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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:39 pm to
Posted by Choctaw
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:39 pm to
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Whatever you do, don't tell these people how you plan to propose.


Happy Hour at Applebees!!
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:39 pm to
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why is it silly?

can you tell me what the rational point is, other than

1. wasting money to brag about being able to waste money

2. engaging in an insurance fraud scheme
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:39 pm to
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Whatever you do, don't tell these people how you plan to propose.



As long as he isn't gonna put his gf through "hell week" and then propose to her at a tattoo parlor after she rushes there thinking he's getting a nasty full back tat he should be fine.
Posted by Choctaw
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Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:40 pm to
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why is it silly?


because it's the OT....everything is trashy, silly, and beneath them.



honest answer is because most of these 20 something year old fatasses can't find a woman that would say yes.
Posted by hashtag
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Member since Aug 2005
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:41 pm to
My wife didn't even look at her engagement ring when I proposed. I found a great one (the wife, not the ring). The center diamond was my mom's. So, we have that family heirloom thing going on.

I figure that when my son wants to get married, I'll buy my wife something new and pass this one down again.
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:42 pm to
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The awful truth about engagement rings


My wife lost hers years ago when we were on a trip to Houston. Took if off in our hotel room to do her hair or some shite, and realized it half way back. Not surprisingly the hotel could not find it...huh. We've never replaced it and because she's awesome it's never been a big deal.

Oh...and many years ago I got talked into buying an engagement ring for a girl I was dating long term in college. She literally berated me about it over Christmas and I finally went and bought the damn thing. A month later she gave me the ring back and told me there was someone else. NEWSFLASH: What's worse than trying to go back to a jewelry store to return an engagement ring? Having the owner tell you he could not take it back because it was past 30 days, but I could have store credit. EXACTLY what a 20 year old guy needs...thousands of dollars worth of credit at a store that was actively fricking you.

frick YOU, WILLIAM S. NACOL!

So, yeah...not a fan of engagement rings...
Posted by Mahootney
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Member since Sep 2008
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:42 pm to
We all know it is an over-inflated market.

But a great woman that is worth spending your whole life with is worth it, and is really a bargain for the price of a diamond.

*If you are still bothered by the cost of the society norms, look at it like this...
if she works, you'll get an infinite return on your $xK investment.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:44 pm to
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But a great woman that is worth spending your whole life with is worth it, and is really a bargain for the price of a diamond.

i hope everybody reads that exact comment and let's it set in.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20381 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:45 pm to
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it's not about the ring

it's about showing up their friends and family


Yep. I won.
Posted by hashtag
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Member since Aug 2005
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:52 pm to
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my secret test to eliminate girls from me thinking about marriage
details?
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:54 pm to
bring up engagement rings and work in a hypothetical regarding engagement rings, and if she requires an engagement ring, she is eliminated in my mind. it's a bigger deal than just the ring; it's a sign of a lot of future conflict
Posted by fr33manator
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Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 1:58 pm to
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honest answer is because most of these 20 something year old fatasses can't find a woman that would say yes.


If they do and she says no they'll be better off.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129001 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 2:00 pm to
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bring up engagement rings and work in a hypothetical regarding engagement rings, and if she requires an engagement ring, she is eliminated in my mind. it's a bigger deal than just the ring; it's a sign of a lot of future conflict




What if she just wants a simple ring or would prefer another stone(ex:aquamarine, etc)?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124144 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 2:00 pm to
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i hope everybody reads that exact comment and let's it set in.


That you can buy a woman with a rock?
Posted by hashtag
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Member since Aug 2005
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 2:01 pm to
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bring up engagement rings and work in a hypothetical regarding engagement rings, and if she requires an engagement ring, she is eliminated in my mind. it's a bigger deal than just the ring; it's a sign of a lot of future conflict
In my experience, this conversation wasn't even necessary. I knew prior to proposing to my wife that she wouldn't care. If you know her well enough to want to propose, you'll know whether it is an issue or not.

Nearly 8 years later, my wife still doesn't care about gifts, or possessions in general. I just looked back on mine and her facebook page to see what was posted back when I proposed. There is only one picture that you can really see the ring in. And, it is a picture of us far away with her hand on my shoulder.

Things like this remind of some of the reasons that I fell in love with my wife.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 2:02 pm to
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What if she just wants a simple ring or would prefer another stone(ex:aquamarine, etc)?

it's still pointless

it's a sign that she wants to make "big money" purchases on pointless things just to fill a social norm

it will always be something similar, just with different stuff. clothing, cars, housing, schools, etc
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 2:03 pm to
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In my experience, this conversation wasn't even necessary. I knew prior to proposing to my wife that she wouldn't care. If you know her well enough to want to propose, you'll know whether it is an issue or not.

this is like 1st/2nd date convo

quote:

Nearly 8 years later, my wife still doesn't care about gifts, or possessions in general.

quote:

Things like this remind of some of the reasons that I fell in love with my wife.

see now that is something i can get behind
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129001 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 2:03 pm to
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it's a sign that she wants to make "big money" purchases on pointless things just to fill a social norm



Even if she would literally be content with a ring that cost you say $200?





Just because you want the symbol doesn't mean you are this high-maintenance, gold digging chick
Posted by Choctaw
Pumpin' Sunshine
Member since Jul 2007
77774 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 2:03 pm to
SFP....please stop posting in this thread. you're trying too hard to look like a badass and you're coming off as clueless.

just trying to help you out bro
This post was edited on 2/18/14 at 2:05 pm
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129001 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 2:05 pm to
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looked back on mine and her facebook page



Please don't tell me yall have a joined FB page?


Those couples are usually annoying as frick.
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