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re: She Wants To Wait Till Marriage
Posted on 1/20/16 at 7:59 am to TigersHuskers
Posted on 1/20/16 at 7:59 am to TigersHuskers
No hymen, no diamond.
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Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:00 am to TigersHuskers
Good for her.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:01 am to TigersHuskers
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So I finally met someone new and Id like to stay with her for the long term, only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage. What does the OT think?
I don't see the problem.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:09 am to Lithium
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Your welcome
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:11 am to TigersHuskers
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I've heard that from people at work, just wasn't sure if it was true or not. I was told those are they once a month wonder types.
Not true. Find you a woman who wants it but wants to wait for marriage. The only woman I ever waited for was my wife and it was worth it.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:13 am to TigersHuskers
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So I finally met someone new and Id like to stay with her for the long term, only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage. What does the OT think?
Google "rooshv". It's 2016 - you're choosing to throw your life away. Maybe you're not capable of anything better, but if you are it's a shame.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:14 am to TigersHuskers
Be honest and up front with her about how you feel so its not a waste of anybody's time. There has to be some give and take to make things work, if either of expect to resolve this giant issue in one day and settle on one or the others viewpoint I don't think that's realistic. Maybe just agree you'll try things out for a few months and reevaluate, things change drastically early on in a relationship.
One of my good friends was in the same situation and it has worked out good for them, so if you're committed there is hope.
One of my good friends was in the same situation and it has worked out good for them, so if you're committed there is hope.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:21 am to TigersHuskers
If you are here asking the OT for advice than she isn't the one you want to invest time in. Move on and go find the whore you really want.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:22 am to TigersHuskers
I wouldn't rule it out.
But this is more about you than her, actually.
Can you abide by the agreement? Take time to think this over.
On the one hand, if you can't... then it's best to be true to yourself and find someone else. Have no regrets. This is about YOU. Not her.
If you can, then you may have won a ton of respect from her right off the bat. Respect is not a bad thing to have in a marriage.
However, there are some women out take pride in their ability to control a man and use sex as a power mechanism.
You have to be sure she is the former type as opposed to the latter before you commit. If you trust that you will be elevated for making this sacrifice... because that's what it is... do it. Otherwise, no.
But the first question to ask is if you are capable of doing it.
But this is more about you than her, actually.
Can you abide by the agreement? Take time to think this over.
On the one hand, if you can't... then it's best to be true to yourself and find someone else. Have no regrets. This is about YOU. Not her.
If you can, then you may have won a ton of respect from her right off the bat. Respect is not a bad thing to have in a marriage.
However, there are some women out take pride in their ability to control a man and use sex as a power mechanism.
You have to be sure she is the former type as opposed to the latter before you commit. If you trust that you will be elevated for making this sacrifice... because that's what it is... do it. Otherwise, no.
But the first question to ask is if you are capable of doing it.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:24 am to SpqrTiger
Also, you may be seeking the approval of us, your peers, to go through with this... or give you the strength to back away from it.
Disregard that. Only you have the power to live your life. Our approval is meaningless.
Disregard that. Only you have the power to live your life. Our approval is meaningless.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:25 am to TigersHuskers
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im 22 so yea I've never been married
I met a nice Catholic girl that wanted to wait til she got married. A few years later she had a bastard child. Girls are crazy, especially the hypocrite religious ones.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:28 am to TigersHuskers
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TigersHuskers
Run. And run fast.
Unless she's the best you can do, which it sounds like if you're dating her. Then lock that shite up and enjoy the shitty sex for the rest of your life.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:31 am to TigersHuskers
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So I finally met someone new and Id like to stay with her for the long term, only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage. What does the OT think?
If she'll give you head, go for it.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:33 am to TigersHuskers
1. You're 22. Marriage should be a distant thought for you and not an end goal of r booty.
2. she is 20. Young women change their mind soooo much and very often. Lots of girls who thought they wanted to wait till marriage end up meeting some dreamy guy and throw that idea out the window.
