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re: When a Friend Cheats Often on Her Husband, Should You Keep Quiet?

Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:39 pm to
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:39 pm to
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She moved out and is smashing everything in sight.


You did it too didn't you, you dirty dog.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17450 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:40 pm to
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I have a work colleague that has cheated on her husband 10+ times, usually with ex bfs. He has no clue that has done it, but did catch a few times cheating when they dated. I have thought, shoudl I tell him? She swears that is behind her, but I think once her kids are over 5 or so, she will go back to her ways.


I would. Put yourself in his shoes. He has the right to know. But, you better have proof...
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19240 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:40 pm to
Better question - Why would you want friends with bad moral values.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57236 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:40 pm to
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I want to see that people make mistakes, but I'm not sure that I believe it. Woman in OP is definitely pathological though.

She definitely has some security issues.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123889 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:42 pm to
Are you the one she's cheating with?
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54475 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:43 pm to
Nope but I have seen her naked. Her and my gf were nudist and they aren't ever shy about getting naked. Another story for another thread. I never cheat in a relationship. Just not worth the drama.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17450 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:43 pm to
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I want to see that people make mistakes, but I'm not sure that I believe it


Cheating is not a mistake. Period. The lying/hiding/deceiving, etc., makes that impossible. When they say it is a mistake its their way of justification. And don't think that a physical affair can be a mistake. That took thought and planning.
This post was edited on 8/26/16 at 2:45 pm
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
3251 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:44 pm to
I'll never understand why couples with no kids try to "work it out". Unless there is a massive amount of money involved I'd definitely be cutting ties.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:47 pm to
she always has sex with anyone she wants to, when she wants to.

Why would you bring that up? she's not serious about changing.

do you want to make him cry, and/or kill her to save face? what the heck would you see as the optimized outcome of pushing this in his face?





Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17450 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:48 pm to
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Why would you bring that up? she's not serious about changing. do you want to make him cry, and/or kill her to save face? what the heck would you see as the optimized outcome of pushing this in his face?


What? Why should a person be left in the dark and a lie?
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:48 pm to
I mind my own business. It's probably my best quality and why people like me.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:48 pm to
You're probably right.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123889 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:48 pm to
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This is one instance where Muslims have it right. Those cheating whores should be executed. If you've never been cheated on, it basically kills you without you actually having the sweet release of death. But the cheaters go on living their life, blaming you for it, and not having an ounce of remorse.



Man, I know it hurts but once you move on and realize you just escaped from a prison sentence, you can celebrate that newfound freedom. You get a new lease on life. New adventures, new loves, a fresh start.

If you let that poison of bitterness spread through you and sit in you. Purge yourself. Find YOU.

It's not easy but my god is it fulfilling to break free of those Promethean chains.
Posted by GoCrazyAuburn
Member since Feb 2010
34858 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:49 pm to
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what the heck would you see as the optimized outcome of pushing this in his face?


Besides allowing him to make his own choice on whether or not he is okay with that type of behavior instead of being lied to constantly? Allowing him to find someone that actually appreciates him. Allow him to avoid potential health risks from that type of behavior. Just to name a few.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17450 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:51 pm to
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If you let that poison of bitterness spread through you and sit in you. Purge yourself. Find YOU.


Truth.

Right now, I'm still dealing with that almost a year after being sent everything from the other guy's wife.
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:51 pm to
Whores like that should get AIDS and die alone.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123889 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:51 pm to
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do you want to make him cry, and/or kill her to save face? what the heck would you see as the optimized outcome of pushing this in his face?



Because sometimes we won't take that final step unless we are pushed.
Posted by TheWalrus
Member since Dec 2012
40368 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:51 pm to
Me too for the most part, but sometimes the right thing isn't the easy thing.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57575 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:52 pm to
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She has gone to addiction support groups


It's called being a hoe...people are so quick to blame their deficiencies on made up "illnesses"
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17450 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:53 pm to
Its never easy to tell someone they are being cheated on. The other man's wife said she thought long and hard about it before sending me everything.
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