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re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:50 am to SirWinston
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:50 am to SirWinston
quote:dude you are already behind the 8 ball.
The girl is hot - I'm a good catch myself, otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player". I was on top of the relationship 3 WEEKS ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.
quote:Which will only make her want to sleep with him more. If she already isn't.
She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters. I WILL work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.
I'll never understand why so many twenty-somethings get so over the top about new relationships. If you are dealing with this kind of heartache & "weakness" now. What makes you think this relationship will last?
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 9:53 am
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Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:50 am to Breesus
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very woman I have ever known who had guy friends and was also married eventually got divorced. every single one of them.
This is true for me too. There is no such thing as opposite sex friendships. There's only a man wanting to frick a girl, and she dont want him, but will use him for something(money, mental help, ego stroking) or vice versa.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:52 am to SirWinston
The fact that you see her social circle as a "rotten crowd" may be an even better sign that you may not want to invest too much into this relationship. The dude you're jelly of is less of an issue unless you make it a bigger one, IMO
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 9:53 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:52 am to SirWinston
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". I was on top of the relationship 3 weeks ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.
I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.
if this is what you got from the good advice in this thread, then you are missing the point. you are read instructions for building a chair and ending up with a dog house.
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She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters.
she is not spending every night with you. you do not know where she is on those other nights.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:53 am to SirWinston
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otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player".
Well how do you know she didn't say that to your friend with the intention of feigning a subordinate position (knowing that it would get back to you) in order to give you the illusion of having the upper hand?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:53 am to Displaced
quote:Yet another mistake on his part. He's put his full trust into someone he just got into a relationship with.
she is not spending every night with you. you do not know where she is on those other nights.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:54 am to Displaced
Lesson I learned the hard way in college and before i got married, in the dating world, is women are like ninjas with pussy. If you dont know where they are, and if they dont want you to know where they are, YOU WONT. If they are smart. And good looking women are masters of deceit if they want something.
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 9:57 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:55 am to SirWinston
Settle down. I was kidding. 
That's actually a very good attitude to have. Just see where it goes.
quote:
The girl is hot - I'm a good catch myself, otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player". I was on top of the relationship 3 weeks ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.
She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters. I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.
That's actually a very good attitude to have. Just see where it goes.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:56 am to JBeam
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He's put his full trust into someone he just got into a relationship with
no, he hasn't. this is his problem. he cant trust this girl. if he did, this thread doesn't exist.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:57 am to GreatLakesTiger24
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ou can't take him seriously.
I dont take that dipshit seriously. But if you're going to troll people, which he does, at least be good at it.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:00 am to JBeam
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Yet another mistake on his part. He's put his full trust into someone he just got into a relationship with.
2 weeks. He's been dating this girl for 2 weeks.
In female time, they arent dating and she doesnt even know if shes likes him yet.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:00 am to Displaced
quote:Fair enough, I just don't see the point it getting this up in arms over a chick he just started dating. Too many red flags for all this nonsense.
no, he hasn't. this is his problem. he cant trust this girl. if he did, this thread doesn't exist.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:01 am to Breesus
I'm not trolling dude. Jesus. That's the most overused saying on TD. Your arse is like Al Sharpton crying "racism" or Gloria Allred crying "rape" at the drop of a hat
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 10:02 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:02 am to SirWinston
quote:he wasn't talking about you, brah
I'm not trolling dude.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:02 am to JBeam
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Fair enough, I just don't see the point it getting this up in arms over a chick he just started dating. Too many red flags for all this nonsense.
agreed. this is why there are numerous posts telling him to cut her loose if he already has issues with this girl.
the beginning is supposed to be the easy part.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:03 am to Breesus
quote:Ah I missed this part. The OP said they were exclusive. So I assumed that they had been dating for a few months.
2 weeks. He's been dating this girl for 2 weeks.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:03 am to SirWinston
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I'm not trolling dude. Jesus. That's the most overused saying on TD. Your arse is like Al Sharpton crying "racism" or Gloria Allred crying "rape" at the drop of a hat
I was talking about tigerryno, not you. Calm your insecure self down.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:04 am to JBeam
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Ah I missed this part. The OP said they were exclusive. So I assumed that they had been dating for a few months.
Going out for 8 weeks, exclusive for 2 according to him.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:06 am to SirWinston
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I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great.
I can't possibly see this "working out". Maybe she can stay away from him, but this will flare up again in the future with someone else. Her behavior is disrespectful and unacceptable.
You seem to already have her viewpoint figured out-she finds this guy interesting, knows he is getting under your skin, and is trying to get a rise out of you. Why? Because it's funny to see a "player" like you get upset.
You've pretty much lost it by this point-however, you did get to bang a hot girl for a while so that's pretty cool. It seems like you can find another girl that isn't as hard on your ticker. Trying to put the guy down or out-alpha him is futile--your girlfriend will see right through what you're doing. I would focus less on fixing her shitty behavior and more on how you can stop the relationship on your own terms.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:07 am to Breesus
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