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re: When a Friend Cheats Often on Her Husband, Should You Keep Quiet?

Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:54 pm to
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110888 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:54 pm to
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Could there be any worse feeling than not only finding out your wife is cheating on you, but she is having fricking threesomes with the guy she is cheating with, and you don't get any of that threesome action?
That seems pretty close to the ultimate kick in the balls.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:54 pm to
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I would. Put yourself in his shoes. He has the right to know. But, you better have proof...


he does have a right to know. One time it was with his best friend. yowza.

I have no proof though, and I think why should I ge tinvolved? I have met him once, and I really do not like him. He is a louse and treats her like shite.

Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54521 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:55 pm to
I was married for 12 years to my ex together for 14 years. I must have been drinking some serious marriage kool-aid because my ex is nuttier than fruitcake now. Maybe it's all that botox she is getting now also.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:56 pm to
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It's called being a hoe

that, and only that, woman in OP, if it's a real scenario is just a whore with no self restraint whatsover, plain and simple, it's not an addiction
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110888 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:56 pm to
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For me, the answer would be not to get involved in the affairs of others.
It's really simple for me IMO.

If it's one of my close friends and he's cheating on his wife, I say nothing.

If I found out his wife is cheating on him, I tell him.

If I'm not close to either, I say nothing.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17503 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:56 pm to
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I have no proof though, and I think why should I ge tinvolved? I have met him once, and I really do not like him. He is a louse and treats her like shite.


In that case, it's best to stay out. Proof.

I say this because when I was told, I wanted proof.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75219 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:57 pm to
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One time it was with his best friend. yowza.


I'll never understand this. I've never once looked at a friends girlfriend, or wife and said I need to go after her. Just odd to me how one can even get into that predicament.

Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17503 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:58 pm to
The other person has the right to know. Unless its a retaliatory affair, then all bets are off...
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:58 pm to
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if it's a real scenario is just a whore with no self restraint whatsover, plain and simple, it's not an addiction


And I see nothing wrong with that either.
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:59 pm to
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, but sometimes the right thing isn't the easy thing.


I don't involve myself in others marriage. You never come out looking like a Saint
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110888 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:00 pm to
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The other person has the right to know. Unless its a retaliatory affair, then all bets are off...
If I have a close friend and his wife is more of an acquaintance to me, my loyalties are obviously to my friend.

I'm not one to judge like the OT, so I really don't care much if he cheats, that doesn't have any bearing on our friendship so I'm certainly not telling his wife nor am I sitting him down to tell him what the right thing to do is.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98190 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:01 pm to
Stay the frick out of it.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:01 pm to
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I see nothing wrong with that either.



would normally agree, with her being married I kind of view it differently
Posted by Steadyhands
Slightly above I-10
Member since May 2016
6814 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:02 pm to
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For me, the answer would be not to get involved in the affairs of others.


Well then, in this sort of instance, you would be what I call not friend worthy. Then again, you probably don't keep hoes as friends like the OP and therefore you wouldn't have to get involved.
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
131398 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:03 pm to
Probably best to tend to your own business.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5140 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:04 pm to
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Her and my gf were nudist and they aren't ever shy about getting naked. Another story for another thread.


This thread will do just fine...continue please.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:05 pm to
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I'll never understand this. I've never once looked at a friends girlfriend, or wife and said I need to go after her. Just odd to me how one can even get into that predicament.


You never had a GF of a friend come on to you? It happens because the GF has the wandering eye.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82033 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:06 pm to
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and don’t have any children.
why are they still together?
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75219 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:07 pm to


No, either I'm blind or it hasn't happened to me. And to be honest, I don't have any friends girlfriends that have ended up with their friends. Maybe I'm in a drama free life?
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54521 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 3:07 pm to
Let's just say the Tampa /St.Pete area has some resorts that cater to this lifestyle.

I was born and raised southern Baptist in Louisiana I am always learning new things.
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