re: Welp....here's a new one with the SO

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She looks like a child.

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You sound like a pleasure to be around.

If this gets your panties in a wad, I'd break up with her. No telling what else is going to piss you off about her.

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Does she give handjobs like she's trying to land the Space Shuttle?

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She looks like a child.


You sound like a pleasure to be around.

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I imagine some women would take offense, and rightly so, to be compared to a 4 year old.

OP,

Can you provide the age of you and your girl?

I think you've been in Alaska too long, Roger. We still have table manners in the lower 48.

You still dating that slut who used to post here?

Which one?

And yes she holds her fork right

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I've been married almost 11 years and have zero idea how my wife holds a fork.

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Same, but I know if she held it like a kid in a highchair I would have noticed.

Didnt you test out her social skills and manners when you were initially dating?

Sounds like you were desperate for the vag.

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Picc, if you were dating a dude that stabbed at his meat (hehe) like a caveman you wouldn't say anything?

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I have social graces and recognize there's a way to give someone constructive criticism without pissing them off and making them feel embarrassed or inadequate.

The way he went about talking to her like a child was way more problematic (to her) than the content, I guarantee.

I've gone through this often with my husband: it's not always what you're saying, but the way you say it. Her perception of the situation was likely that she thought "what in the hell? We've been dating a year and he's now starting to nit pick about the way I hold a fork. We were having a nice lunch. What other inane shite do I do wrong that he's waiting to bring up?"

I'm not saying proper manners aren't important in certain settings, but if I've learned anything by being married...choose. your. battles.