re: Do you use sir and ma'am with older coworkers?

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I've learned that in a professional environment the elders tend to get offended when you use sir, ma'am or mr.

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I have never had anyone get offended by my saying yes sir/yes ma'am. Never. I've had a few "Call me John, Mr. was my dad" and from then on, I called them by what they asked me to. Still say "yes, sir or no, sir" to them. I also work with a bunch of doctors, and wouldn't dare call them by anything other than Dr. So and So.

I use em on older and younger people than myself.

Not really. I'm not opposed to using it in some situations, but it would come across as too formal in my office.

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I'm almost 28, so no.

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What does being "almost 28" have to do with anything? Once you get "almost 28" you quite being respectful?

I'm 25 and I still call most of my co-workers, several which are below me on the totem pole, ma'am and sir. Just habit from growing up I guess.

It's weird though, kids have started calling me sir and I freaking hate it.

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It's weird though, kids have started calling me sir and I freaking hate it.

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Depends on the person/situation, but mostly no. There's a certain point where you become peers and the sir/ma'am stuff goes by the wayside.

I don't generally use it in a professional setting. I might have when I was a "kid" (i.e. in college or younger), but not since I have been a professional. I think it is a little odd for an adult to use it with someone they know and work with unless there was a huge age difference like 30 or more years. So if someone is my parents age or younger I tend to think of them as a peer and not use it, if someone is my grandparent's age I might use it.

But I do use it sometimes with adults that I do not know, especially if they are older. I think it is a nice holdover from a time with somewhat better manners than we have now.

Yep