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Taking someone who is grieving a meal

Posted on 1/21/13 at 6:04 am
Posted by TexasTiger05
Member since Aug 2007
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Posted on 1/21/13 at 6:04 am
What is a good thing to bring? Something light/heavy/?

Need to add that I'll be bringing this about 1 month after the funeral, so they'll have a lot of food in their freezer already

I signed up for pulled pork sandwiches and jalapeno cole slaw, checked the list and saw there was a bunch of pasta and one pot dishes and figured this was a good change.

But still would love other suggestions....
This post was edited on 1/21/13 at 9:36 am
Posted by Layabout
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2011
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Posted on 1/21/13 at 6:08 am to
One-dish meals like beef stew or chicken and dumplings that you can ladle out into a single serving and microwave.
Posted by SW2SCLA
We all float down here
Member since Feb 2009
22813 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 6:09 am to
Can't go wrong with a good chicken and sausage gumbo
Posted by Jamohn
Das Boot
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 1/21/13 at 6:15 am to
quote:

One-dish meals like beef stew or chicken and dumplings that you can ladle out into a single serving and microwave.
Yeah. How well the dish keeps/reheats is important because appetites in these situations can be unpredictable.
Posted by Dark Tiger
Member since Sep 2006
4494 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 6:47 am to
quote:

What is a good thing to bring?


A simple chicken spaghetti (even add velvetta cheese to it) is always an easy meal to fix and heat up, etc..
Posted by Ole Geauxt
KnowLa.
Member since Dec 2007
50880 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 7:37 am to
05, we've always done things like casseroles. as someone said, it can be heated up easily in oven or microwave, or if too much food shows up it's convenient to freeze.

eta,,, although, i just read what you're taking,,, i'd much rather have that, as long as it could be served new or "fresh"... That doesn't sound good, but u know what i mean..
This post was edited on 1/21/13 at 7:49 am
Posted by OldSouth
Folsom, LA
Member since Oct 2011
10940 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 8:06 am to
quote:

Taking someone who is grieving a meal


Did their meal die?



Anyway, This:

quote:

One-dish meals like beef stew or chicken and dumplings that you can ladle out into a single serving and microwave
Posted by TexasTiger05
Member since Aug 2007
28326 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 8:42 am to
quote:

Did their meal die?

yes. rip spaghetti.

Anyway,
thanks for the unnecessary grammar lesson


quote:

although, i just read what you're taking,,, i'd much rather have that, as long as it could be served new or "fresh"... That doesn't sound good, but u know what i mean
..
I was thinking it would be a nice change. I signed up on this website where you schedule what day you'll go and what you'll bring. Pretty much everything else was a casserole, one pot dish or pasta. Which, I totally get. I was just wondering if I should bring something to mix it up a bit.
This post was edited on 1/21/13 at 8:51 am
Posted by Darla Hood
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Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 1/21/13 at 8:44 am to
quote:

I signed up for pulled pork sandwiches and jalapeno cole slaw, checked the list and saw there was a bunch of pasta and one pot dishes and figured this was a good change.

It is a very good change. May I suggest that you make sure that the containers you use don't need to be returned? (One less thing for them to worry about.)

A deli tray of sliced ham, turkey, roast beef and cheese is also nice. Easy for sandwiches when people are eating at different times. Maybe also provide some kind of good bread or croissants to go with.
Posted by Rohan2Reed
Member since Nov 2003
75674 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 8:48 am to
quote:

A simple chicken spaghetti (even add velvetta cheese to it)


what the?
Posted by Cajunate
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 1/21/13 at 8:49 am to
Something not always thought about is a nice dessert. A little something like that can really put the thought over the top. Maybe brownies or cupcakes.
Posted by TexasTiger05
Member since Aug 2007
28326 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 8:50 am to
quote:

May I suggest that you make sure that the containers you use don't need to be returned? (One less thing for them to worry about.)
good idea, even though I'd never expect them to return them I think getting stuff that's clearly newly store bought is a great idea.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
162219 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 8:52 am to
quote:

How well the dish keeps/reheats is important because appetites in these situations can be unpredictable.


Yeah

You could always go with an apple pie or some cobbler or something too
Posted by TexasTiger05
Member since Aug 2007
28326 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 8:54 am to
that's a great idea. I really wanted to bring them some salads with a ton of veggies, etc (that's a definite change up) or thought cut fruit- but like everyone said it's best if it's something they can freeze and use later.

I like the dessert idea for sure
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48569 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 9:01 am to
Veggie tray or cut fruit is an awesome idea. Not everyone wants heavy carbs and sugar which is what most people bring.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98182 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 9:03 am to
Something they can freeze. They'll have so much food right now they'll never be able to eat. Later on, they'll appreciate having something they can thaw out and eat.
Posted by Rohan2Reed
Member since Nov 2003
75674 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 9:06 am to
a bottle of whiskey
Posted by Coater
Madison, MS
Member since Jun 2005
33060 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 9:18 am to
Chicken enchiladas
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 9:23 am to
Give them a lasagna, baked ziti, chicken kiev, etc. Basically, homemade food pre-assembled, frozen, and ready-to-bake.

They're going to be inundated with all kinds of food that doesn't freeze well that they're going to eat over and over for the next week or so. They'll appreciate a nice pan of something different and fresh-cooked that can be defrosted and baked in a week or two when all of the ready-to-eat stuff is gone.

Put it in a disposable aluminum pan so they don't have anything to return and make sure to include a piece of paper with the defrosting/baking instructions.
Posted by TexasTiger05
Member since Aug 2007
28326 posts
Posted on 1/21/13 at 9:37 am to
I updated my OP- I'll be bringing this about 1 month after the funeral, so they will have had their freezer already stocked
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