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re: Is cursing around your kids indicative of trashy parenting?

Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:37 pm to
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
15623 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:37 pm to
My mother is a sweet church lady but if Auburn drops the football, she is going to use salty language.
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31956 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:40 pm to
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My mother is a sweet church lady but if Auburn drops the football, she is going to use salty language.


Well your sweet mother is garbage according to OP and several others in here
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113955 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:47 pm to
Someone I know who teaches at a smaller private school told me that the parents have a group text and they were all complaining about a teacher and one of the parents called the teacher a "count waffle". I think it was 4th or 5th grade.. Some of the dumbass parents showed their kids.. What do the kids do? Go to school the next morning and tell all the other kids.

My parents cursed around me, but we were told that you can used those words until you are an adult They didn't curse every day in casual conversations, but it was common for them to drop common words like arse, shite, god damn.. frick was rare..
Posted by Interweb Cowboy
NW Bama
Member since Dec 2010
3138 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 9:48 pm to
YES
Posted by DrrTiger
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2023
351 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:20 pm to
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Well your sweet mother is garbage according to OP and several others in her


If she’s doing that around kids consistently, yeah, I’d say so.
Posted by LSUAngelHere1
Watson
Member since Jan 2018
8148 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:23 pm to
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I think we were two miles from home, I said the word "shite" to my GF. He warned me if I said it again, I'd be walking. So I walked two miles home

Your GF is a he?
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31956 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:26 pm to
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If she’s doing that around kids consistently, yeah, I’d say so



We know you would. You’ve admitted to being a judgmental prick several times

Going to use you and this thread to show my 9 year old how NOT to act towards people.
Posted by DrrTiger
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2023
351 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:34 pm to
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Going to use you and this thread to show my 9 year old how NOT to act towards people


Be sure to throw in a few f-bombs to really get the point across.
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5572 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:41 pm to
I could say frick 20 times to one of my kids and they wouldn't bat an eye. I could say "what the heck are you doing" with a different contextual meaning and they would cower.

They are words, they have no power, context has the power.

I've been around kids who were raised in that don't swear environment, they cursed like sailors when not around their parents I would rather my kids understand the words, the context, and use them with that understanding.

You're not doing them any favors by just hiding them from it.
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31956 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 10:58 pm to
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I could say frick 20 times to one of my kids and they wouldn't bat an eye. I could say "what the heck are you doing" with a different contextual meaning and they would cower.

They are words, they have no power, context has the power.

I've been around kids who were raised in that don't swear environment, they cursed like sailors when not around their parents I would rather my kids understand the words, the context, and use them with that understanding.

You're not doing them any favors by just hiding them from it.



OMG!! So trashy!

This thread is a prime example of how people try to make themselves feel better about their own shortcomings by trying to artificially inflate their egos and show off their pristine moral compass

"Look at me! Im better than everyone because I dont ruin my children by using swear words!"

STFU Randy, your kids hate you and curse like sailors when you arent around
Posted by DrrTiger
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2023
351 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 11:06 pm to
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You're not doing them any favors by just hiding them from it.


It has nothing to do about hiding anything, which I’ve alluded to several times. Of course kids are going to hear bad words out in the world. Who is denying that?

Guess what? Kids will probably see porn on the internet at some point. Does that mean the parents should get it on in front of them because, ah well, they’ll see this someday anyway! Let’s keep it “real world” around the kiddos!

It’s about whether a parent holds themselves to a certain standard of language when around their kids. That’s it. That’s the discussion.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
14857 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 11:25 pm to
I swear like a sailor when working alone, but rarely around others and never in front of my wife or kids. Funny, the more frustrated I get the more I swear and nothing frustrates me more than plumbing in a tight spot. I was under the cabin after some pipes froze, pissed off and letting loose and forgot that, after removing insulation, there was only 1.5" of wood between me and the family and they could hear every word I was saying.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164137 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 11:28 pm to
Only acceptable when you’re about to put the fire on their arse for being stupid little shits
This post was edited on 3/17/24 at 11:29 pm
Posted by DrrTiger
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2023
351 posts
Posted on 3/17/24 at 11:29 pm to
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This thread is a prime example of how people try to make themselves feel better about their own shortcomings by trying to artificially inflate their egos


The funny thing is you pretending you don’t judge other people/parents by what you observe from them. Yeah, bullshite.

You judge plenty, but get hot and bothered that people might find this aspect of you to be, well, on the trashy side. It’s fine. I’m sure you have a bunch of quality attributes also.
Posted by AcadieAnne
Where I drink and know nothing.
Member since May 2019
858 posts
Posted on 3/18/24 at 12:12 am to
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I don't like it when I see it but I'm not a parent so I feel unsure about judging.


You don’t have to be a pilot to know that when you see a helicopter in a tree somebody done messed up.
Posted by Oneforthemoney
New Iberia, La
Member since Dec 2013
1789 posts
Posted on 3/18/24 at 1:47 am to
Try not to curve in front of kids but it's LINK a sign of intelligence.

Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
6427 posts
Posted on 3/18/24 at 2:25 am to
Learning to lie early is a sign intelligence, at least in toddlers.

But you know the biggest indicator of dumbass? how much time they spent on a tablet. Which is the fault of the parents.
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31956 posts
Posted on 3/18/24 at 3:04 am to
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The funny thing is you pretending you don’t judge other people/parents by what you observe from them. Yeah, bullshite


Keep projecting. Just because YOU do it, doesn't mean others do and that its normal. Why would I presume to know someone based solely on the way they talk or something they do if I don't actually know the person?

I'm not hot and bothered I'm just flabbergasted that it would take something so small and inconsequential as the words someone uses for you to think you know someone enough to classify them in any regard.

Like I said earlier, its the artificially inflated ego that you have created for yourself that allows you to think you are above others. In reality, as I've already said, you just seem to be a judgemental arse trying to make himself feel better.

Glass houses.
Posted by Revelator
Member since Nov 2008
58028 posts
Posted on 3/18/24 at 6:03 am to
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Raise your kids how you want. Cursing isn't the lesson that is going to ruin your kids.


Generally, excessive use of profanity is a sign low IQ
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5572 posts
Posted on 3/18/24 at 6:13 am to
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Guess what? Kids will probably see porn on the internet at some point. Does that mean the parents should get it on in front of them because, ah well, they’ll see this someday anyway! Let’s keep it “real world” around the kiddos!


Did you seriously just compare plowing your wife in front of the kids to saying shite or damn
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