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Starting to have to bury classmates...

Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:32 pm
Posted by Horsemeat
Truckin' somewhere in the US
Member since Dec 2014
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Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:32 pm
Last year we had to bury a friend that died in Afghanistan.
Now we have to bury my first date that was murdered by her abusive husband.

Not sure how this works, but it certainly sucks to be an adult.
Posted by foj1981
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2013
3747 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:33 pm to
We had a class of 500. 25 have passed already
Posted by Rekrul
Member since Feb 2007
7956 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:34 pm to
Sorry to hear, but it's just an unfortunate part of life
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
31638 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:35 pm to
Let me rescue this thread:

Louisiana people who live elsewhere now. Have you noticed that more of your classmates from LA have died than your friends from where you live now?

To clarify: Louisiana people die young; not as much in other places.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98202 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:35 pm to
quote:

Not sure how this works, but it certainly sucks to be an adult.


The dirty secret they don't tell you when you're a kid.
Posted by Hot Carl
Prayers up for 3
Member since Dec 2005
59159 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:36 pm to
quote:

Now we have to bury my first date that was murdered by her abusive husband.


Damn, dude, that's tough. I'm 38, and our class has seemed to be relatively immune. Had 2(that I know of) out of 350+. Knock on wood, I know that can change in a hurry. Had a few pass in car wrecks a grade or 2 in front and/or behind, though.
Posted by Boxcar
Richmond VA
Member since Mar 2016
900 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:38 pm to
Yes. All my rowdy friends are down. They all were from La. up here everyone just lingers around.
Posted by VOLcano
Rocky Top
Member since Feb 2016
942 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:38 pm to
When I was a kid I found my Grandmothers senior yearbook and she put a big "X" over their picture if they died and wrote off to the side how they did such as car accident, suicide, cancer, etc. I still find that strange.
Posted by LSUtoOmaha
Nashville
Member since Apr 2004
26580 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:39 pm to
I'm 27, and we have had 1 pass out of 96 in our graduating class.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
26591 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:41 pm to
quote:

Louisiana people who live elsewhere now. Have you noticed that more of your classmates from LA have died than your friends from where you live now?

To clarify: Louisiana people die young; not as much in other places.


I see what you're getting at, but I don't think it's a Louisiana thing.

I think it has more to do with some of the people who stay home their entire lives. To be 100% clear: there is nothing wrong with staying in or near your hometown. But a lot (certainly not all, but a fairly sizable portion) of people who die young do so because of drug use, and the people who OD on drugs aren't usually ambitious enough to move somewhere else.

And now, let the downvotes rain down on me.
This post was edited on 7/1/16 at 7:44 pm
Posted by 610man
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
7350 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:43 pm to
'99 grad,we had a girl die last year from our class, very, very sad deal. Had a young son.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98202 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:45 pm to
quote:

When I was a kid I found my Grandmothers senior yearbook and she put a big "X" over their picture if they died and wrote off to the side how they did such as car accident, suicide, cancer, etc. I still find that strange.


Back in the day death wasn't so taboo. People were very familiar with it-Accidents, diseases that we've eradicated, wars. My grandmother wrote down what she wanted in her own funeral service (we couldn't find it when it came time, but fortunately what we arranged was pretty close.)

Most of us haven't lost a sibling in infancy, or watched a friend die of something that modern medicine would consider trivial. We don't like to think about it. Previous generations didn't have a choice.
Posted by Caplewood
Atlanta
Member since Jun 2010
39156 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:49 pm to
I graduated with over a thousand people in my class. 90% of I don't give a frick if they are alive or dead
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37342 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:50 pm to
quote:

Most of us haven't lost a sibling in infancy, or watched a friend die of something that modern medicine would consider trivial


I'm 38 and watched my best friend of many years succumb to cancer at 35. He left a wife and two kids behind. frick cancer.

RIP EJW
Posted by Horsemeat
Truckin' somewhere in the US
Member since Dec 2014
13554 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:51 pm to
Normally I'd lol for a troll.
Tonight, nah.
Posted by Horsemeat
Truckin' somewhere in the US
Member since Dec 2014
13554 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:52 pm to
Media
Here's the writeup.
This post was edited on 7/1/16 at 7:54 pm
Posted by The Baker
This is fine.
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:53 pm to
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This post was edited on 1/10/21 at 10:58 pm
Posted by Boxcar
Richmond VA
Member since Mar 2016
900 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:54 pm to
Welcome to the club mofo!
Posted by VOLcano
Rocky Top
Member since Feb 2016
942 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:55 pm to
Your right, I work in the medical field so I see people die or ones that are about to die all the time. Im pretty immune to it but times are definitely different now in how we view death in our society/culture.
Posted by Rekrul
Member since Feb 2007
7956 posts
Posted on 7/1/16 at 7:55 pm to
To be fair, he was generalizing. And what he said was true, of course there's exceptions like your friend. Sorry you lost that friend btw
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