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Those with 3+ children: sharing rooms

Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:46 pm
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:46 pm
OT wife (pics $150 a piece) and I might consider having a third child. We recently downgraded from a larger house to a "regular" 3 bed 2 bath because the big house was a pain to keep up. I never considered making my kids share a room, but we really like the house we're in. Any of y'all have experience with your kids sharing a room?

And yes I know everyone was oilfield poor in the 80's so probably most people here over 30 have shared a room with a sibling. Im more concerned with the practicality of this in today's times.
Posted by Btrtigerfan
Disgruntled employee
Member since Dec 2007
21426 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:50 pm to
You and I share a bed. Well at least the mattress. I already have pics.
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
66763 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:50 pm to
I shared a room with my brother till I moved out at 23, a couple of years ago.

Tell your kids to DWI
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:52 pm to
More info: current children are boy and girl. Of course the baby could be either.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29451 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:52 pm to
quote:

most people here over 30 have shared a room with a sibling

Alabama board.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42560 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:54 pm to
Had a 3/2. Had 3rd kid. Noped out after a year.
Posted by No Colors
Sandbar
Member since Sep 2010
10383 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:54 pm to
I've got 3 kids in 2 rooms. They move around. Sometimes they all sleep in the same room. Sometimes two of them share a bed even though they don't have to. It's a total non issue.

In the rest of the world, two families would share the space that we allocate to one kid, who's actually there like 10 hours a day. We don't need what we've got. And we want more. It's a disease.
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
3703 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:55 pm to
Just send the oldest to boarding school when it becomes a problem.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84787 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:55 pm to
quote:

Any of y'all have experience with your kids sharing a room?


I shared a room with two brothers for 10 years total.

For timeframe context, I had a cell phone as a junior in high school.
Posted by BlackCoffeeKid
Member since Mar 2016
11712 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:56 pm to
Shared a room with my brother until Sophomore year of high-school.
Shared a room with two brothers until 3rd grade. (Bunk-beds are awesome)

They won't mind/care.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128981 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 9:57 pm to
quote:

current children are boy and girl. Of course the baby could be either.


Well that makes the room sharing decision easy

Have a girl....she rooms with big sis
Have a boy...he rooms with big brother


Yall have twins because you decided you wanted one more child and ended up with twins...well then no one can whine about the other one getting their own room...cause everyone is sharing a room then


One of my good friends recently had her third child. Her husband said he heard the best description about having more than 2 kids from Jim Gaffigan..."imagine you are drowning...and someone hands you a baby"
Posted by dmjones
Acworth, GA
Member since Mar 2016
2303 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 10:08 pm to
My wife and I are both only children and we're one and done, but neither of us can imagine sharing rooms with siblings. Hell, if it wasn't for her ocd cleaning she probably wouldn't be able to deal with me.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18668 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 10:15 pm to
quote:

Of course the baby could be either.


What gender will you be assigning it?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128981 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 10:16 pm to
quote:

but neither of us can imagine sharing rooms with siblings


It really isn't that bad, you get used to it. I always shared a room with siblings. First my little brother when we were really young (we lived in a two bedroom house...later on another part of the house was converted into a third bedroom), then my little sister when she was born(we are 10 years apart...so I was sharing a bunk bed with a 6 year old when I was a teenager).


Sharing a room will prepare you for having a roommate if you live in the dorms in college.


I will say that I am a person that really enjoys my alone time now. I'm quite comfortable being by myself, need time alone on a regular basis (my husband is the same way). For me...I'm sure that is from never having my own space as a kid.
Posted by saintsfan1977
West Monroe, from Cajun country
Member since Jun 2010
7698 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 10:16 pm to
I grew up with 3 brothers and we all shared the same room growing up in a 2 bedroom house.

I bought a 2 br house 6 years ago, and my 6yr old daughter and 3yr old son share it until I can afford something bigger. Which might not be until a few years down the road when the wife is out of school and I have hopefully a better job.
Posted by lsufan_26
Member since Feb 2004
12559 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 10:24 pm to
quote:

Of course the baby could be either.

Glad to see you're not assuming its gender
Posted by meeple
Carcassonne
Member since May 2011
9356 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 10:28 pm to
3 kids... eldest two, 8 and 5, share a room. They're each in loft beds and they love their room.
Posted by RedMustang
Member since Oct 2011
6851 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 11:01 pm to
quote:

OT wife (pics $150 a piece)


Would we get our money's worth?
Posted by saintsfan1977
West Monroe, from Cajun country
Member since Jun 2010
7698 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 11:06 pm to
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Would we get our money's worth?


Unless you paying to frick her, a pic aint worth $150 when you see porn for free. Now if the pic is to determine if you willing to fuk her for $150, well thats a different story.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 4/17/17 at 11:10 pm to
It will be fine if it's all they know. The only problem would be if the age gap is too wide. If the older kid is 5 or so it'll be fine, but as they get older a 16 year old isnt going to like sharing with a 10 or so year old.
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