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re: Am I an a-hole for this wedding attedance situation?
Posted on 6/18/16 at 11:15 pm to Jcorye1
Posted on 6/18/16 at 11:15 pm to Jcorye1
Go Wednesday. Have a threesome with your girl and the bride on Thursday night. Friday, at the wedding when they ask if anyone objects, stand up and let them know a Friday wedding is for morons and that you object to it.
Go home Friday night and miss the Saturday reception that you didn't want to go to anyway.
Begin hunt for new girlfriend.
Go home Friday night and miss the Saturday reception that you didn't want to go to anyway.
Begin hunt for new girlfriend.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 12:50 am to Hangit
LOL at all the betas up in here saying "go so you can get some sex" and "negotiate it to where you get some hotel sex!"
It is your GF. You should be banging that gash multiple times a day. Anybody who has to go to these lengths to get laid is pathetic.
Your GF is making this event about her when it is for the bride and groom. You need to make her understand that she is being selfish and that your work is more important than her desire to be the center of attention. If you are an alpha she truly respects then she won't get railed by a groomsman Friday night. Nevertheless, she needs to be taught right now that you are not some one who wil be coerced or guilted into doing something illogical for a piece of arse.
It is your GF. You should be banging that gash multiple times a day. Anybody who has to go to these lengths to get laid is pathetic.
Your GF is making this event about her when it is for the bride and groom. You need to make her understand that she is being selfish and that your work is more important than her desire to be the center of attention. If you are an alpha she truly respects then she won't get railed by a groomsman Friday night. Nevertheless, she needs to be taught right now that you are not some one who wil be coerced or guilted into doing something illogical for a piece of arse.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 1:14 am to Dick Leverage
The bride and groom won't give a shite whether you, a virtual stranger, are there or not.
This is all the girlfriend wanting you to see her in the wedding party and tell her how awesome her hair and makeup looked.
Sounds narcissistic, but it's just female genetics,
This is all the girlfriend wanting you to see her in the wedding party and tell her how awesome her hair and makeup looked.
Sounds narcissistic, but it's just female genetics,
Posted on 6/19/16 at 6:45 am to Tigerfan56
If you think you might want to end up with this girl you better get your arse to the wedding, if not show up whenever.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 6:51 am to lsu480
[quote]If you think you might want to end up with this girl you better get your arse to the wedding, if not show up whenever.
This!!! Weddings are a big deal for girls and their friends,it's a very emotional time, if you screw this up, you will be sorry.If this is the girl you want to be with forever you best get yo arse over there when your gf says to. It's only ONE weekend just do it,it will pay off for you down the road.
This!!! Weddings are a big deal for girls and their friends,it's a very emotional time, if you screw this up, you will be sorry.If this is the girl you want to be with forever you best get yo arse over there when your gf says to. It's only ONE weekend just do it,it will pay off for you down the road.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 6:57 am to Tigerfan56
I would go. She wants to show you off and you'll look like a rockstar for going. If y'all don't work out, you at least have been introduced to all her hot friends you can smash. A 7 hour drive isn't that big of a deal. Download some comedy specials and you'll be there in no time laughing your arse off.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 7:03 am to LewDawg
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A 7 hour drive isn't that big of a deal
It's not but you can fly one way for $200 MAX one way to anywhere that is within a 7 hour drive. Why wouldn't he just take a half day Friday, fly out and drive back with her? It would save him money, save him 7 hours in a car and maybe save his relationship.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 7:05 am to lsu480
Even better idea. Either way, getting to that wedding is ideal.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 7:14 am to LewDawg
Right now they plan on putting 28 hours on their cars between them, he could make that 14 for the cost of a $200 or less flight and at the same time make his GF happy. Driving at 60 miles an hour for 14 hours means you have traveled 840 miles. Between gas, added miles that bring down the value of your car and wear and tear that is going to cost you AT LEAST 25 cents a mile so not even factoring in the other things like like saving 5-6 hours time flying and having a better relationship it would be retarded not to fly. I swear some people have no problem solving skills, his plan is about the worst I have ever heard!
This post was edited on 6/19/16 at 7:18 am
Posted on 6/19/16 at 7:16 am to lsu480
I wouldn't go regardless of the their relationship status, situation, and time they've been together.
But that's just me because I'm a dick
But that's just me because I'm a dick
Posted on 6/19/16 at 7:56 am to Bama and Beer
Plus you would see the same people at the family reunion anyway
Posted on 6/19/16 at 7:58 am to Tigerfan56
It's your girlfriend's best friend. Just go.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 7:58 am to LewDawg
quote:who does this anymore?
family reunion
Posted on 6/19/16 at 8:27 am to Tigerfan56
There is no sense in wasting a vacation day to go to someone's wedding that you barely know.
On that note I thought my wife was an idiot for taking off to be in the wedding of a coworker. Now she is going to have we will miss that day's pay when we go on vacation because she is out of time and chose to burn one of her last days on someone's wedding that she doesn't even associate with outside of work.
On that note I thought my wife was an idiot for taking off to be in the wedding of a coworker. Now she is going to have we will miss that day's pay when we go on vacation because she is out of time and chose to burn one of her last days on someone's wedding that she doesn't even associate with outside of work.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 9:18 am to Donkeypunch
Any wedding BS is forgivable, EXCEPT weddings on Saturday's during football season.
Posted on 6/19/16 at 9:37 am to upgrayedd
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Friday weddings for Catholics are pretty much the norm these days in many places in south LA
Most catholic churches won't allow afternoon or evening weddings on Saturday because they have mass.
So if you don't want to have your wedding at 9 am you do it Friday night
Posted on 6/19/16 at 10:46 am to Tigerfan56
Who has the reception the next day? The whole point of going to the wedding is the reception immediately after.
Posted on 6/20/16 at 4:39 pm to Twenty 49
Exactly. She is making it HER day when it is not. If you are an effective leader, you can make her understand this and make her a better person and have her seek your counsel later in life on issues where she cannot delineate selfish motivations from logical reasoning. Or......you can be pathetic and weak just because you have to cave in to illogical demands to get the pussy.
Posted on 6/20/16 at 4:51 pm to Dick Leverage
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If you are an alpha she truly respects then she won't get railed by a groomsman Friday night.
--She's going to be pissed at him
--She's going to be drinking
--It's a wedding reception and she doesn't have a date, every hard leg in the place will be after her.
It's inevitable.
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:01 pm to Tigerfan56
Im in a similar situation. Friday wedding, I only really know her and not the groom, nor anyone else that will be at the wedding, and its on a Friday, 7+ hours away from where I live. I had originally planned to go when I thought it was on a saturday, but I am drawing the line at taking PTO for a wedding I'm not going to know anyone in.
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