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Interesting topic for OT parents... Sleepovers

Posted on 3/4/15 at 9:58 am
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 9:58 am
Wife forwarded me this Article she read on Facebook the other day.
I've never thought about it really, mine's in kindergarten and after reading I'm leaning towards the couple's point of view in the link.

Plus I watched the movie Prisoners the other day and the thought of something terrible happening to my child makes me physically I'll.

Here is the article.
Curious to know how other people feel about this topic.

LINK
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55664 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 9:59 am to
quote:

Why My Family Doesn't Do Sleepovers
Those kids were always weird.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101470 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:00 am to
This is sort of silly:

quote:

Sadly, the world has changed in the last few decades, and it is no longer a safe place for children. Pedophiles and child molesters are more pervasive than ever.


As is most of the rest of that article.
Posted by CaptainPanic
18.44311,-64.764021
Member since Sep 2011
25582 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:01 am to
fricking nerds
Posted by RB10
Member since Nov 2010
43851 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:01 am to
Well, we all know what his daughters are going to do when they get to college.
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
24930 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:03 am to
For very young children that can't communicate well, I agree that sleepovers aren't a good idea. Once a kid gets old enough to know what is going on and tell me about it, I think sleepovers are okay as long as you vet the situation well. You can't go through life too scared all the time.
This post was edited on 3/4/15 at 10:05 am
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
26584 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:04 am to
Your kids are going to have shitty childhoods if they are only in kindergarten and you're buying into crap like this. Better hope you have sons because if you have daughters they are going to be giant whores in college.
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
20686 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:04 am to
Just put your kid in a bubble and lock him/her in the basement and never let them see the light of day.

Probably the best route to take.
Posted by Sid in Lakeshore
Member since Oct 2008
41956 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:04 am to
quote:

I think sleepovers are okay as long as you vet the situation well. You can't go through life too scared all the time.


This. Part of the reason I pay to send my children to school where I do.
Posted by Ole Geauxt
KnowLa.
Member since Dec 2007
50880 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:04 am to
Its a different world now than when my kids were around. I'd rather err being over cautious, than too lax,,,within reason. They need socialization, but, it's a very thin line.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38410 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:05 am to
I dont see the problem as long as I know the parents. Granted, I live in a small town so most of the people my kids will grow up with I know personally. I just dont see the point in generalizing the whole situation. This is where good parenting comes into the picture. If you dont trust the parents the he/she would be staying at then dont let them go. If you do, I dont see the big deal.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101470 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:05 am to
quote:

Its a different world now than when my kids were around.


No it's not.
Posted by Sam Waterston
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
1992 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:05 am to
Not to take away from the topic, but what does the author imply by saying "visited the South"

Who the hell says that?


Edit: in relation to the actual topic, while I'm sure things can and do happen, as a parent, you take caution with things, but you are also not wanting to prohibit your children from everything...
This post was edited on 3/4/15 at 10:09 am
Posted by colorchangintiger
Dan Carlin
Member since Nov 2005
30979 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:06 am to
quote:

This is sort of silly:


Not only is is silly, it's completely false.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:06 am to
I disagreed until he brought age into the conversation.

Guy said when his kids got little older they relaxed their stance in it.
Mine is 6.
She's not capable of not letting someone older take advtg of her ahould they chose to do so.

I don't when they age stops... 10? 11? 12?
Prob different with every kid.
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8627 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:06 am to
Don't know.

I agree that you never know what's going on behind someone's else's door.

It's scary to think about how many predators are out there and even enabled by their spouses.

However, I don't think you can completely shelter them from everything.
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5574 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:07 am to
quote:

Its a different world now than when my kids were around.


Hate this saying. No, it's not different at all. You think child molesters just magically appeared in recent decades?

There is just more access to the stories now through technology and media.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101470 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:07 am to
quote:

Guy said when his kids got little older they relaxed their stance in it.
Mine is 6.
She's not capable of not letting someone older take advtg of her ahould they chose to do so.


That's sort of a different argument, though. There's no real point in having "sleepovers" with 4 year olds.
Posted by Ole Geauxt
KnowLa.
Member since Dec 2007
50880 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:08 am to
Keep thinking that. Do your kids stay out every night playing, building rafts, hunting and fishing until you blow the truck horn to signal them to come in, I really doubt it.
Posted by Meauxjeaux
98836 posts including my alters
Member since Jun 2005
39980 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:09 am to
Sandusky had sleepovers.
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