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re: How often does your SO initiate sexual contact? How often do you?

Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:27 am to
Posted by YNWA
Member since Nov 2015
6701 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:27 am to
Married 18 years two boys 14 and 11.
Ratio is honestly probably 50-50 or slightly more me initiating it.
The most 3 times a week. Definitely once a week if not twice.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:35 am to
quote:

Married: 98% initiated by me.



Not sustainable
You'll cheat eventually.
Posted by MardiGrasCajun
Dirty Coast, MS
Member since Sep 2005
5355 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:36 am to
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2-4 x a week.


Same here...and married. We both initiate the sex. I have a wonderful wife.
Posted by Taurus
Loozianna
Member since Feb 2015
4955 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:37 am to
Married 20 yrs, kids still in the house so she initiates once a week on average, but I try almost everyday so she doesn't really need to initiate. However, it is cool when she comes asking, that's like taking viagra.
Posted by FlyinTiger93
Member since May 2010
3581 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:38 am to
"All this talk makes me want to stay single, where women pretend to want sex all the time and I pretend to want a relationship."

This is your best choice. Hookers are a lot cheaper, in the long run.
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47824 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:51 am to
Don't have to Christmas shop for them either
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
72598 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:52 am to
Have ANY of the female posters answered this question?
Posted by braindeadboxer
Utopia
Member since Nov 2011
8742 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:53 am to
quote:

Married: 98% initiated by me.


Pretty accurate. Especially once kids are involved.
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:54 am to
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You need to treat them right, help them relax, and most importantly put the idea of sex into their mind for their own enjoyment.


You can do all of this and more but if you have some combination of kids, wife job, family responsibilities, etc then 90% of the battle is out of your hands.
Posted by Chicken
Jackassistan
Member since Aug 2003
22003 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 8:57 am to
The three stages of sex in marriage:
1. Tri-weekly
2. Try weekly
3. Try weakly
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
17552 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 9:09 am to
Initiated by me 100% of the time.

Thought about cheating several times.
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
10600 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 9:09 am to
quote:

then 90% of the battle is out of your hands.


Which, ironically, puts the sex back IN your hands
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47824 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 9:10 am to
How long have you been together?
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
10600 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 9:12 am to
quote:

Initiated by me 100% of the time.

Thought about cheating several times.


Dude, over 90% of relationships end up with the guy initiating over 90% of the time. Just read this thread. So what is it you think cheating is going to solve? If you find a new girl, it will end up the same way, more than likely. You say you initiate 100% of the time. Does she say no most of the time?
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 9:16 am to
I initiate pretty much every time. Pretty much every time it's still met with a no. Now, those no's are still sometimes the "no means yes" thing. For some reason, I still am lucky enough to get to play that game.

But every once in a blue moon, I initiate and get the automatic green light. I consider that as close as I'll get to her initiating
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20449 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 9:17 am to
If your wife initiates sex 50% of the time than you are either lying or beta, I can promise if my wife initiated sex 50% of the time we'd be fricking like bunnies on viagra.

When was the last time a hunter saw a doe chasing a buck around? Men are the go pedal, woman are the brake. Its natural.
This post was edited on 12/23/16 at 9:18 am
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65688 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 9:22 am to
I'd consider both she and I "professionals".

Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
18500 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 9:27 am to
20% her
80% me
At least once a week
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37102 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 10:01 am to
Before Kid 1 - 50/50, never turned down

After kid 1 before kid 2 - me 80, her 20, but ratio got closer to 50/50 when the kid was away. Rarely turned down.

After kid 2 - me 99, her 1, turned down 90, if i keep trying eventually she gives in about 1/3 of the time. But again, when the kids are away, it's back to 50/50.

Excuses are tied, stressed, etc.

It's very frustrating.
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68612 posts
Posted on 12/23/16 at 10:07 am to
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But the fact the one time in the past 5 months I turn her down pisses her off is absurd.





We are men, we are expected to perform at any time. Just has to be on their time.
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