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re: She Wants To Wait Till Marriage
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:18 am to TigersHuskers
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:18 am to TigersHuskers
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So I finally met someone new and Id like to stay with her for the long term, only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage.
She won't. She's 20. You can get her in the sack with some alcohol and a good date. If it's been months and you haven't had sex, move on.
You don't buy a car on appearance and a list of features alone. You have to sit in it, play with the controls, and take it for a spin first. Plus, she's 20. If you don't hit it. Some rando with a flat bill will.
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Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:20 am to NoHoTiger
As I said earlier in gonna see where this goes. Who knows maybe like folks said earlier she could change her mind.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:21 am to LSU8654722
People who wear flat billed hats are the worst.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:26 am to TigersHuskers
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Who knows maybe like folks said earlier she could change her mind.
You're kind of an idiot. Don't go into this relationship with the "she might change her mind" mindset. You need to be honest with her about what you want from the relationship. If you can't be honest, move on. Accept what she says at face value. If you can't do that, move on. Enjoy the relationship and where it might go without trying to manipulate everything into sex. If you can't do that, move on. See where this is going?
Bascially, man the frick up or move on.
This post was edited on 1/20/16 at 11:27 am
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:28 am to TigersHuskers
Question? Is she still a virgin? If she is it might be worth it. My wife was a virgin, and they become freaks for the guy that takes it. You could be that guy.
If she isn't a virgin, and she's making you wait, bounce out homie. Tell her straight up.....
If she isn't a virgin, and she's making you wait, bounce out homie. Tell her straight up.....
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:28 am to NoHoTiger
Preach it, NoHo!
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:33 am to NoHoTiger
Yea thanks for the advice.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:34 am to WalkingTurtles
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Question? Is she still a virgin? If she is it might be worth it. My wife was a virgin, and they become freaks for the guy that takes it. You could be that guy.
She says she is and I'll take her word for it.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:34 am to Count Chocula
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Count Chocula
how you doin?
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:37 am to NoHoTiger
Large and in charge!
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:38 am to TigersHuskers
Introduce her to Tim Tebow.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:40 am to ElderTiger
Don't get married at 22 son. WAY too early!
Live your life a bit then settle down, or you may have regrets.
Live your life a bit then settle down, or you may have regrets.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:41 am to TigersHuskers
Would you buy a car without a test drive?
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:54 am to TigersHuskers
If you have any objection to this, do her a favor and break up now. Seriously.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:56 am to TigersHuskers
You better get it in before you marry her or you'll never get laid.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:57 am to TigersHuskers
Have you verified the intact hymen?
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:57 am to tigerstripedjacket
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I wouldn't buy a car with multiple previous owners who drove said "car" with disregard for future owners.
Permanently damage? Does the car have mental problems now?
I'm not sure the car metaphor really works past the test drive being a metaphor for finding out if you are sexually compatible. Posted on 1/20/16 at 12:10 pm to NoHoTiger
If you have an unmarried daughter, you certainly would want your daughter to wait "Until marriage". Right Dads?
The truth is the world teaches us at a young age it's natural and fine to have sex, have fun when you're young, "waiting til marriage is impossible" etc.
The consequence of this kind of thinking leads to so much sin and adultery in the world, so much divorce, so much pain for children to go through;- they end up carrying these scars into their adult years and relationships. So should we take advice from people who promote a casual attitude about sex?
Trust is a big factor in a serious relationship.
The longer you wait for sex in a relationship, in turn strengthens trust in the relationship. It comes back to respect and valuing one another.
If you're not spiritually focused at this point in time in life, then sex is something you're probably going to insist on having. You just kind of expect it, right? But is that right?
I experienced both sides of the fence. I was a typical sinful college student desiring woman and desiring sex with them. That's all I thought about. Have a few drinks, a little dancing, then see where it leads...it's a typical college student lifestyle, right?
Into my early 30's I started seeking God. Became a Christian, met my eventual wife, we waited until marriage ...it was hard and somewhat strange because neither of us were virgins not even close, but we have trust and overall a pretty healthy marriage 17 years later. I am not saying we couldn't fail, but I think it helps the way we built our foundation in the beginning.
I am confident I would have ruined my marriage if I didn't have God to center me day to day.
When I was 20, I wouldn't dream of dating a girl that was a virgin. "Just no way"...that was the old me.
At 50 and father of 2, I say, wow, what a wonderful thing to find early in life, That's a girl worth dating seriously if you're attracted to and enjoy her friendship, but you have to be mature enough to understand the value of this girl's character and conviction about sex. It's a turn on or a turn off...Which is it for you?
If you see it as annoying or "unfortunate", then you're not mature enough for her as I see it..
Hope this perspective helps
The truth is the world teaches us at a young age it's natural and fine to have sex, have fun when you're young, "waiting til marriage is impossible" etc.
The consequence of this kind of thinking leads to so much sin and adultery in the world, so much divorce, so much pain for children to go through;- they end up carrying these scars into their adult years and relationships. So should we take advice from people who promote a casual attitude about sex?
Trust is a big factor in a serious relationship.
The longer you wait for sex in a relationship, in turn strengthens trust in the relationship. It comes back to respect and valuing one another.
If you're not spiritually focused at this point in time in life, then sex is something you're probably going to insist on having. You just kind of expect it, right? But is that right?
I experienced both sides of the fence. I was a typical sinful college student desiring woman and desiring sex with them. That's all I thought about. Have a few drinks, a little dancing, then see where it leads...it's a typical college student lifestyle, right?
Into my early 30's I started seeking God. Became a Christian, met my eventual wife, we waited until marriage ...it was hard and somewhat strange because neither of us were virgins not even close, but we have trust and overall a pretty healthy marriage 17 years later. I am not saying we couldn't fail, but I think it helps the way we built our foundation in the beginning.
I am confident I would have ruined my marriage if I didn't have God to center me day to day.
When I was 20, I wouldn't dream of dating a girl that was a virgin. "Just no way"...that was the old me.
At 50 and father of 2, I say, wow, what a wonderful thing to find early in life, That's a girl worth dating seriously if you're attracted to and enjoy her friendship, but you have to be mature enough to understand the value of this girl's character and conviction about sex. It's a turn on or a turn off...Which is it for you?
If you see it as annoying or "unfortunate", then you're not mature enough for her as I see it..
Hope this perspective helps
This post was edited on 1/20/16 at 6:31 pm
Posted on 1/20/16 at 12:12 pm to Goldrush25
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One thing I've learned is you can very rarely take a woman at her word in regards to what she says she wants. They don't know, and often their actions are in diametric opposition to their stated desires.
I'm not sure I would agree that you can rarely take a woman at her word, but there are definitely some girls who display exactly what you mention in the second sentence, and far more often than others. As a guy, it can be infuriating to deal with.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 12:19 pm to ApexTiger
at the risk of being roasted...one of my greatest regrets was losing my virginity when I did, wish I could reverse that moment in time
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