3. I not only think it is dumb to wait till marriage, but i think it is irresponsible to do so in the current times. with divorce and ease of infidelity being what they are today, you should find someone you are entirely compatible with before you decide to get married and/or have children with that person. religious views and sex drive are two very large things that you and your future spouse should have in common.
4. due to what i stated in 3, i also think it is irresponsible for two people not to live together before getting married. it is incredibly hard to really get to know everything about a person until you live with them and learn their cleaning habits, cooking habits, sexual preferences, bathroom habits, etc... you cannot fully understand these if you are only "sleeping over there most nights" because they will always be hiding some things until after you leave. once you live together for a while, there is no hiding.
2. she is 20. Young women change their mind soooo much and very often. Lots of girls who thought they wanted to wait till marriage end up meeting some dreamy guy and throw that idea out the window.
3. I not only think it is dumb to wait till marriage, but i think it is irresponsible to do so in the current times. with divorce and ease of infidelity being what they are today, you should find someone you are entirely compatible with before you decide to get married and/or have children with that person. religious views and sex drive are two very large things that you and your future spouse should have in common.
4. due to what i stated in 3, i also think it is irresponsible for two people not to live together before getting married. it is incredibly hard to really get to know everything about a person until you live with them and learn their cleaning habits, cooking habits, sexual preferences, bathroom habits, etc... you cannot fully understand these if you are only "sleeping over there most nights" because they will always be hiding some things until after you leave. once you live together for a while, there is no hiding.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:34 am to TigersHuskers
Earlier in the thread, Paige said this when someone said she changed her mind in only a page:
Keep this in mind. It holds true for you as well. She is a woman, and they change their minds. Hang in there if you like her. Y'all might end up making out one day and she decides she can't wait anymore.
I also had a friend who found a girl who was a virgin and wanted to wait. They dated 3 years without sex. They are married and she is the model old school wife. He works, she stays at home and cooks and cleans. Only chore he does is take the trash out. He said once they got married, they now have a healthy sex life (don't know how often) and is very happy.
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plus I'm a woman. we do that
Keep this in mind. It holds true for you as well. She is a woman, and they change their minds. Hang in there if you like her. Y'all might end up making out one day and she decides she can't wait anymore.
I also had a friend who found a girl who was a virgin and wanted to wait. They dated 3 years without sex. They are married and she is the model old school wife. He works, she stays at home and cooks and cleans. Only chore he does is take the trash out. He said once they got married, they now have a healthy sex life (don't know how often) and is very happy.
This post was edited on 1/20/16 at 8:35 am
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:34 am to dcrews
I'm gonna ask her about that. I'm sure she'll be down to do that at the least.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:36 am to TigersHuskers
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What does the OT think?
I don't think it's a bad thing if she still does oral. Because you might as well rack them up now b/c after marriage, they disappear.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:41 am to TigersHuskers
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So I finally met someone new and Id like to stay with her for the long term, only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage. What does the OT think?
Believe it or not there are some classy girls out there who are genuinely do want to save themselves for their future husband. The more guys a girls sleeps with the less her value is. Its just human nature.
That said, if this girl is not a virgin and just decided to make a drastic change after slutting it up for a while, id be wary.
Verdict: if you really like this girl and could see her being the mother of your kids, date her seriously and then propose if yall are compatible. Shell be less likely to cheat on you and will probably be a good wife.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:42 am to bamafan1001
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Verdict: if you really like this girl and could see her being the mother of your kids, date her seriously and then propose if yall are compatible. Shell be less likely to cheat on you and will probably be a good wife.
She is 20.........
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:43 am to HoustonChick86
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If yall have the same religious beliefs and you really think she is worth it, what's the harm in dating her? Worse case it doesn't work and you can go bang some whore.
And this is from a woman and I agree.
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