Started By
Message

re: Older Employee's Memory is becoming an issue in the office

Posted on 9/22/15 at 7:36 pm to
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81225 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 7:36 pm to
Hi :)
Posted by WG_Dawg
Hoover
Member since Jun 2004
86553 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 7:36 pm to
quote:

Don't let her do enough to hang herself,


the ultimate goal should be for this to happen. Based on the extremely limited info I/we have, this is something that is likely not going to get better and will probably only get worse. If that is the case, she needs to be let go.

-document everything
-first time she fricks up, meet with her and have her sign something going over what you discussed
-if/when she fricks up again, go to HR and show them she is not capable of doing her job
-get new employee; prosper
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28310 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 7:38 pm to
If she's older, it will progress more slowly..

If that is even what it is.
Posted by GFunk
Denham Springs
Member since Feb 2011
14966 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 7:47 pm to
I'll repeat what others have said again...in a professional setting, you have to document, document, document. In this instance you need to institute tools to help this employee keep track of assignments that have critical deadlines.

Don't just spring this on her. Have a meeting where you discuss some of the issues you have. Utilize some of the examples that have occurred. Let her know you are aware of the issue and still sympathetic to her as a worker.

Let her know that this is something you're instituting not for punitive reasons. You're protecting the goals of the office and the mission critical deadlines. You're also instituting this to help prevent future problems between employees like the ones that have occurred recently.

Stress this is something you're doing to prevent problems and document in the future so you can prevent disagreements.

You also owe it to your employees to discuss with them the new process and the reasons for it from their perspective. Don't take sides. Focus on acknowledging the conflict and focus this process as a way to document the issue moving forward.

From here on out, the he said/she said unspoken problems will be on paper and something you can use as a way to start a conversation via progressive discipline if necessary, but initially as coaching and mentoring sessions.

It takes time, it creates a process that adds friction in perms of potentially slowing down your office. But this needs to be a springboard for you to find other areas in your office and your business processes where a documentation system could replace word of mouth and just unspoken processes so that future issues like this one are avoided and you have the tools to nip problems like this in the bud using performance review sessions, coaching and mentoring before you ever have a public conflict between workers.

Conflict is a quick way to create cattiness and bad office morale and a poor work environment. Bad work culture sucks.
Posted by GFunk
Denham Springs
Member since Feb 2011
14966 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 8:00 pm to
quote:

WG_Dawg

quote:



the ultimate goal should be for this to happen. Based on the extremely limited info I/we have, this is something that is likely not going to get better and will probably only get worse. If that is the case, she needs to be let go.

-document everything
-first time she fricks up, meet with her and have her sign something going over what you discussed
-if/when she fricks up again, go to HR and show them she is not capable of doing her job
-get new employee; prosper


This is ridiculous. It costs $0 to put a new system in place where email is used to document and help avoid this problem. It takes time-and money, and lost efficiency-to bring new employees up to speed versus helping an existing employee who already knows the culture and was hired on merit already with a cost less documentation solution.

No offense to you but if you run an office like that-where two mistakes with documentation equal termination-you're going to cost your business money, destroy morale, and on top of that, you're going to get killed with Unemployment.

Employers don't pay it directly out, but when you fire people without opportunity to improve and the employee can show they did their job to the best of their ability, they'll win. Which means your employers or businesses payroll tax rate will skyrocket, which impacts their bottom line.

Quite simply put, your vision is somewhat impaired. Sounds as if you can't see the big picture when it comes to how simple solutions can help avoid bottom lines to being eaten into by knee jerk, short sighted, rushed judgements.
This post was edited on 9/22/15 at 8:08 pm
Posted by GTSwarms
FloRida
Member since Jul 2015
1563 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 8:30 pm to
Very good information in here and I appreciate all of the advice. Never thought that I would come to a damn LSU Football Message Board for advice on this situation but a lot of you guys/gals have been very helpful and I appreciate it.

We have a very close office/staff. We have 18 people working in the office, 15 or so warehouse employees and around 15 field employees. We are not a huge business by any means but we are also not a tiny mom and pop shop either.

