Started By
Message

re: What’s the deal with Friendsgiving

Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:29 pm to
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47538 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:29 pm to
quote:


The concept is fine. Calling it "Friendsgiving" is stupid but that's what people call it so whatevs

It makes tons of sense for younger people who are in cities away from their families to have a fake Thanksgiving with their friends before/after doing Thanksgiving with their families (out of town). Or, alternatively, when they come into town for family Thanksgiving, to have it with their friends since people are all gathered back together in town again.

Now, 15 and 16 year olds who hang out at school everyday doing it sounds dumb as hell.


Exactly. This has been around since I was in College.
I am from BR and often invited LSU friends to our house when they couldn't make it home for the holiday.

That carried over into years after college in big cities with co-workers and new friends.

Baton Rouge has a bunch of groups of young engineers from the surrounding plants who do this very thing. It's pretty cool way make the most of holidays away from family when you're in your 20s.

This post was edited on 11/26/19 at 1:31 pm
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
83590 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

But I've seen people just getting together to drink and calling it "Friendsgiving".
Oh.

Those people are lame.

Half the fun of it is to recreate the huge feats from your childhood without any help from your parents.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45747 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:32 pm to
quote:

I've noticed people doing it who don't have family in town and don't want to travel home for two holidays in a row

this is what ours was...friends who were away from their families for Thanksgiving.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81230 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:32 pm to
quote:

Half the fun of it is to recreate the huge feats from your childhood without any help from your parents.





Its fun. I'm 29 and most of my friends, even the married ones with kids, are not yet at "hosting" status in their families since their parents tend to do that. Its a fun chance to host your own adult event.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17346 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:32 pm to
I thought it just meant people like me and my SO, who won't be going to see any family will be partying with friends, instead. Less traditional, more fun.
Posted by ellishughtiger
70118
Member since Jul 2004
21135 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:33 pm to
Well for your average OT'er the closest thing to "friendsgiving" is posting on the lunch thread.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
53997 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:34 pm to
This is all I’m saying, we get together with friends on multiple occasions throughout the year. This year is honestly the first time I’ve heard the term “Friendsgiving”. It just seems silly to me, though I completely agree with the idea of the get together.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171080 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

Exactly. I don't see how you can complain about a friends' Thanksgiving, yet happily attend numerous Christmas/New Year parties. Or hell, any kind of themed party. Why is friends' Thanksgiving being picked on?


Consider the average OT poster either doesn't understand common sense logic like this or isn't invited to any of those parties.
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
278748 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:38 pm to
What’s the deal with any holiday if that is your thought process ?

People are fricking weird
Posted by FLTech
the A
Member since Sep 2017
12734 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:40 pm to
We usually do a Friendsgiving and watch "Love Actually" - about midway through the movie, it all turns out to be a Swinger's Orgy - It's fricking phenomenal!
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21578 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:40 pm to
quote:

And Rachel flashes them so her team can score.


It was Phoebe, I believe.
This post was edited on 11/26/19 at 1:49 pm
Posted by 21JumpStreet
Member since Jul 2012
14655 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:41 pm to
Boomers
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
7839 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:41 pm to
Wife's friend is having one on Saturday, but said no kids, which is fine with me because I didn't want to go. I would rather be on toddler duty.
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
83590 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:43 pm to
Exactly.

I’m 29 and have been hosting Friendsgiving for years. My mom takes care of thanksgiving and I wouldn’t ever take that away from her because she too loves it.

This year she mentioned in passing that she didn’t feel up to doing the usual thanksgiving so guess what, mom and dad are coming to Friendsgiving
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48919 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:47 pm to
quote:

Our group of friends are getting together Thanksgiving night to watch the Saints after we all eat with our families that day. We hang out all the time. This isn't any different than those times, but I'd assume some folks would call this "Friendsgiving" ?


This will be my house Thursday night. Our regular football group.
This post was edited on 11/26/19 at 1:48 pm
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
83590 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:50 pm to
quote:

This is all I’m saying, we get together with friends on multiple occasions throughout the year. This year is honestly the first time I’ve heard the term “Friendsgiving”
There’s quite a distinct difference in getting together with friends and cooking a full thanksgiving meal for your friends on or around thanksgiving

The term isn’t new at all. But it certainly has blown up recently.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124575 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 1:57 pm to
quote:

And Monica. Don't forget Monica


Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 2:01 pm to
quote:

Millennials keep their friends after marriage, largely due to not procreating.


FIFY
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171080 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 2:02 pm to
quote:

This is all I’m saying, we get together with friends on multiple occasions throughout the year. This year is honestly the first time I’ve heard the term “Friendsgiving”. It just seems silly to me, though I completely agree with the idea of the get together.


Thanksgiving doesn't occur "on multiple occasions throughout the year."

It's a pot luck party around Thanksgiving time during which friends congregate and eat holiday dishes, sides, and deserts. Someone along the way thought they were cute, named it Friendsgiving, and it caught on.

It's really nothing anyone should be so upset about, yet here we are.
Posted by J Murdah
Member since Jun 2008
39791 posts
Posted on 11/26/19 at 2:06 pm to
Why are some of yall hating on Friendsgiving? I like to eat and friend with my friends, why is that so bad? Who cares if it is documented on social media?

Although we are all busy turn thanksgiving season so we do a Friendsmas. I am sure the OT hates that as well.
This post was edited on 11/26/19 at 2:07 pm
first pageprev pagePage 4 of 5Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookTwitterInstagram