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Do you say someone's name when you greet them or say goodbye?

Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:07 am
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:07 am
For example: "Hello, John. How are you today?" or "Goodbye, Kentravious."

I just noticed that I never say their name and most other people do. Am I some kind of freak?
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101920 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:08 am to
If their name was Kentravious, then frick yeah I would.
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
38741 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:08 am to
quote:

Do you say someone's name when you greet them or say goodbye?


If I know it, I usually do.
Posted by brucevilanch
Fort Worth, Tejas
Member since May 2011
24333 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:09 am to
Depends on the person.
Posted by RonFNSwanson
University of LSU
Member since Mar 2012
23177 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:09 am to
I usually don't
Posted by MSMHater
Houston
Member since Oct 2008
22775 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:09 am to
In a business setting, always.

Casual, not so much.
Posted by MasCervezas
Ocean Springs
Member since Jul 2013
7958 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:09 am to
i usually do if i know their name.

some people just assume you don't know their name if you don't use it when you greet them
Posted by TequilaMockingBird
Member since Jul 2013
823 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:09 am to
Only if its a bitch
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:09 am to
I hardly ever say someone's name unless I'm mentioning them to someone else.
Posted by TexasTiger01
Lake Houston
Member since Nov 2013
3215 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:10 am to
[quote]I just noticed that I never say their name and most other people do. Am I some kind of freak?[/quote]

Yes
Posted by Dr. Shultz
Baton Rouge, La
Member since Jun 2013
6391 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:10 am to
I never say names. Most of the time I dont remember their name anyways.

Just a "Hey, how are you?" "Alright, Cya later"
Posted by TexasTiger01
Lake Houston
Member since Nov 2013
3215 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:10 am to
quote:

In a business setting, always. Casual, not so much.


This ^^^^^
Posted by LSUGrad9295
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2007
33496 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:11 am to
Something I learned in a communications class at LSU way back in the day...

People LOVE to hear their name used in conversation. It makes them feel good. When I learned this, I have always made a point to use people's name when I can...especially if it is a fairly new acquaintance.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:11 am to
I try to.

PRetty good about it when greeting people.
Posted by FelicianaTigerfan
Comanche County
Member since Aug 2009
26059 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:11 am to
I do. and if just meeting them I repeat it in hopes it helps me remember their name
Posted by lsu31always
Team 31™
Member since Jan 2008
107744 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:12 am to
I always get their name wrong on purpose. Nothing I don't care more than getting their name wrong.
Posted by TequilaMockingBird
Member since Jul 2013
823 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:12 am to
quote:

Something I learned in a communications class at LSU way back in the day...

People LOVE to hear their name used in conversation. It makes them feel good. When I learned this, I have always made a point to use people's name when I can...especially if it is a fairly new acquaintance.

This is 100% true. Hence why I said only to girls
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
18913 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:13 am to
That's some business sales BS they teach when you use peoples name to both show them that they are important (Look! I know who you are.) and to make them feel a "connection" to you.

That stuff is true and does work BUT some idiots way overuse it and continually say the other parties name in lieu of pronouns. "Well Bill, knowing that our widget is vitally important to the success of your business I think it needs to be bought. Don't you Bill? I mean, Bill, after all you want to be successful. Right Bill?"

I literally tune people out when they pull that crap on me.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:14 am to
No but it's good to throw it in once or twice.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55675 posts
Posted on 4/16/14 at 10:14 am to
quote:

When people get a little too chummy with me I like to call them by the wrong name to let them know I don't really care about them.

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