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re: Wife/gf gets prego/has kid, claims you as father. She cheated, you arent father

Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:52 pm to
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
64059 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:52 pm to
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Wife/gf gets prego/has kid...She cheated, you arent father


Happened to me

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claims you as father

She owned up quickly

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You get divorced, she remarries the real father


Yep, happened to me too

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and you still have to pay child support


No fricking way, even though she tried
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8627 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:53 pm to
Assuming you are in a healthy marriage, most men don't think this way.

I never once thought my daughter wasn't mine.

Even if I suspected my wife was cheating, I don't think I would really want to know.

Posted by Swoopin
Member since Jun 2011
22030 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:54 pm to
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I understand, illiteracy is common in GA


lol louisiana
Posted by WG_Dawg
Hoover
Member since Jun 2004
86482 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:55 pm to
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I understand, illiteracy is common in GA


you're in fricking baton rouge, not exactly known as the great mental hub of the southeast.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8375 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:55 pm to
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No fricking way, even though she tried


What possible reason could she believe she had any right to your money after that?
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
5101 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:56 pm to
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Hudson chose the former path, though he told me he had hoped his ex-wife would allow him time with the boy. “What do you do with that information?” Hudson says of the DNA results. “Do you just stick it in your back pocket and forget about it?” But if he wanted to maintain that relationship, he was disappointed. The boy’s mother said if Hudson wasn’t going to be the father for financial reasons, he couldn’t see the boy either. Court records show she also told the child his father no longer wanted him. Hudson and his former wife have another child, a daughter. When he goes to pick her up and tries to talk to the boy, now nearly 17, Hudson says that the boy turns and walks away.


I'm getting furious at a woman I don't even know.
Posted by GoGeauxGaux
Member since Apr 2014
186 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:56 pm to
It's not like he wants nothing to do with the girl and the court is forcing him to pay for a kid that isn't his and that he never wants to see. Legally, she is his daughter because he wants her to be. He's maintaining partial custody because he wants to.

Legally, this isn't any different than any other case in which the legal parents of a child split up and then one gets remarried. And it shouldn't be any different. He's trying to have it both ways. He's claiming that he should be allowed to keep partial custody because it doesn't matter that she's not his biological daughter, but he shouldn't have to pay child support because it does matter that she's not his biological daughter.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:57 pm to
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What possible reason could she believe she had any right to your money after that?


Exactly what I'm wondering. Just the very thought of someone trying to do something like this to me pisses me off.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:58 pm to
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GoGeauxGaux


You're missing the point where the ACTUAL biological father is now married and lives with the child.

He doesnt owe anything.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10047 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:59 pm to
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Assuming you are in a healthy marriage, most men don't think this way. I never once thought my daughter wasn't mine. Even if I suspected my wife was cheating, I don't think I would really want to know.

Think what way? Wanting the test? I would agree.

I think it is he most logical course of action, however. Once you sign, you're fricked.
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
5101 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:59 pm to
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He's claiming that he should be allowed to keep partial custody because it doesn't matter that she's not his biological daughter, but he shouldn't have to pay child support because it does matter that she's not his biological daughter.


You forgot about the part where the child is no longer in a broken home and that the dad and mother are married now.


Can you imagine paying a dude money because he banged your wife?
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97641 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 1:59 pm to
Can't pay child support to the deceased
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:00 pm to
Pretty bizarre, but the article does point out that he does get to spend alternate weekends with his "daughter" just like any other divorced husband, and the two appear to have a loving relationship. If he weren't paying child support he wouldn't have the right to see her at all, and he apparently does want to do that.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:03 pm to
obviously this is flat out wrong and miscarriage of justice.

This is relatively uncommon though. What is common is father's not paying child support. its like 30% pay nothing. feel sorry for those kids.
Posted by crash1211
Houma
Member since May 2008
3140 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:04 pm to
Could he sue the real father to reimburse his costs?
Posted by skullhawk
My house
Member since Nov 2007
23048 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:04 pm to
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Can't pay child support to the deceased


justifiable homicide imo
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69088 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:04 pm to
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then you would be in jail.



I would get a better lawyer.
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
5101 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:05 pm to
Are we going to ignore the fact that cutting off all ties to the man that acted as dad for so long is not in the child's best interest?

I mean if we are going to use that as the gold standard for who pays for the kid then we should use it for all situations.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10047 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:05 pm to
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Could he sue the real father to reimburse his costs?

You can sue anyone for anything, you just have to land a Judge willing to listen to the case.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:06 pm to
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This is relatively uncommon though


You didnt read the article.

Go ahead, I'll wait for when you come back....spouting your liberal tripe.
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