re: How do you get a girl with a boyfriend?

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It's complicated. Just watch the first 4 seasons of The Office

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Yeah, Jim passed up on two better women to get with Pam, who turned into a shrew when they got together.

OP, this girl isn't worth the effort. You're going to wait all this time to find out she's going to fall short of everything you've idealized about her by then.

Best advice you will get...
You are in the friend zone. That's why you aren't with her.
You are her confront blanket. Stop doing that shite.
You tell her that you like/love her and she should be with you.
If she doesn't want to be with you then stop chasing it. Just let her learn the hard way.

Doesn't mean you can't talk to her but don't be so damn reliable when they fight or she's lonely that's THE BOYFRIENDS job. Tell her that shite. Tell her your doing his job for him. He's slacking off.

If she can't see that then just talk to her when you want to. Don't be a dick or too nice just be confident and know what you want.

Personal experience man. Had to learn the hard way.
Girl apologized 2 yrs later saying she shoulda been with me and she was sorry she couldn't see that earlier. But it was too late I moved on.

If you keep playing her game she will make a mess outa you.
Hope this helps my man.

Let her know you're interested, cut contact, and let the relationship run its course. The last thing you want to be is the douche who helped break up the relationship - same shite is just going to happen to you when she gets bored. There are way too many women out there...don't be a scumbag

It's obvious that this situation is the women's version of "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?".

Why would she have to make hard relationship/life choices when you are giving her all of the emotional support that she wants?

If you want to frick her.... just do it. She's already decided whether she would or wouldn't frick you.

If you want a relationship, it is a bit more complicated, but one part is clear.
You should make your intentions known and quit being the emotional support.
Make her make a decision. She will break up with her boyfriend if she truly prefers you.

Either way.... it will work out best for you this way.

Challenge him to a gentleman's duel with pistols at high noon in front of the courthouse for the whole town to witness. 6 shooter and 10 paces standard.

Too late.

She'll soon be asking you about her next BF b/c you are a "friend".

Move on, while you still have some male hormones left.

Go buy some military type boots, tell her you need her opinion. Come out naked in your boots.

She's either going to want the dick or not want the dick.

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But seriously

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dude why did you feel the need to even put seriously, this is ot, its always seriousness

Date other girls don't a prick and constantly ask her about her bf