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re: How to be a Beta, or 7 Things Every Guy Can Do To Be Perfect For Her
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:13 pm to HempHead
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:13 pm to HempHead
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Someone in the friendship is going to have sexual feelings. It's a matter of nature
100% false, I mean I can tell you from plenty of personal experience. There's a girl that works for my company (different location, so we don't see each other but like once a week) that I also went to UGA with. We get along great and I would consider her a good friend. She's also not unattractive by any means, but she's not really my type. Neither of us has the slightest interest in being more than friends, that's just not the nature of our situation.
Now, as far as what SFP said with the friend-zone being 'relationship-y', I would never even think of asking her to a meal, or a movie, or just to hang out. The extent of our time together in person is strictly at work functions. We talk outside of work and text and stuff, but that's it. I dont' see why it's so hard to believe that a guy and a girl can simply be friends with nothing more to it than that.
ETA: just saw Jcorye's post. Disregard everything, I'm apparently talking about a different situation.
This post was edited on 4/23/14 at 1:14 pm
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:15 pm to WG_Dawg
Ah, the elusive friend-zoned-and-doesn't-know-it friend zone.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:16 pm to WG_Dawg
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100% false, I mean I can tell you from plenty of personal experience. There's a girl that works for my company (different location, so we don't see each other but like once a week) that I also went to UGA with. We get along great and I would consider her a good friend. She's also not unattractive by any means, but she's not really my type. Neither of us has the slightest interest in being more than friends, that's just not the nature of our situation.
Now, as far as what SFP said with the friend-zone being 'relationship-y', I would never even think of asking her to a meal, or a movie, or just to hang out. The extent of our time together in person is strictly at work functions. We talk outside of work and text and stuff, but that's it. I dont' see why it's so hard to believe that a guy and a girl can simply be friends with nothing more to it than that.
ETA: just saw Jcorye's post. Disregard everything, I'm apparently talking about a different situation.
Yeah, but if you both got drunk and were single you'd frick her....
It's nature, survival of the fittest, evolution, genetics. Don't fight it
This post was edited on 4/23/14 at 1:17 pm
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:16 pm to WG_Dawg
the friend zone is about relationships, not sex
i'm shocked that i have to point out, in a male circle jerk, that men can have sex without emotions or linking it to a relationship
i'm shocked that i have to point out, in a male circle jerk, that men can have sex without emotions or linking it to a relationship
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:18 pm to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
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Yeah, but if you both got drunk and were single you'd frick her....
We're both single, and I assure you I wouldn't. I told you, I am not attracted to her in the least bit at all.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:20 pm to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
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Yeah, but if you both got drunk and were single you'd frick her....
This, and if this chick finds herself in a position where she needs a man soon she'll turn on the charm. He's being kept warm in the bullpen in case the starter gives up a few runs.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:20 pm to SlowFlowPro
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2. Understanding – so that she doesn’t feel the need to have to explain herself.
She wants you to know her – inside and out. Why? Because only then will you love her for her...Having someone understand you is having someone completely know you for the person that you really are. There’s no confusion, there’s no misunderstanding or misconception.
Yea...cause it's sooooooo easy to understand women.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:21 pm to SlowFlowPro
What women want and what they say they want are two entirely different things.
Took me a long time to come to grips with this but it's sound advice. The friend-zone is torture and not worth it.
quote:
If a chick doesn't want a relationship, and you can't see yourself just being friends, just stop talking to her... it's not a big deal.
Took me a long time to come to grips with this but it's sound advice. The friend-zone is torture and not worth it.
This post was edited on 4/23/14 at 1:25 pm
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:21 pm to shel311
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Yea...cause it's sooooooo easy to understand women.
that paragraph really made me think this was a satirical article, for that exact reason
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:23 pm to TheDrunkenTigah
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This, and if this chick finds herself in a position where she needs a man soon she'll turn on the charm. He's being kept warm in the bullpen in case the starter gives up a few runs.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:23 pm to NIH
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Women articles telling men how to get other women are the worst.
And these women are single as they come
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:23 pm to Goldrush25
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What women want and what they say they want are two entirely different things.
this is a major generalization, but it applies (esp to BbC women):
1. women want attention
2. women want to feel like they've "won" in terms of finding a man, and they want the man and his gifts to show off for them
3. women want to trap that man, whether they realize they're doing it or not
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:23 pm to WG_Dawg
quote:You've at least thought about her in a sexual manner and she has probably done the same. I also don't buy the whole "I'd never ask her out to a meal,movie etc." and yet you have conversation with her frequently via text.
100% false, I mean I can tell you from plenty of personal experience. There's a girl that works for my company (different location, so we don't see each other but like once a week) that I also went to UGA with. We get along great and I would consider her a good friend. She's also not unattractive by any means, but she's not really my type. Neither of us has the slightest interest in being more than friends, that's just not the nature of our situation.
Now, as far as what SFP said with the friend-zone being 'relationship-y', I would never even think of asking her to a meal, or a movie, or just to hang out. The extent of our time together in person is strictly at work functions. We talk outside of work and text and stuff, but that's it. I dont' see why it's so hard to believe that a guy and a girl can simply be friends with nothing more to it than that.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:24 pm to tigerpimpbot
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Shocking. Penned by Manhattan hipster.
Say what you want about the man, but his style of clothing is badass...
Where can I get that combination of shorts, shirt, & straw hat?
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:24 pm to JBeam
i have some female friends that i'd bang for sure
i have some that i'd marry, likely, but wouldn't date
i have some that i'd do neither with
i have some that i'd marry, likely, but wouldn't date
i have some that i'd do neither with
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:26 pm to shel311
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Yea...cause it's sooooooo easy to understand women.
I have received some horrific dating advice from women.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:26 pm to SlowFlowPro
Agreed you categorize them down towards your needs. But too say you've NEVER thought about them in a sexual manner [not saying you would act on it] is just a bit much.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:27 pm to TheDrunkenTigah
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He's being kept warm in the bullpen in case the starter gives up a few runs
You clearly haven't read my posts about it. We only see each other at work. There is no attraction. There has never even been the slightest hint of doing something together outside of work. Neither one of us is interested.
But I'm sure you know more about it than I do.
Posted on 4/23/14 at 1:29 pm to WG_Dawg
This all ends with your cock in her mouth and your face full of shame thinking "where did I go wrong?"
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