re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle

Let's stay on topic.

OP's GF is / was banging super alpha guy and now she is flirting with him in front of OP's face.

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i still think you are looking at this wrong.

if your relationship with a girl is a constant power strugle, then you are not in a healthy relationship.

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I agree with this very much.

But if this is this guys first relationship exclusively than he just needs to make mistakes and learn from them.

my honest opinion, is if you do say something to your g/f about it, she'll likely talk to one of her friends about it, and before you know it, everyone in your group will know that this guy intimidates you, and that wont be good for you.

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It's environmental shite. He's some junior professor who studies and lectures on renewable materials or something and she part time volunteers at local schools to talk about composting and the like.

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Go here " reading materials" scroll down until you see the categories tab on the left side of the page, pick a topic like renewable fuels from the categories menu and start reading the articles.

If you want to be able to talk about a topic, read all the most recent articles about it that you can find. If it were me, I would be a contrarian and try to find all the information I could opposite of whatever this guy is saying.

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my honest opinion, is if you do say something to your g/f about it, she'll likely talk to one of her friends about it, and before you know it, everyone in your group will know that this guy intimidates you, and that wont be good for you. 

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Completely agree

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But like I said, they're men. If given the chance I know they would hit it.

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thanks for proving my point. Woman like having that security blanket of surrounding themselves with subservient lap dogs who they know would drink a gallon of dirty bathwater just to get a sniff of a date with them. I've never met a woman in my life who had "guy friends" who was worthy of serious consideration…every woman I have ever known who had guy friends and was also married eventually got divorced. every single one of them.

Order this book - The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

Fantastic book. Amazon can ship quick, you can be reading/implementing this stuff for your old homegirl by Thanksgiving.

You're welcome.

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Go here " reading materials" scroll down until you see the categories tab on the left side of the page, pick a topic like renewable fuels from the categories menu and start reading the articles.

If you want to be able to talk about a topic, read all the most recent articles about it that you can find. If it were me, I would be a contrarian and try to find all the information I could opposite of whatever this guy is saying.

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Don't want to end up like this guy though

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Why do you allow yourself to hang out with people you don't like who won't even talk to you?

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THIS X100000.

If the GF hasnt fricked him, she clearly wants to, and is using to OP until she gets it. Its written clearly on the wall. How old is OP?

Look that's ridiculous and simplistic. You went from being very helpful to getting influenced by peer pressure in the thread so resorting to the lowest common denominator.

The girl is hot - I'm a good catch myself, otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player". I was on top of the relationship 3 weeks ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.

She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters. I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.