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re: Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:26 pm to 7thWardTiger
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:26 pm to 7thWardTiger
What caused the split?
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Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:31 pm to 7thWardTiger
For the love of god don't post anything negative about her or the situation a tigerdroppings.
My ex knows my screen name and had screenshots of stuff I said on here but I had screenshots of stuff she said on other social media outlets about me so it was a wash.
My ex knows my screen name and had screenshots of stuff I said on here but I had screenshots of stuff she said on other social media outlets about me so it was a wash.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:34 pm to bulldog95
dog you got alot of experience in this subject matter also 
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:35 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
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you spend at least 3k
I wish I had only spent 3K.
I've got 3 damn lawyers but thank God my mom has plenty of $$$$ my grandmother left her so she has paid all my attorney fees except the initial $3000 retainer.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:36 pm to 7thWardTiger
Hell has a corner reserved for women that use their children as weapons against good fathers. Hang in there man.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:37 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
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dog you got alot of experience in this subject matter also
I haven't said a word to my ex in over 1 1/2 years. We text if it involves the kids.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:38 pm to 7thWardTiger
You stay on the course and in time your daughter will realize how you feel and what you have been through. Stay focused and pick your spots.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:39 pm to bulldog95
Let me clarify that was the latest trip. I am nearing 25 k in 7 years over shite that could have been easily handled at mediation.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:39 pm to 7thWardTiger
Break up of the family unit. Commonplace in America today.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:44 pm to 7thWardTiger
Hire an Atty pussy!
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:44 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
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Let me clarify that was the latest trip. I am nearing 25 k in 7 years over shite that could have been easily handled at mediation.
Holy hell. I hope we are done with anymore and can be amblicable from here on out.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:47 pm to 7thWardTiger
Had a family member go through this. It's awful. The mother spent a lot of time telling the child Dad was awful and, as a result, he didn't like coming to his dad's too much sometimes, plus she would cry and whine about being alone, so he felt guilty and would choose to stay with her often as he got older. However, he finally asked his father about some of what she said. All this time, the father had taken the high road and never spoken ill about the mother to the child. The child acknowledged that. I think the father eventually let him read a deposition and look at some texts the mother sent which were BS. Kid came to realize his mom was a biotch. Still loved her, of course, but didn't believe her BS any longer.
Document everything. Every cent you spend on the child, every medical bill, every request to see her etc... Stay on the high road. Don't say or write anything anywhere which might hurt you. Don't do anything stupid. Get an attorney and get a custody agreement. You'll get a child support order, also.
Document everything. Every cent you spend on the child, every medical bill, every request to see her etc... Stay on the high road. Don't say or write anything anywhere which might hurt you. Don't do anything stupid. Get an attorney and get a custody agreement. You'll get a child support order, also.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:06 pm to Gris Gris
Yep the kids realize alot more than you think they realize. My line of communication has been open the whole time we have been divorced. The ex has burned the trust with my 17 year old daughter and 16 year old son. They know with me it has always been about honesty and no drama. I did not talk bad once about their mom. They are old enough now to realize the truth.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:13 pm to Bama and Beer
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Why didn't y'all work out?
I agree with this. Not in a romantic way but just as a way to be decent to your fricking kid. Beg this woman to be cool with you. Do whatever you have to do. Ask her what she doesn't like or what she'd like to see in you (short of y'all getting back together obviously) and do EVERYTHING YOU CAN DO to keep this out of the courts.
Women will get RIDICULOUS when they don't get their way, but us guys know how to pull their chains sometimes. Be smart enough to diffuse this bomb before you frick up your kids.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:15 pm to bulldog95
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wish I had only spent 3K.
I pay over that every month. Women are the devil..
7th she can't keep you from seeing your daughter and yes, document the number of days between kid exchange and anything she uses as excuse to not share custody.
During separation, even without a custody arrangement, she's obligated to be reasonable and share custody. Bring a print out of a spreadsheet or diary of the gaps between visitation. No judge in the country will be on her side when you do go before him/her. There's That.
This post was edited on 8/26/16 at 2:17 pm
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:24 pm to Giantkiller
Sounds legit but trust me when a woman knows it over they form a game plan on how much they will receive in child support and what they are taking. Myself at the time wanted what was best for the kids. WRONG Answer. Don't be the nice one because as soon as they don't get what they thought they were going to get. It gets ugly. Trust me. Talking the talk in this subject is easy but walking the walk SUCKS.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:27 pm to 7thWardTiger
I have a male friend who has a child with a mother who has been in and out of jail for drugs, arson, and manslaughter and he had a hell of a time getting full custody.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:33 pm to 7thWardTiger
Been there done that, still doing it to this day.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:41 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
Divorced dad here. At first the kids gravitated to their mother which hurt really bad. But I stayed consistent and would not give in to the pressure of giving up my time w them.
The mother would try to interfere with my life and how I raised the kids at my house.
I stayed constant and consistent in terms of not allowing her to influence things at my home. Nor did I try to influence her house despite my severe disagreements w how she lives.
Now after 5 years, the kids see my home as the safe and peaceful home (as it has always been) whereas her house is chaos. They arrived at this point on their own. Kids HATE chaos and will gravitate towards safety and stability.
Keep the kids out of the fight. Isolate them away from the drama as much as possible. LOVE them when they are with you and communicate w them when they are gone.
No court in the world will take a child away from a dad who shows a record of stability and emotional support towards their child. It's more than a money game.
Do not let the threats of your ex stress you or your kids out! Most of the time the threats are BS and never actually followed up. Life is so much easier when you know how to put the ex on mute
The mother would try to interfere with my life and how I raised the kids at my house.
I stayed constant and consistent in terms of not allowing her to influence things at my home. Nor did I try to influence her house despite my severe disagreements w how she lives.
Now after 5 years, the kids see my home as the safe and peaceful home (as it has always been) whereas her house is chaos. They arrived at this point on their own. Kids HATE chaos and will gravitate towards safety and stability.
Keep the kids out of the fight. Isolate them away from the drama as much as possible. LOVE them when they are with you and communicate w them when they are gone.
No court in the world will take a child away from a dad who shows a record of stability and emotional support towards their child. It's more than a money game.
Do not let the threats of your ex stress you or your kids out! Most of the time the threats are BS and never actually followed up. Life is so much easier when you know how to put the ex on mute
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:43 pm to 7thWardTiger
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the other 2 kids call me daddy
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makes matters worst
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lived with me until July when we broke up.
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We was together
I see a pattern. I'm guessing y'all weren't married. I'm also guessing there was a check from our government monthly involved.
Seriously, wtf? Is this a troll?
If not, good luck on seeing your child. But I hope you can see the many many errors in both of your actions that lead to situations like this. Just be the best person you can be and that will make you a better father as well. Which in turn, makes your chances better.
The woman will chill, give that time. Shell need something
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