It is getting to the point where the HR is going to get more involved. The HR knows her daughter very well and is going to discuss her concerns tomorrow. I just got off the phone a little while ago and she has also noticed a huge difference in the past several weeks and has become very concerned about her well-being.

For those who give a shite in this thread, I will keep y'all posted and thanks again for the great advice
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5142 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 9:01 pm to
quote:


Fire her and hire someone hot. If I'm going to have a shitty employee she better at least have nice tits.


Trump?
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42574 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 9:19 pm to
Thyroid can do that.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36741 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 9:24 pm to
Didn't mean to downvvote glass ... We've had some early 50s admitted with Alzheimer's. It's awful. My mom has the gene .. I keep waiting for it to manifest.
Posted by WG_Dawg
Hoover
Member since Jun 2004
86553 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 9:27 pm to
quote:

It costs $0 to put a new system in place where email is used to document and help avoid this problem


so what happens when she receives the emails and still doens't do her job? Then what? Institute a system where you send her hourly updates on things she shoudl be doing?

quote:

No offense to you but if you run an office like that-where two mistakes with documentation equal termination-you're going to cost your business money, destroy morale, and on top of that, you're going to get killed with Unemployment.



The woman in question in my personal example has shown a long history of frick ups. It has gone on for so long there was no choice BUT to put a system in place. And start documenting everything. And have meetings with her. And having her sign acknowledging that we've had these conversations. She still sucks. The best thing for all parties involved except for her would be to fire her first thing tomorrow morning. But it doesn't work like that.

quote:

when you fire people without opportunity to improve


who said that? She does have opportunity to improve. Hence us having these meetings. And me taking time away from my work to show her how to do basic job functions. And scheduling trainign sessions for her to learn basic duties of her job. She is a liability to our workplace adn no amount of assistance will change that.

quote:

Sounds as if you can't see the big picture


Oh, but I can. If you have someone who can't do their job, you find someone who can do the job. If the OP's employee isn't able to do their job, he should find someone who can. Period.
Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
25376 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 9:29 pm to
I just read this whole thread but I am shocked no one mentioned that she might have an early onset of Alhiezmers.
Posted by StrangeBrew
Salvation Army-Thanks Obama
Member since May 2009
18184 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 9:32 pm to
If she is diagnosed with the disease she will be eligible for disability. You can let her go but a %age of her income will still be paid. Win-win
Posted by ATL-TIGER-732
ATL
Member since Jun 2013
2291 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 10:03 pm to
quote:

she used to be a fantastic employee but now she has become sluggish, slow, lethargic and seems to just be going through the motions.


I suspect this woman has started medication that is causing this.

The legalities of finding out are very tricky.

Maybe you can have HR talk to her. Otherwise, federal medical privacy laws leave you with only one course of action and that is to let her go. Discuss this with HR and find your options.

Your coworker may not realize the effect it is having on her performance. Her doctor needs to be made aware of the situation but you can NOT do that yourself.

It would be risky but can you contact a family member? They would have noticed by now. This woman may need the health insurance you offer so firing her solves your problem but not hers.

You sound like a caring person. I hope this situation has a good outcome.

Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Oct 2007
22064 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 10:17 pm to
Had a builder I worked with that has an employee like that. She fricked up and let a house go to close that had a full finished basement at the price they sell houses for that have unfinished basements.

That will end up costing him about a quarter million due to it fricking up the appraised value of future new construction .
Posted by sleepytime
Member since Feb 2014
3589 posts
Posted on 9/22/15 at 11:16 pm to
She may be taking some meds that are screwing with her memory and there are a LOT of them that do that. I had to go through this exact same situation with an employee years ago, FWIW.
Posted by GFunk
Denham Springs
Member since Feb 2011
14966 posts
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:46 am to
quote:

WG_Dawg
quote:

so what happens when she receives the emails and still doens't do her job? Then what? Institute a system where you send her hourly updates on things she shoudl be doing?



Then you have documentation and hard evidence that she's not performing the work that she's capable of. This is the entire reason for the insertion of a written policy or process here. So you can have the documentation. Where we differ is that you can't fire someone on the 2nd foul-up.

