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re: Wife/gf gets prego/has kid, claims you as father. She cheated, you arent father

Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:07 pm to
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8627 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:07 pm to
My question is what kind of man allows another man to pay for "his" kid, when he is right there.

The new husband sounds pitiful.
Posted by GoGeauxGaux
Member since Apr 2014
186 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:07 pm to
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You're missing the point where the ACTUAL biological father is now married and lives with the child.

He doesnt owe anything.


I'm not missing that point at all. You're missing the point that, if that bothers him so much, then he could have renounced BOTH his legal parental rights and his legal parental responsibilities. But he's not doing that. He's trying to renounce his legal parental responsibilities but maintain his legal parental rights. It doesn't work that way.

Why should it legally matter at all who his ex-wife marries? Legally, that man is not her father and has no parental rights or responsibilities.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10046 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:09 pm to
You never answered my question.

Why are you uncovering four year old articles for OP material? What you been googling?
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
24356 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:10 pm to
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Can't pay child support to the deceased



This
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8627 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:11 pm to
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Legally, that man is not her father and has no parental rights or responsibilities.


I know what you are saying, but that's bull. You really think this guy plays no role in the girl's life?

Don't be naive.

I can admit its a tricky case, but no way should the biological father be exempt while this guy pays. Especially when the biological father is married to the mother and lives with the child.

7,500 at that.
This post was edited on 6/12/14 at 2:12 pm
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38409 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:11 pm to
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I wouldnt pay a dime


then you would be in jail.



No...I'd be in Mexico.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:12 pm to
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You didnt read the article.

i read the article in 2009.

anecdotes don't make trends. i would say you are smarter than this but based on your post history I don't think this is the case.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:15 pm to
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i read the article in 2009.


then you have a shitty memory.

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anecdotes don't make trends.


the article actually discusses numbers. Go read.

quote:

. i would say you are smarter than this but based on your post history I don't think this is the case.



Posted by GoGeauxGaux
Member since Apr 2014
186 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 2:27 pm to
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I know what you are saying, but that's bull. You really think this guy plays no role in the girl's life?



I never said he plays no role in her life. He's her stepfather. But that has no bearing on the fact that legally, "Mike" is the girls real father, and that's because he wants to be. If he wants to maintain his legal rights as a father, then he should suck it up and fulfill his legal obligations as well.

If he feels he's paying too much child support or if he feels that his ex-wife does not require child support, then that's a different matter, but the fact that the man that married his ex-wife happens to be the girl's biological father does not and should not have any legal significance whatsoever.
This post was edited on 6/12/14 at 2:29 pm
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