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graduated from William and Mary Law School and has an excellent job as an attorney for a Fortune 100 tech company. She lives alone in a fabulous apartment in northern Virginia and is available!

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I will be honest with you. Is she a typical American female that wants to marry across or above her status? Most men don’t care about any of the stuff you just mentioned. They want peace, a family, and a good wife. A woman’s job is completely irrelevant to most men. Women care very much about what men do for a living. She may have priced herself right out of the market. The more educated a woman is the more likely she is to be single. Career comes before family for most of these women. This may not be your daughter, but she is caught up in the mentality of this.

If you are successful as a man, there is absolutely 0 reason to ever get married today. Marriage does nothing for a man besides put all his success (assets) at risk for a 50%+ chance of a divorce.

So until equality shows up in divorces, don't risk it.

Both of y'all listed a bunch of credentials but no pictures.


I'm probably different than others here in that I DO appreciate the things you've listed...but not in the same way you think.

Those things tell me they're reasonably intelligent, have discipline, a good work ethic, etc. I value those things in the person context, how it translates into wife/mother. I do NOT care how they translate into a career, career success, etc.

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Not as old, but my daughter, 23, graduated cum laude, Dean's list every semester and Presidents list 9 semesters, Finance degree, 6-figure income right off the bat at a big 3 investment firm dealing in monetary funds, works out every day, runs 6-10 miles at a time, and with model looks. Single. Seeing a guy, but no ring. He lives in Austin. She's in Dallas. Ready to be swept off her feet by a tall, good-looking professional who has his shite together.

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Again, majority of men do not care about any of that. How does this help a high value man when he is looking for a wife? The reality is she will be looking for this kind of high value in demand man. The kind of man she wants has options besides her. He has no motivation to settle down. She will not be marrying Joe the electrician or plumber. This sounds like a western feminist resume. None of these things tell me she will be a good mother with feminine qualities. You feminist fathers are part of the problem. These women are all competing for the top 10-15% of men. Good luck to her.

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Looking for a wife?

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No Mickey Pelosi is this thread?

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majority of men do not care about any of that.

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Well, they probably care about this part:

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works out every day, runs 6-10 miles at a time, and with model looks

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But that's about it.

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These women are all competing for the top 10-15% of men.

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Not even close.

If you were to take her likely criteria and apply all the filters I'd be shocked if it was above the top 2% of men, and would bet money that even 2% is too high.

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23, graduated cum laude, Dean's list every semester and Presidents list 9 semesters, Finance degree, 6-figure income right off the bat at a big 3 investment firm dealing in monetary funds, works out every day, runs 6-10 miles at a time, and with model looks. Single. Seeing a guy, but no ring. He lives in Austin. She's in Dallas. Ready to be swept off her feet by a tall, good-looking professional who has his shite together

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You? Or her?

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Women have been hella lied to by feminism and so many of them have bought the lies hook, line, and sinker.

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And, when you've been lied to and reach a time when it's starting to become obvious, even to you............you will accept pretty much any explanation that allows you to pass off blame elsewhere. So, you invent stories of all sorts of anti-male shite that are pure silliness.

That, and you make yourself into a victim which is why so damned many women are in "therapy" and on drugs.

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Single. Seeing a guy, but no ring. He lives in Austin. She's in Dallas. Ready to be swept off her feet by a tall, good-looking professional who has his shite together.

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So she's single, but seeing a guy, long distance of course, so it's "complicated" but also she's gonna dump him as soon as Mr. BetterThan comes along??

Why would a man commit to someone who can't commit?? Plus she's literally setting herself up to drive away all the dudes who respect monogamy since she's technically in a relationship already.

She better be spending all 6 figures for a man to put up with that shite.