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Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:46 pm
Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:46 pm
My girlfriend and I are looking to buy a house around the first of the year.

Combined gross income of $113k/yr with additional income from commission of ~$10-15k/yr. 10% of this goes into retirement accounts. We both expect to advance in our careers and subsequently earn more as time goes on.

About $30k in student loan debt resulting in monthly payments of about $600. There is the option to restructure this to about $300/mo. About $700/mo in auto payments. No credit card or other debt.

My credit is about 810. Hers is around 700.

What is the MT general advice on home price limit, expected interest rate, etc. This board has been a very useful source of info, but some input on my personal situation is appreciated.

TIA

Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:52 pm to
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Buy a house



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Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:54 pm to
What? Doesn't adhere to your moral code? My apologies.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:55 pm to
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What? Doesn't adhere to your moral code? My apologies.


No. It's just dumb.
Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:56 pm to
Why?
Posted by Ric Flair
Charlotte
Member since Oct 2005
13656 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:16 pm to
Need more info:
Cost of house
Backup plan if breakup before getting married (need a pre-prenup type document to address this).
Posted by Bayou Tiger
Member since Nov 2003
3658 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:18 pm to
Sharing a home loan with a girlfriend is as bad of an idea as cosigning a student loan. You are both burned if something happens to the relationship and somebody misses a payment, especially if neither of you can afford the payment individually.

Instead, just let one person buy the house and get the loan in their name. The other person can just write a check for half each month.

Qualifying for a loan based on only one of the incomes will also keep you out of trouble with too big of a house early on. Even if you stay together, life changes with kids and you can always move and upgrade later.
Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:20 pm to
Don't worry about the pre-nup/marriage stuff. She and I have that covered. I certainly appreciate everyone's concern, however.

The cost of the house is part of my inquiry. I'm trying to determine what we can reasonably afford given our financial position.
Posted by LSUSUPERSTAR
TX
Member since Jan 2005
16312 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:23 pm to
Bankrate.com has some good calculators.

Ages?
Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:25 pm to
If it makes everyone more comfortable with what has been presented, you can pretend I said wife. I'm OK with that.

I'm looking for advice on financials, not my romantic situation.
Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:25 pm to
30 and 33
Posted by Cousin
The Bayou
Member since Feb 2012
5273 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:41 pm to
quote:

I'm looking for advice on financials, not my romantic situation.
Posted by guttata
prairieville
Member since Feb 2006
22506 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:43 pm to
Just make sure the house is not in both of your names.
Posted by Sigma
Fairhope, AL
Member since Dec 2005
3643 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:44 pm to
What do you spend monthly outside of servicing debt and retirement?

Are your cars more important than a nicer home?
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8375 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:45 pm to
Just because I like round numbers; $2000 per month max on mortgage, property tax and insurance given your numbers.
Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:45 pm to
Haha, seemingly an oxymoron, I know. We have it figured out though. Lucky us, I guess.

Lotta bitter guys here.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8375 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:48 pm to
You can use a mortgage calculator of you want to figure out what you can buy for that amount. Hope you have some money saved. I basically paid my lot down for 6 years before building as means of saving
Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:49 pm to
Cars aren't important. I have a 2010 Tacoma I'll pay off in 1.5 years. I won't be getting anything else unless absolutely necessary. She drives a shitty Accord. We'll get her another cheap small car when necessary.

Monthly expenditure outside of debt and retirement averages around $1200 if I had to guess. I'd have to pull statements to be sure.
Posted by doggy dirty
Member since Feb 2009
81 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:52 pm to
I know of the various calculators and they are certainly useful.

I'm looking for advice from the real world to see how it matches with what the calculators say.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:54 pm to
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She and I have that covered.


Uhhh....ok If I had a dollar......

Listen to wiser people than you! You ask for finanical help and it starts with stability. "pre-nup" "marraige stuff" has nothing to do with 2 uncommitted people buying a house together.

That being said, you will regret not heeding advise on that topic because a split will ruin everything you've done to get into the 800's.

Guys, I think he's looking for some sort of guideline on how much of your disposable income should you put towards a home.

OP, the problem might not be the note, but the mere fact that the home will cause you additional bills (furniture, electricity, etc). You also didn't cover if you had the down payment of 20% if it were a $200k home they suggest. If not, you may have to factor in a PMI amount.

BTW, why aren't you even engaged to someone you want to buy a home with?
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