shut the frick up peej, you've never worked in an office in your life.
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
67589 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:37 am to
she sounds like a real bitch. people are so sensitive you have to watch what you say.
Posted by davesdawgs
Georgia - Class of '75
Member since Oct 2008
20307 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:37 am to
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Just got my arse chewed for saying "honey" to a co-worker


Political correctness gone awry. I can understand someone preferring not to be addressed in that manner but sheesh just politely ask someone not do it.
Posted by Corkfather
Houston
Member since Sep 2007
19748 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:38 am to
quote:

why are some black people sensitive to being called "boy"?


There are many white people offended by this as well.

I actually once saw a man bite another man's ear off in a bar fight because the guy called him "boy".
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90449 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:39 am to
Your trailer isn't an office and you can just say your sister instead of woman A
Posted by Envy
Garden District
Member since Mar 2011
1941 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:41 am to
After living in the south, I call every woman/girl waitress/bartender/etc "darlin'"...

I can see how some women might get their jimmies rusteled though.
Posted by HubbaBubba
F_uck Joe Biden, TX
Member since Oct 2010
45715 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:41 am to
quote:

Then you don't work for a multi national corporation
quote:

I'd be fired within a month
You'd likely get written up and if they like you, a 360 review and some sensitivity training. If they don't like you, written up, but then if they want to get rid of you, all anyone has to say is, "he called me a gash" and it'd be all over for you.
Posted by Sterling Archer
Austin
Member since Aug 2012
7297 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:42 am to
As with most things in life, you have to know your audience. If you don't have the rapport to use names like that with someone then don't.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51253 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:43 am to
I wouldn't say it in an office. It can be taken as condescending, like calling somebody "sweetie" or "son"
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
17150 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:43 am to
Woman at a restaurant called me honey TWICE just now!

Should I get that bitch fired?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:44 am to
Yes because a restaurant is the same as a professional corporate setting
Posted by econ85
Member since Nov 2012
572 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:45 am to
Do y'all live in the south. Jesus.

This would never be a problem in our home office and we have 200 people there.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:45 am to
You can thank a late 1980's invention called "Human Resources" for that shite.
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
17150 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:47 am to
C'mon now nurse you knew I was joking.

It isn't appropriate in a professional setting but I would probably let it slide if I thought someone said it on accident. Raised in Louisiana and live in Texas now though.
Posted by ZereauxSum
Lot 23E
Member since Nov 2008
10176 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:47 am to
quote:

I wouldn't say it in an office. It can be taken as condescending, like calling somebody "sweetie" or "son"


This, although the older guys in my office refer to me as kid sometimes. Even recently and I'm in my 30s.

To the OP, she shouldn't have blown up but calling any woman that you don't know "honey" has been a bad idea since 1959.
Posted by AngryBeavers
Member since Jun 2012
4554 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:49 am to
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"I know honey". She snapped, "I'M NOT HONEY".
I didn't mean anything offensive by the word. My God,
why are women so sensitive by that???


Calling a woman honey who you work with can come off as condescending. She probably could have refrained from snapping at you and just asked that you not call her honey again though.
Posted by Palm Beach Tiger
Orlando, Florida
Member since Jan 2007
29857 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:49 am to
quote:

Jeez!! I was asking a co-worker at our corp office to help me with something. During our conversation, I said,
"I know honey". She snapped, "I'M NOT HONEY".
I didn't mean anything offensive by the word. My God,
why are women so sensitive by that???


Because this country is full of people that just can't wait to be offended by something.
Posted by GotDucks?
The swamp
Member since May 2013
1775 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:49 am to
quote:

know how I know you don't work in the oilfield?


No shite, huh.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:50 am to
No worries


If it was a waitress or bartender she was likely trying to be friendlier in hopes of a better tip.


I wouldn't get a male coworker fired if they called me "honey" at work but I would def pull him aside and tell him it's not cool.
Posted by boom roasted
Member since Sep 2010
28039 posts
Posted on 2/6/14 at 10:51 am to
You ugly.
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