- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
re: Problem with the in-laws
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:15 am to MorbidTheClown
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:15 am to MorbidTheClown
quote:
OP should hug the husband next time, kiss him on the mouth and grab his dick and say "that friendly enough?"
Let us know how it goes, op
0
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:15 am to MorbidTheClown
quote:
OP should hug the husband next time, kiss him on the mouth and grab his dick and say "that friendly enough?"
I wouldn't go that far. I'd just walk in, shake his hand, and put him on the spot.
"Is there a problem we need to talk about?"
He will either cower or actually talk about it. Either way shite gets handled and solved.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:15 am to Red5LSU
OK, OP. Word of advice. Be more self-aware and recognize that YOU'RE the outsider to this family. They all have a seat at the table no matter how shitty the china is. Apologize to the sister, shake Gordon's hand and suck it up. The sooner you recognize how to play this married game the better. If you don't now, the next 4 years is going to be hell.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:15 am to Red5LSU
dude ! man up and shake a man's hand when you enter his house and pretend to be interested in what he has to say.
If he wants to make small talk about the weather, then agree and say "yes, its hot as frick" or whatever
Geez, you will have to deal with this over the course of a marriage hundreds of times.
I have a brother in law that follows high school football religiously. Now, I love football, and we are both big LSU fans. But when I am sitting at his house, he insists on discussing anything from defensive back that will be a Junior at South Beauregard High, to the 2nd string running back from like Welsh whom I have never ever remotely heard of ( I live in Houston by the way).
We are not talking about the big recruits from the state and whether or not they will go to LSU or not...we are discussing guys, in his mind, that he has seen play that should be signed by LSU or any big time program. He will break down stats of these players exhaustingly
When you have to discuss whether or not Westlake High School should have switched to a dime package against Kinder Friday night, then you tell me about sacrifice with in laws.
If he wants to make small talk about the weather, then agree and say "yes, its hot as frick" or whatever
Geez, you will have to deal with this over the course of a marriage hundreds of times.
I have a brother in law that follows high school football religiously. Now, I love football, and we are both big LSU fans. But when I am sitting at his house, he insists on discussing anything from defensive back that will be a Junior at South Beauregard High, to the 2nd string running back from like Welsh whom I have never ever remotely heard of ( I live in Houston by the way).
We are not talking about the big recruits from the state and whether or not they will go to LSU or not...we are discussing guys, in his mind, that he has seen play that should be signed by LSU or any big time program. He will break down stats of these players exhaustingly
When you have to discuss whether or not Westlake High School should have switched to a dime package against Kinder Friday night, then you tell me about sacrifice with in laws.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:15 am to Red5LSU
Future wife's response should be:
He was being himself and shouldn't have to apologize for any "slights".
As a compromise he will try to be more sociable next time. If you don't want to come, that's up to you.
And OP, shake a man's hand when he invites you into his home. JHC.
He was being himself and shouldn't have to apologize for any "slights".
As a compromise he will try to be more sociable next time. If you don't want to come, that's up to you.
And OP, shake a man's hand when he invites you into his home. JHC.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:16 am to Collegedropout
quote:
Tell her you don't want her sister at your wedding.
OP, please don't do this if you actually want to stay married.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:16 am to Red5LSU
You sound like an awkward guy.
People don't like it when awkward people come into their homes and sit in silence, and they really don't like it when their family members decide to settle down with awkward people.
It just means your kids are going to be awkward, and then they're going to hate your kids too. Vicious cycle, better make some changes.
People don't like it when awkward people come into their homes and sit in silence, and they really don't like it when their family members decide to settle down with awkward people.
It just means your kids are going to be awkward, and then they're going to hate your kids too. Vicious cycle, better make some changes.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:18 am to Red5LSU
Look, I'm an introvert too but I don't use it as an excuse to sit there like a turd. Force yourself say a few small talk things. Ask questions and let them do the talking.
As far as the hand shaking thing, that's pretty ticky tacky. I really don't GAF if a man shakes my hand or not when entering my home. Sounds like the sister is a bit of a bitch.
As far as the hand shaking thing, that's pretty ticky tacky. I really don't GAF if a man shakes my hand or not when entering my home. Sounds like the sister is a bit of a bitch.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:19 am to Collegedropout
You're just young and stupid. You aren't married to this girl... Relationships come and go. Family is forever.
