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‘Sexually suggestive’ relationship ends career of Air Force Gen who ran air war

Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:22 am
Posted by RedRifle
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Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:22 am


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The Air Force has fired one of its most senior generals after an investigation into whether he had an affair with a married female officer found that they had exchanged emails that were “sexually suggestive.”

Lt. Gen. John Hesterman was removed from his position as Air Force assistant vice chief of staff, service spokeswoman Anne Stefenek said Thursday. Hesterman previously served as the commander of Air Forces Central Command (AFCENT), leading the early days of the U.S. air war against the Islamic State militant group while deployed at Al Udeid Air Base in Qatar from July 2013 to last June.

The investigation was launched after a complaint was lodged with the Air Force inspector general last August that Hesterman had carried on an unprofessional relationship and meddled inappropriately in the assignments of the woman’s husband, who himself also was an Air Force colonel. The husband alleged to the Air Force that a relationship dated back to at least 2007, when Hesterman was a married one-star general and commander of the 48th Fighter Wing, which flies F-15 jets out of England.

Hesterman, who could not be reached for comment Thursday night, also surprised people by saying at the ceremony when the husband was promoted to colonel that he had “married the girl we were all in love with,” the husband alleged.

In one email string dated late March and early April 2010, he and the woman, then a lieutenant colonel, exchanged a series of messages in which he called the woman “Gorgeous” and said he was visiting Hawaii before deploying to Qatar, where he served as the deputy commander of AFCENT from July 2010 to June 2011.

“In Waikiki for… spring break and last big trip before Qatar… thinking of you often here… we would love it… and you would be in perpetual trouble ;) xxx”

A few months later on Valentine’s Day weekend, Hesterman emailed her because of the holiday.

“My dear and so beautiful…. On this Valentine’s Day, please know I am thinking of you… I miss you and hope you are happy and well. Much Love, J.” Hesterman continued corresponding on April 4, 2011, calling her “my lovely Girl,” sprinkling in numerous emoticons and saying that he wanted to see her when he returned to Washington after his deployment.

“This place has been fascinating if a tad relentless, I’ve been at work every day but 3 in the last 9 months… I’ve at least gotten into very good shape, even a little a definition… you should check ;),” he wrote. “I’m really happy you’ll be living close by… I think of you more than you know (you get in trouble a lot:) I would so love to see you.”

Goldfein has launched an officer grade determination process that will decide whether Hesterman gets to retire as a three-star general or something less. The military often retires officers at the last rank at which they served satisfactorily.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:31 am to
No pic of the girl?

Downvote
Posted by cave canem
pullarius dominus
Member since Oct 2012
12186 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:33 am to
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meddled inappropriately in the assignments of the woman’s husband, who himself also was an Air Force colonel.


This was likely the determining factor.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30543 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:33 am to
These messages sound more like creepy stalker that doesn't have a chance but thinks he does than like a guy that's getting it on with her regularly
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
66890 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:36 am to
What a creepy douche. But thanks for your service.
Posted by KarlMalonesFlipPhone
Member since Sep 2015
3848 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:37 am to
This is some cringey shite.
This post was edited on 3/18/16 at 9:38 am
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8587 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:40 am to
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Hesterman had carried on an unprofessional relationship and meddled inappropriately in the assignments of the woman’s husband, who himself also was an Air Force colonel.

Sounds like he was sending her husband out on assignment halfway around the world so he could be free to nail the wife. That's a dirty bastard to do that.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84609 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:43 am to
I would imagine the guy in charge of the "air war" for the US is one of the most powerful men in the world. If you're in charge of the air or naval capabilities of the US military you basically are unmatched across the world.

Eta: Don't let Darth tell you otherwise.
This post was edited on 3/18/16 at 9:44 am
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
23830 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:43 am to
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This was likely the determining factor.
How else was he going to stop him from cock blocking
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
16992 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:45 am to
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Sounds like he was sending her husband out on assignment halfway around the world so he could be free to nail the wife. That's a dirty bastard to do that.



That's like some new age version of David sending Bathsheba's husband to the frontlines to be killed, so he could marry her.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64392 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:47 am to
This sort of thing has been rampant in the military as long as they've allowed women & men to serve side by side and is one of the biggest reasons mixing the sexes in the military has always been a horrible idea. Bottom line is it's never good when there is even a hint of sexual attraction in a unit between members, be it man & woman, woman & woman, or man & man.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123923 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:47 am to
quote:

Sounds like he was sending her husband out on assignment halfway around the world so he could be free to nail the wife. That's a dirty bastard to do that.



King David level.

He's just being biblical
Posted by Tchefuncte Tiger
Bat'n Rudge
Member since Oct 2004
57134 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:50 am to
Just came here to post this. Apparently Bathsheba was quite the hottie.
Posted by NyCaLa
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2014
1015 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:54 am to
quote:

This sort of thing has been rampant in the military as long as they've allowed women & men to serve side by side and is one of the biggest reasons mixing the sexes in the military has always been a horrible idea. Bottom line is it's never good when there is even a hint of sexual attraction in a unit between members, be it man & woman, woman & woman, or man & man.


This. Social engineering and military might don't make good bedfellows.
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
17206 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:57 am to
Air Force an Qatar dunno wtf it is.

I am here right now, shite you not had a male Lt Colonel come up to me the other day and say

"Hey, I'm gay, and I need your horse cock"

have you ever heard a man say that shite to another man joking or not?

What in the frick?
Posted by Kel Varnsen
Member since May 2013
1975 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 9:58 am to
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and you would be in perpetual trouble ;)


Posted by Happygilmore
Happy Place
Member since Mar 2009
1810 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 10:02 am to
why is her name not listed. it takes two to have a relationship. he gets canned and she doesnt get mentioned? (i didnt click the link)
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
64108 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 10:02 am to
quote:


That's like some new age version of David sending Bathsheba's husband to the frontlines to be killed, so he could marry her.


First thing I thought of too
This post was edited on 3/18/16 at 10:16 am
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134843 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 10:03 am to
Three questions.

1. Was he sending these emails via DoD accounts or something like gmail?

2. Doesn't the woman share a bit of the responsibility here too?

3. Can she also be charged with conduct unbecoming?
Posted by BigPapiDoesItAgain
Amérique du Nord
Member since Nov 2009
2749 posts
Posted on 3/18/16 at 10:08 am to
Who cares? Why do we have to know their personal business?
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