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re: Am I an a-hole for this wedding attedance situation?

Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:09 am to
Posted by roadGator
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Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:09 am to
You are right.

However, you are wrong too. You are only wrong because your girlfriend is right. She is only right because she controls the sex. If she didn't, you'd be right and she'd be wrong.
Posted by SW2SCLA
We all float down here
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Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:09 am to
How has no one asked for pics of the gf yet? OT is fricking slipping
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:09 am to
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I told her I didn't want to take a vacation day Friday and would rather go up Friday night and be there for the reception and rest of weekend.


This is exactly why I said in the wedding thread the other day that Friday weddings are a pain in the arse.

I don't think you're an a-hole for this, and I also expected to come into this thread saying you were
This post was edited on 6/10/16 at 10:12 am
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52164 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:09 am to
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I don't think you're an a-hole for this, and I also expected to come into this thread saying you were

me too
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:09 am to
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Wtf dude. Take off work and go be with your wife at the event on Friday. Read again. If it were his wife the circumstances would be a little different. It's only his gf though


Exactly.

Dude needs to straighten his GF out NOW or his life will suck.

It's a friend of the girl you are dating. You don't take off work for that crap.

TBH, the couple does not care if you come at all. You don't matter in the least to either of them or their parents.

Your GF is being a needy biotch. Tell her to grow up, spend an evening with her girlfriends and you will be there when it is convenient. (Say it nicely though or you won't get the vacation poonanny)
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:10 am to
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Friday weddings for Catholics are pretty much the norm these days in many places in south LA


Not in the only city worth a shite.

ETA: Let's see if that derails the thread.
This post was edited on 6/10/16 at 10:10 am
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:10 am to
Vacation days are valuable to me. Not spending one a person that I have only met in person twice
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:11 am to
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Dump her. Murder her.
reasonable reaction to this situation
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:11 am to
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Read again. If it were his wife the circumstances would be a little different. It's only his gf though



My wife knows the chances of me going to a wedding that is 7 hours away that isn't a close friend or family member are close to 0.
This post was edited on 6/10/16 at 10:12 am
Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:11 am to
Should of just told her that you were out of vacation time and couldn't take that day off.
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52164 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:11 am to
don't bring Welsh into this
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129044 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:12 am to
Tell her you will get there when you get there and that this is exactly why you are never marrying.



Report back to us how responds to that.
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52164 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:12 am to
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My wife knows the chances of me going to a wedding that isn't a close friend or family member are close to 0.

What if it was a really good friend of hers from years ago and she asked you to go?
Posted by MMauler
Member since Jun 2013
19216 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:12 am to
Out of all the things that make you a complete f*cking a$$hole, this isn't even in the top 50.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19429 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:12 am to
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My girlfriend and I live 7 hours away
quote:

We're driving


dude, frick that. Just fly
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83953 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:13 am to
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What if it was a really good friend of hers from years ago and she asked you to go?



I meant to add one that is 7 hours away.
Posted by lsufan_26
Member since Feb 2004
12559 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:13 am to
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how great is your gf's vagina?

It's not bad
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21578 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:14 am to
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My girlfriend


Pics please! Gotta figure out if she's gonna be hitchin up with one of the groomsman while you not there.
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52164 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:15 am to
It's even worse that you'd make your wife travel alone 7 hours without you
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20532 posts
Posted on 6/10/16 at 10:15 am to
She wants you there for the wedding so she can show you off, period. She also wants you there to show that you are a good guy. You not showing up for the wedding doesn't let her show you off and furthermore shows her and her friends that you DGAF about what she wants.

So if the poon is great and you like the girl I'd go. If not, it's your choice. There's no win win here unless you PIIHB for showing up.
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