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re: She Wants To Wait Till Marriage

Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:47 am to
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
30236 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:47 am to
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I'm sure she'll be down to do that at the least.


Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57967 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:49 am to
You want to know what a hive of scum and villainy think about waiting til marriage? LOL

I could have scripted the first 20 responses to this thread.
Posted by bamafan1001
Member since Jun 2011
15783 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 8:52 am to
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Verdict: if you really like this girl and could see her being the mother of your kids, date her seriously and then propose if yall are compatible. Shell be less likely to cheat on you and will probably be a good wife.


She is 20.........


And?

My grandmother had been married 2 years when she turned 20. My grandparents had a great life with great kids and they loved each other even until she died.

Do you really think in today's times with instagram and tinder that girls are better as marriage material as they age?
Posted by Lago Tiger
Lago Vista Tx
Member since Jan 2011
1069 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 9:03 am to
Are you 100% sure she's a virgin ? Hope you're not being manipulated . You will spend all your time trying to get in those panties . You're young , have fun .
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
42577 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 9:03 am to
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Verdict: if you really like this girl and could see her being the mother of your kids, date her seriously and then propose if yall are compatible. Shell be less likely to cheat on you and will probably be a good wife.



I keep forgetting most posters are from LA/AL/MS
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 9:16 am to
Hahahaha
Posted by torrey225
Member since Mar 2015
1437 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 9:18 am to
I was a bridesmaid in a wedding where the bride waited until marriage...for everything...at 29 years old...in Germany. It was a great accomplishment.
Posted by fatheadgator
Sanford, Fl
Member since Oct 2006
1354 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 9:22 am to
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So I finally met someone new and Id like to stay with her for the long term, only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage. What does the OT think?


my wife was like that when we dated....I was NOT but I felt she was worth it. I mean we messed around but never the sex....I still dont regret it and Im still shocked that I agreed with that arrangement.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15552 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 9:40 am to
Nah, don't wait. You need to see if you have sexual chemistry.

Also, if you are into certain stuff, you need to see if she will play along or be a prude.

Don't marry someone with the hope they will be in to what you like, it will just end in divorce or a completely unsatisfied life.
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
11310 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 9:56 am to
She told me she is. I could always ask her friends though.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
42577 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 10:02 am to
I have a feeling OP is also a virgin and will be happy with missionary his entire life
Posted by Bumble Bee
Northwest, La
Member since Jan 2011
754 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 10:24 am to
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She told me she is. I could always ask her friends though.


That won't end well.

Dude, I'm an old man. I'm also a little old fashion. You have to decide what is more important. If this is a girl you can see spending the rest of your life with, then you will need to cowboy up and respect her wishes. If sex is more important then you will need to move on.

Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 10:31 am to
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She THINKS she wants to wait until marriage. She doesn't really want to. It's up to you to unlock the treasure


One thing I've learned is you can very rarely take a woman at her word in regards to what she says she wants. They don't know, and often their actions are in diametric opposition to their stated desires.
This post was edited on 1/20/16 at 10:33 am
Posted by airfernando
Member since Oct 2015
15248 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 10:40 am to
quote:

Move on. You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first.
My neighbor just bought a truck and he wasn't in the same hemisphere when he bought it.

Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 10:51 am to
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Move on. You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first.
My neighbor just bought a truck and he wasn't in the same hemisphere when he bought it.



he might have previous experience with that brand and model.

You do not know if she will be frigid. You do not know if she is going to be prissy about it. You need to ask her if she is willing to be utterly submitted once you marry. If she calls the shots, you are doomed.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45757 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 10:58 am to
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Should I try and make her change her mind?

You should do this then dump her. That'll show her what morals will get her.

Seriously, if you can't wait for sex, then just tell her that you expect sex to be part of the relationship. This is a pretty major issue. If you don't agree, then end the relationship.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:03 am to
Spoken very PhD'ish.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:05 am to
She a "Bottle Service" Girl?
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45757 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:11 am to
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I could always ask her friends though.

Don't do this. If you can't trust her, dump her.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119661 posts
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:13 am to
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only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage.


Sounds like she's not a woman of loose morals. I would marry her.
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