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re: For those thinking about suicide

Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:03 pm to
Posted by SuperSaint
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Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:03 pm to
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This is news to me, but I love this man.

May have been before you found the board.


He is a good dude. Well if what Xie insinuated isn't true at least


He needs to be unbanned
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80196 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:04 pm to
because it's such a country twangy north louisiana word

shawn is now backtracking a bit because i think he realizes he was being a bit too harsh and judgmental

good for shawn.
Posted by Tigerfan56
Member since May 2010
10520 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:08 pm to
What were his initials?
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81188 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:08 pm to
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how can we judge the depths of someone else's pain? There are so many different kinds of struggles out there. Try to be kind to one another.




Yes ma'am.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:09 pm to
No I think I was painting with too broad of a brush.
There are true mental illnesses and there are cop outs using mental illness for an excuse not to deal with issues that are in front of you. The latter is what I have a huge issue with.

ETA: just like saying calling someone ignorant isn't a personal attack instead of explaining your point of view
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81188 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:10 pm to
quote:

I had been blessed to only have older relatives pass, but the day I lost my youngwr sister was by far the most awful experience of my life. And something I will never get over.



<3 I love you, sweet girl. I can't even being to imagine.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:10 pm to
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There are true mental illnesses and there are cop outs using mental illness for an excuse
If you think someone could "pull the trigger" and not have some sort of mental deficiency then I don't know what to tell you.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81188 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:10 pm to
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He needs to be unbanned



We speak off the board. We have mutual IRL friends, and of course I know him from here. His life is really looking in a good direction right now. He is doing very well in his career.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48430 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:11 pm to
They called him by a nickname *redacted*
This post was edited on 2/23/15 at 10:17 pm
Posted by hendersonshands
Univ. of Louisiana Ragin Cajuns
Member since Oct 2007
160104 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:11 pm to
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bullshite. It is 100% selfish and weak.


found the dumbass
Posted by Cobrasize
Birmingham
Member since Jun 2013
49682 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:11 pm to
I'm 39 now but my father committed suicide when I was 7. I actually found him. It's a pain that never goes away and when I was young, ignorant, and angry I hated him for it and considered it one of the most selfish things a person could do. As I got older, I began to feel sympathy for him. He was only 28, and as I started to get closer to his age it hit me just how troubled and helpless he must have felt. How he must have felt completely worthless and hopeless.
Now instead of anger towards him, it's just deep sympathy at how alone he had to feel.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80196 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:12 pm to
There may be people who do it because they don't want to face the consequences of their actions, but if you believe that, you have to believe they are rational in the moments before in that they realize what the consequences would be if they didn't kill themselves and then choose to end their life to dodge the consequences.

The next step in your logic is to believe a person in a rational state of mind puts a gun in their mouth and pulls the trigger, knowing they will die.

I just don't believe those two things are congruent.

Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:12 pm to
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His life is really looking in a good direction right now. He is doing very well in his career.
That's awesome. If he is reading this... Proud of you and I bought my ticket to catch the C-REV PAINTRAIN
Posted by CapitalCityDevil
Seattle
Member since Nov 2014
2916 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:13 pm to
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I had been blessed to only have older relatives pass, but the day I lost my youngwr sister was by far the most awful experience of my life. And something I will never get over.
I've never had siblings so it is impossible for me to understand that angle, but I know pain. Truly sorry to read this.

Time does not heal all wounds, but you're a stronger person due to it.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:13 pm to
And I don't know what to tell you because I do think there are people in this world that are 100% mentally capable but don't want to deal with their issues and the easy way out is "to pull the trigger" as you put it.
We will have to agree to disagree. You have more faith in humans than I do.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66418 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:13 pm to
Does he still wear turtle necks?
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:14 pm to
Well just saying that suicide is selfish and weak is ignorant

Look at Boosie, a fab member, who just said he struggled in the past and thought about it but was too much of a pussy to do anything about it

Like I said, it takes a lot to overcome the survival instinct. And you might contemplate that your friend had an undiagnosed mental disorder, even if not bipolar. It's the depression that gets you to that point
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
23578 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:14 pm to
CRev, as in CajunRevolution?
Posted by Tigerfan56
Member since May 2010
10520 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:14 pm to
Yeah that's him. I don't think anyone saw it coming. My friend woke up and found his body. Just an awful situation.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66418 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 10:15 pm to
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This is news to me, but I love this man.


#friendzoned
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