If you're girlfriend is stupid or insecure enough to believe her sister without any proof, there are three possibilities.
1. You are a shitty enough person that your personality gives off the vibe that you are a cheater.
2. Your girlfriend is a dumb drama queen who is always looking to stir up shite.
3. Your girlfriend is already cheating on you and looking at this accusation as a way to justify her action.
If you and your girlfriend's relationship was strong enough she would just laugh it off and tell her sister she is wrong.
How would you feel if you forced a wedge between this girl and her sister and you guys end up breaking up two months later?
If you're girlfriend is stupid or insecure enough to believe her sister without any proof, there are three possibilities.
1. You are a shitty enough person that your personality gives off the vibe that you are a cheater.
2. Your girlfriend is a dumb drama queen who is always looking to stir up shite.
3. Your girlfriend is already cheating on you and looking at this accusation as a way to justify her action.
If you and your girlfriend's relationship was strong enough she would just laugh it off and tell her sister she is wrong.
How would you feel if you forced a wedge between this girl and her sister and you guys end up breaking up two months later?
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:20 am to Bluefin
quote:This. Just talk to people. It isn't hard.
People don't like it when awkward people come into their homes and sit in silence, and they really don't like it when their family members decide to settle down with awkward people.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:20 am to LucasP
quote:
Enjoying time alone is not special, everyone does it. Now there's subreddits for self proclaimed introverts like it's a fricking mental condition. You're just like everyone else, and you don't get a license for special treatment. We all do things we don't like as adults and sometimes that involves social shite. Grow the frick up.
Welcome to the new world order. Some old person is going to say "GODDAMN PARTICIPATION TROPHIES", but that's another symptom not the cause. People, for whatever reason, cannot handle ordinary misery anymore. I'd like to say I'm different, but I'm not. I'm working on getting better, but it's a tough road.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:20 am to Red5LSU
sister wants to frick you. go to her house "to apologize" when no one else will be there and hit her with the naked man
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:21 am to Chuker
quote:
Look, I'm an introvert too but I don't use it as an excuse to sit there like a turd. Force yourself say a few small talk things. Ask questions and let them do the talking.
So more good advice.
OP, look around the room. Could be a fish on the wall - ask where she caught that lunker. Comment on her decor. Ask if lanolin is helping with the dry, cracked and slightly bleeding nipples. "How is the episiotomy healing? Did it hurt?" That kind of thing.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:23 am to LucasP
quote:Scruffy seconds this.
Enjoying time alone is not special, everyone does it. Now there's subreddits for self proclaimed introverts like it's a fricking mental condition. You're just like everyone else, and you don't get a license for special treatment. We all do things we don't like as adults and sometimes that involves social shite. Grow the frick up.
OP isn't special.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:24 am to Sao
quote:
"How is the episiotomy healing? Did it hurt?"
dammit son !!
i had forgotten about that sound for a long time. thanks for reminding me !
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:24 am to Sao
I think he should just get blackout drunk around them. This will allow him to relax and open up. He can also blame any stupid behavior on the alcohol.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:25 am to Bunk Moreland
i still think we need pics of both women involved.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:25 am to Red5LSU
quote:
I didn't shake her husband's hand when I entered the house.
Be a man and give people a firm handshake.
quote:
She also stated that my fiancee should apologize for my actions and if she didn't, my sister-in-law to be wouldn't take part in our wedding.
I don't negotiate with terrorists.
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:25 am to Displaced
You sound like a cuck tbh.
Considering the fact that she is much happier without her sister in her life, I would feel pretty damn good about myself.
That is what happened. You expect us three to just get along fine after that?
I don't.
As I've already said, I don't deal with people's shitty attitudes.
I'm sure the OP is pissed we are hijacking his thread...
quote:
How would you feel if you forced a wedge between this girl and her sister and you guys end up breaking up two months later?
Considering the fact that she is much happier without her sister in her life, I would feel pretty damn good about myself.
quote:
If you and your girlfriend's relationship was strong enough she would just laugh it off and tell her sister she is wrong.
That is what happened. You expect us three to just get along fine after that?
I don't.
As I've already said, I don't deal with people's shitty attitudes.
I'm sure the OP is pissed we are hijacking his thread...
Posted on 8/2/17 at 8:26 am to Red5LSU
Sister in law is a count. DGAF and move on.
Page 3 of 11
Popular
Back to top
Follow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News