re: How to be a Beta, or 7 Things Every Guy Can Do To Be Perfect For Her

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i have some female friends that i'd bang for sure i have some that i'd marry, likely, but wouldn't date i have some that i'd do neither with

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If times got tough your categories would shift a bit. Also, the chick friends you say you wouldn't marry or bang you're probably not texting and calling outside of work.

By fulfilling her need for attention, this guy is basically in a relationship with his work friend, whether he admits it or not.

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you're probably not texting and calling outside of work

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We have never spoken on the phone outside of work. Ever. The only texts are typically about UGA sports since we both went there.

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By fulfilling her need for attention

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Yeah, because texting once a week about the school we went to sure is filling that void in her life

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You've at least thought about her in a sexual manner

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And was not pleased. I think about every female I see every day in a sexual manner, it's what guys do. Doesn't mean everyone I see I want to bang.

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I'd never ask her out to a meal,movie etc

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We've known each other for about 6 years now and we have never even come close to hanging out in a social way aside from work.

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you have conversation with her frequently via text.

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How often is "frequently"?

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What the hell is a beta? and who talks like that?

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JEAUXBLEAUX

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Haha... I love your Jewish arse sometimes, Jeaux.

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I feel like I'm reading r/theredpill.

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The Post-Feminist Man doesn't fall for bullshite like that article

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Well, misogynists get laid more than white-knights.

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guys who follow those rules = Adam

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So if you ignored her for a week, what would happen?

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The same thing that would happen if you didn't talk to a coworker for a week...nothing.

The texts about UGA are more so in the fall during football season. I dont' even know the last time we talked that wasn't in a work setting.

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.but I'm just not sure what's worse: dehumanizing women as being all stupid crazy bitch-whores

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i didn't dehumanize ALL women. i clearly said this is insight into the mind of a BbC chick

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You clearly haven't read my posts about it. We only see each other at work. There is no attraction.

There has never even been the slightest hint of doing something together outside of work. Neither one of us is interested.

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You said that you've had a passing thought of her sexually. That's attraction whether you know it or not. Attraction isn't a black/white issue. It's a scale. If you've thought about having sexual intercourse with someone you're attracted to them on some level. Maybe a very low level of attraction but it's there.

And I agree with the guy that said you'd likely frick this girl if both of your inhibitions were lowered.

Most men only need a couple of things to pursue a sexual relationship, those things being that the woman is attractive enough, and willing.

Yeah, I'm not much better, since I mostly just look at women as baby-making factories. Sometimes I wonder if I ever get my dream of a JPK-like family, if I'm not just going to ignore the living shite out of my wife and kids... you know, besides trying to angle ways for them to rise to important places.