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re: Got a dilemma, would you tell another man

Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:13 am to
Posted by Gaston
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Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:13 am to
None, he just got divorced since the cheater in the OP was screwing his wife. Now the cheater is fricking some other married woman and this dude wants to let that guy that know. The one cheater has is in the process of ruining a second marriage...
This post was edited on 6/1/15 at 9:14 am
Posted by lsufan112001
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Member since Oct 2006
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Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:13 am to
Do you have concrete proof she's cheating on him or just a strong suspicion? If you have solid proof, you need to let the poor guy know. If all you've got is a strong suspicion, then I'd recommend not saying anything until you've got solid proof.

Keep in mind this news will fundamentally alter the lives of this guy, his wife, and their kids if they have any. Basically, you're looking at giving news that at the minimum will shake a marriage to it's foundation at at worst will destroy that marriage and the family built around it. That's why you've got to have 100% solid, no doubt proof before saying anything.
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Well said.
It's a tough call. My brother would have liked to have known.

The cheater is a well known cheater. Not his first rodeo.
Posted by weadjust
Member since Aug 2012
15091 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:15 am to
Pics of cheating woman

Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56202 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:18 am to
These cheating wives just need to stop hopping into bed with this guy.

Sounds like they are keeping him from settling down and starting a family.

Not your business. Stay out of it.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64485 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:19 am to
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Well said.
It's a tough call. My brother would have liked to have known.

The cheater is a well known cheater. Not his first rodeo.


Thank you. What proof do you have that this woman is cheating on her husband? I only ask because that's what will determine whether or not you should go to the husband.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:20 am to
quote:

None, he just got divorced since the cheater in the OP was screwing his wife. Now the cheater is fricking some other married woman and this dude wants to let that guy that know. The one cheater has is in the process of ruining a second marriage..


So the chick from the first marriage is now fricking the OP's brother's wife? Holy shite, this is like Game of Thrones confusing.....
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
10699 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:24 am to
Thank you. What proof do you have that this woman is cheating on her husband? I only ask because that's what will determine whether or not you should go to the husband.
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Can't give details. But yeah it happened.
The cheater guy targets married women. That's his gig.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64485 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:28 am to
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Can't give details. But yeah it happened.
The cheater guy targets married women. That's his gig.


Understand you can't give details. Guess what I'm asking is did you witness unmistakable cheating or did you just see what could be cheating or what? How did you come to be convinced this happened?

BTW, this is an anonymous message board, as long as you don't give names or details of where these people live, you should be alright.
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54132 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:30 am to
quote:

Can't give details. But yeah it happened.
The cheater guy targets married women. That's his gig.

Sounds like you have suspicions that you believe constitute proof because of what happened with your brother. I don't trust your instincts here because you have a heavy bias. I would need actual proof. JMO
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19239 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:32 am to
I'm trying to make sense of this OP. There is a scumbag who cheated with OP's brothers wife, and is now with someone else's wife?
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54132 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:33 am to
Yep. Although, it doesn't sound like the scumbag is cheating on anyone, just enticing others to cheat on their spouses with him.
This post was edited on 6/1/15 at 9:35 am
Posted by davesdawgs
Georgia - Class of '75
Member since Oct 2008
20307 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:36 am to
It's the wife's place to come clean with her husband. They're probably having issues in their relationship if she is cheating on her husband. You would be wise to stay out of it and let them work it out. But if you do feel compelled to act, approach or send a note to the cheating wife letting her know that she is cheating with a man who had previously cheated with your brother's wife.
Posted by Swoopin
Member since Jun 2011
22030 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:40 am to
Yes.
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
10699 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:43 am to
Understand you can't give details. Guess what I'm asking is did you witness unmistakable cheating or did you just see what could be cheating or what? How did you come to be convinced this happened?

BTW, this is an anonymous message board, as long as you don't give names or details of where these people live, you should be alright.
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Here's another kicker. The cheaters name is in fact on the net. With the name of the wife (the one he cheated with) and husband. So I don't know who put that on the web, and if that husband has already been told.

Also the cheater was Fn on company time with these women. I'm sure they might be interested too. But that's a whole nother level
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98170 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:45 am to
Stay the frick out of it. You'll be glad you did.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64485 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:47 am to
quote:

Here's another kicker. The cheaters name is in fact on the net. With the name of the wife (the one he cheated with) and husband. So I don't know who put that on the web, and if that husband has already been told.

Also the cheater was Fn on company time with these women. I'm sure they might be interested too. But that's a whole nother level




OK. We're still trying to understand how you know this woman is cheating on her husband. We don't need, or even want, to know the names of those involved. Just how it is you know, or think you know, she is cheating. Like I said in my first post, before going to this guy you need concrete proof. So, without going into names or specific places, how do you know she's cheating on her husband?
Posted by boddagetta
Moulton
Member since Mar 2011
9999 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:47 am to
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Pics of cheating woman


Can't believe this thread made it to page 3 before this showed up.

Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
66401 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:48 am to
your post makes no sense
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38954 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:49 am to
Sounds like you're really pissed at the guy...nothing's stopping you from trying to kick his arse. Being butt hurt about some other guy's approach to getting laid is sort of strange. I know your brother is hurt, but he has to look inside himself to figure out why his wife would step out on him. Blaming the guy who she cheated with is insane, even if he is good at it.
Posted by G Vice
Lafayette, LA
Member since Dec 2006
12915 posts
Posted on 6/1/15 at 9:51 am to
Define "on the web".

Has this been exposed on FB or a cheaters website?
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