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Engagment Ring $

Posted on 1/15/13 at 11:30 am
Posted by Herb484
Member since Jan 2009
588 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 11:30 am
Hello all. What is the rule (money spent) for purchasing an engagement ring? Good looking out....
Posted by Siderophore
Member since Nov 2010
3338 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 11:36 am to
How much you can reasonably afford.

The 3 months salary rule is outdated, and I suspected made up by the jeweler industry.
Posted by LSU6262
Member since Jun 2008
7486 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 11:37 am to
it depends. but 2-3 months salary is the standard i believe
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65037 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 11:40 am to
quote:

How much you can reasonably afford.


This

quote:

The 3 months salary rule is outdated


The 3 month deal is just bullshite.
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
16838 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 11:43 am to
However much you can pay cash with
Posted by braindeadboxer
Utopia
Member since Nov 2011
8742 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 12:18 pm to
quote:

2-3 months salary


Gross or net?
Posted by Vols&Shaft83
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Member since Dec 2012
69884 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 12:19 pm to
quote:

Hello all. What is the rule (money spent) for purchasing an engagement ring? Good looking out....



DEAR GOD SON, Don't do it
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58078 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 12:20 pm to
Engagement rings are highly overrated. I paid $1700 14 years ago and thought that was too much, but I thought it was a great deal.

Just go with what feels reasonable to you and your money situation, but if either you or your wife think you have to spend a certain amount to not look poor, you are going to probably have bigger problems down the road.
Posted by Siderophore
Member since Nov 2010
3338 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 12:21 pm to
The most I could see me taking credit for a ring is 1500-2000.

And that is on a high dollar ring.
Posted by Reuben32
Member since Oct 2012
191 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 12:57 pm to
Just buy a simple couple hundred dollar ring.
If it's the right girl, she won't care.
Posted by lynxcat
Member since Jan 2008
24118 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 1:10 pm to
You can't get a ring for a couple hundred dollars.
Posted by Pilot Tiger
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2005
73140 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 1:14 pm to
hate to sound cheesy, but if she's the right one, she's going to care more about the time, thought, and effort put into it than the total cost or how many carats the center stone has.

don't buy something because "society" says you have to pay x amount for a ring. Depending on your financial situation that can be very stupid.

You shouldn't be starting your life together straddled with debt
Posted by Herb484
Member since Jan 2009
588 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 1:40 pm to
Cool....Thanks for all the advice. I'll take it all in.
Posted by Siderophore
Member since Nov 2010
3338 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 1:44 pm to
quote:

If it's the right girl, she won't care.


This is bullshite.

Sure, she will be happy if it is all you can afford, but if you go cheap and you don't need to, she won't be happy even if it isn't enough to call the engagement off for.
Posted by bryso
Member since Dec 2006
27130 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 1:47 pm to
quote:

rule


so fricking stupid. its not a physics formula. its an arbitrary number made up by the masses... for an item with no utilitarian value what so ever.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
102942 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 1:54 pm to
How much do you have in savings to spend? I don't recommmend going overboard if you can't afford it. if the woman really loves you the ring won't be a big deal as long as you get something that looks fairly nice and isn't a pawn job.

Honestly I wouldn't go over $2-3K at that if you have that kind of money. do not put this on a credit card. nothing wrong with staying in the $1k-1.5K range and upgrading later on
Posted by Siderophore
Member since Nov 2010
3338 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 1:56 pm to
frick that, if I am going to blow thousands of dollars on something, damn right I am getting rewards miles for it
Posted by Cajun Revolution
Member since Apr 2009
44671 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 3:21 pm to
quote:

but 2-3 months salary is the standard i believe


***** please. Ain't no way anybody I know spends over 20K on a dirn ring.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39545 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 3:23 pm to
i was thinking the same thing. Put on card and pay it off an hour later with the savings, but im sure Ryno is.ok with that scenario.
Posted by Cajun Revolution
Member since Apr 2009
44671 posts
Posted on 1/15/13 at 3:25 pm to
quote:

How much do you have in savings to spend? I don't recommmend going overboard if you can't afford it. if the woman really loves you the ring won't be a big deal as long as you get something that looks fairly nice and isn't a pawn job.

Honestly I wouldn't go over $2-3K at that if you have that kind of money. do not put this on a credit card. nothing wrong with staying in the $1k-1.5K range and upgrading later on


I'm no where near married but I'm already starting to put money away for all this nonsense...ring, wedding, house, honeymoon...

I expect to spend somewhere between 3-5K and find a good deal. So hopefully appraised somewhere in the 6-9K.
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