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re: What to do with F*d up children
Posted on 11/14/15 at 5:20 pm to rebeloke
Posted on 11/14/15 at 5:20 pm to rebeloke
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Do you send them to military school?
I got sent to military boarding school and it was a blast. I had so much fun there. Sure I got in trouble for some things and got demerits but it was worth it for all the fun I had.
I think my mom thought that I would hate it and would beg to come home but she was wrong!
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Posted on 11/14/15 at 5:21 pm to Volvagia
frick if I know.
Posted on 11/14/15 at 5:26 pm to rebeloke
Give them discipline and guidance through the tough stages and expect the frick ups, We all were assholes and deviants at this stage .
Posted on 11/14/15 at 5:27 pm to rebeloke
The kid isn't happy. Make sure you're not the problem. Then ask her what's going on and help her solve it. Life lessons and shite.
Posted on 11/14/15 at 5:57 pm to rebeloke
Let Adrian Peterson adopt him
Posted on 11/14/15 at 6:04 pm to rebeloke
can you tell me what he did between 12 and 16?
military school
military school
This post was edited on 11/14/15 at 6:07 pm
Posted on 11/14/15 at 6:12 pm to rebeloke
quote:as in 13-14?
new teenager
It's normal. Just talk to them. Don't be a jerk because that's going to alienate them more and make them angrier and more emo. Keep the lines of communication open and show them some compassion while explaining that's not how you treat people and that you expect respect
Posted on 11/14/15 at 6:13 pm to rebeloke
I'm going to reiterate this if its already been mentioned.
Are you married by any chance? If you are then none of the advice provided here is going to matter if you and the Mrs are on different pages. If one of your undercuts the other, then all of that discipline stuff isn't going to work.
Are you married by any chance? If you are then none of the advice provided here is going to matter if you and the Mrs are on different pages. If one of your undercuts the other, then all of that discipline stuff isn't going to work.
Posted on 11/14/15 at 6:15 pm to Paige
UV'd
Posted on 11/14/15 at 6:17 pm to gingerkittie
So what they say about redheads is true. I didn't know they had military boarding schools for girls.
quote:
I got sent to military boarding school and it was a blast. I had so much fun there. Sure I got in trouble for some things and got demerits but it was worth it for all the fun I had. I think my mom thought that I would hate it and would beg to come home but she was wrong!
Posted on 11/14/15 at 6:22 pm to rebeloke
quote:
hell of an athlete.
Pro potential?
Posted on 11/14/15 at 6:43 pm to rebeloke
I'm not saying this is what's wrong in your situation, but as a teacher making phone calls home to parents, this is how many conversations went:
Me: Yes sir, your son is not doing his work, playing games on his computer during class, and falling behind.
Dad: I just don't understand! I give him whatever he wants. I just got him a truck, a new 4-wheeler, and a new gun to hunt with.
In this particular situation the dad felt guilty about working 7 days a week and tried to make up for it with gifts that weren't earned. I understand there is no black and white answer to parenting, but make sure you're not giving rewards before they are earned. Good luck, man!
Me: Yes sir, your son is not doing his work, playing games on his computer during class, and falling behind.
Dad: I just don't understand! I give him whatever he wants. I just got him a truck, a new 4-wheeler, and a new gun to hunt with.
In this particular situation the dad felt guilty about working 7 days a week and tried to make up for it with gifts that weren't earned. I understand there is no black and white answer to parenting, but make sure you're not giving rewards before they are earned. Good luck, man!
Posted on 11/14/15 at 6:51 pm to reginaphilange
Posted on 11/14/15 at 7:27 pm to CaptainPanic
quote:
This thread has public school trash written all over it
Do you know where private school frick ups get to go when they get kicked out of school? That's right, Public school.
Posted on 11/14/15 at 7:47 pm to rebeloke
Labeling him as "f*d up" might be part of the problem. I pray you haven't said this to the child, but chances are whether you've said it to their face or not, they know you feel this way about them. Might just be part of the problem.
Early adolescence is a very difficult time for most kids. Throw in divorce, drugs, and poor parenting and you've got your self a recipe for disaster. The child needs love and craves attention right now. If they are not going to get positive attention from you, they'll get negative attention from outside sources.
Early adolescence is a very difficult time for most kids. Throw in divorce, drugs, and poor parenting and you've got your self a recipe for disaster. The child needs love and craves attention right now. If they are not going to get positive attention from you, they'll get negative attention from outside sources.
Posted on 11/14/15 at 8:12 pm to rebeloke
Does he know who Fleece Johnson is?
Posted on 11/14/15 at 8:44 pm to bisonduck
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No priveleges - those are earned.
How do you earn a privelege? Maybe by learning to spell?
Posted on 11/14/15 at 8:49 pm to rebeloke
Teenagers are teenagers. I was a total dumbass until I was 18, 19 yrs old. Whatever way you can make them realize how important it is not to frick up because it will come back and haunt them is what you need to do, whatever that is I dont know.
Posted on 11/14/15 at 8:51 pm to Byron Bojangles III
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What to do with F*d up children
Job core
I see it worked out fine for you.
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