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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
Try some Delsym. ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote]His whole name or just his last name is being changed? Did his mama give him a decent first name?[/quote] Great first name and second name. I just had his last name changed to mine. ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
Sorry if I'm giving you a "shitty tale gone potentially good" story........
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote]Don't let your girlfriend around your son.[/quote] She is not allowed around him. She and I would have to be very serious about each other, and it would still be a while before I would allow it. I don't want to introduce more confusion to my son. ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
I have no idea what to say about him. I just found out that I'm a dad. It's a conflicting deal for me. ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote] People on here are assuming you are re-hooking up with this chick. Are you just stepping up and being a dad?[/quote] Yes. I have a girlfriend who has been completely accepting of this from day 1. I can't even believe how accepting she has been. It has been a true blessing. ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote]See, that's your problem. You only want to hear the attaboys. And those are fine. But the Ones that you really need to listen to are the ones warning you of what's gonna happen. Because they've seen it happen. You don't want to think about it but protecting yourself and your kid NOW is ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
I've been around the O-T long enough to understand that I'll get some stupid or disingenuous responses. However, I have received enough positive responses to completely offset those responses. For those of you who have given me positive responses, I thank you. For those who haven't, please underst...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote] Again, I'll ask, is he on the birth cert[/quote] It doesn't matter at this point. The birth certificate and social security card have to be changed. The court's ruling already allows she and I to take care of that. That's the next step. In the judgement of the court, though, his last name...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote]What's the role of the former "dad"? Did he just bail altogether once he learned the kid was not his biological, or is he still in the picture? Just curious how he reacted[/quote] He completely bailed out. I can't possibly judge him for doing anything. I'm not in his shoes. ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote]WTF is this. She raised the child the first 3 years with her husband knowing it was your child. [/quote] He didn't know. She was trying to save her marriage and never told him. ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote]Congrats on doing the right thing. You should consider a few sessions for yourself with a child psychologist to ease this very significant event for the kid. Good luck![/quote] I've already talked to a child psychologist about how to transition my son's mindset of who I am to him. I've ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote]Congratulations! Just be a good father to him. Unfortunately, the mother will probably take most of your money and still limit access. Don't trust her and be guarded about what you say. Get an arranged visitation schedule and hold her to it. She will try to use you for her convenience. Do...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote] You believe that story?[/quote] Well, I'm living it, so yes ...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
[quote]Have you seen a copy of the test?[/quote] I paid for the test, and the courts require it, so yes...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
I remember everything. She was an ex girlfriend of mine who was legally separated from her husband for 4 months when we started seeing each other again. She broke it off with me after she found out she was pregnant and reconciled with her husband. She didn't tell anyone, so I went about my way no...
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re: I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
He is a great kid. I'm actually really happy that he is mine. I would really appreciate any positive advice. It's difficult going from zero to dad in a day. ...
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I just found out I have 3 year old son - tooshea8
Paternity test has been done, and he's most certainly mine. Any recommendations on how to help raise a 3 year old boy? He is my first child, and it is a bit daunting, especially considering I've had no forewarning. I've already gone through the court system. His name has been changed, and his mot...
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