If you get into that habit, it's going to destroy the culture of your office and make everyone walk on egg shells around there. This isn't the Manhattan Project. They're not splitting the atom or working on strains of super-contagious Ebola, man.

These are human beings in an office. They will make mistakes. If you 86 someone based on two mistakes, you're going to create a STAGGERING employee churn level and you'll be investing even more staggering sums into HR hiring, job postings, onboarding process and training, which all costs MONEY.

Typically, you insert the policy, you indicate that failure to comply with the policy can result in progressive discipline and then you enforce the policy. The first issue results in a verbal coaching. You follow that with an e-mail just reiterating the contents of the conversation to document what you did verbally.

The 2nd violation would normally require a written acknowledgement of a violation of policy and that subsequent issues could lead to further disciplinary issues up to and including termination for cause.

Subsequent to the 2nd documented case, you're definitely within the bounds of Employment Security Law to terminate with cause for failure to comply with company policy and/or reasonable request. You've got documentation of a pattern of this failure and the e-mails confirming the verbal warning along with the written documentation of the final two will help you sail through any attempt by the employee to file for Unemployment Benefits.

Bam. Just a little more patience and with ZERO extra cost and you've saved your company money on the bottom line, reduced workplace friction and solved a human capital problem by eliminating someone from the workplace who can't do the work.

quote:

The woman in question in my personal example has shown a long history of frick ups. It has gone on for so long there was no choice BUT to put a system in place. And start documenting everything. And have meetings with her. And having her sign acknowledging that we've had these conversations. She still sucks. The best thing for all parties involved except for her would be to fire her first thing tomorrow morning. But it doesn't work like that.


I didn't care about your personal example. I was speaking to the OP. Using your method would cost companies a ton of money, and that's why employee handbooks that flesh out documentation and progressive discipline via verbal/written/termination are usually utilized by successful companies who handle employee relations better on average than most.

quote:

who said that? She does have opportunity to improve. Hence us having these meetings. And me taking time away from my work to show her how to do basic job functions. And scheduling trainign sessions for her to learn basic duties of her job. She is a liability to our workplace adn no amount of assistance will change that.


Again I didn't care and wasn't speaking to your example. I thought you were discussing the OP's example, which is what my advice was targeted at.

If you clearly defined the work metrics through objectives and job definitions and an initial job description then subsequent training sessions should be part of progressive discipline. If she's not adhering after that and you've given her opportunity, then yes definitely termination is an option you can pursue without a problem IMO.

quote:

Oh, but I can. If you have someone who can't do their job, you find someone who can do the job. If the OP's employee isn't able to do their job, he should find someone who can. Period.



I'll say it again...Having a hair trigger is never the right answer. You aren't going to build long-term culture and chemistry, and you'll never create a positive office climate like that. You put policies in place to protect against employees having issues with things like this, and then you simply follow the policy.

From that point, it's no longer a situation where it's you siding with one employee or the other. You're simply adhering to a policy that the employee knew about long before that's tied to the objectives and mission of the office you work in.
Posted by BulldogXero
Member since Oct 2011
9775 posts
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:52 am to
She's 55 not 75. She either has health issues or is just incompetent
Posted by LSUAlum2001
Stavro Mueller Beta
Member since Aug 2003
47138 posts
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:59 am to
quote:

The bad part about it is that other employees are noticing this in her as well. One of the girls got in an argument with her this afternoon because she was asked to get paperwork, etc ready for the close out of a contract and that the builder was going to be here at 3:00 to finalize everything. Around 2:30 the employee asked the older lady if she had everything ready and the older lady said "No, nobody ever told me that this was due today"



Always follow up every in-person discussion with an email reiterating what was discussed.

Problem solved.
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
5480 posts
Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:00 am to
quote:

Everyone should email her their requests.

This. I haven't deleted a single email in over a year. If something ever comes up as to why/why I have an email to back me up.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67497 posts
Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:09 am to
quote:

Everyone should email her their requests.

Exactly this....having to CYA is bullshite but it eliminates a lot of "she said, she said".
first pageprev pagePage 3 of 4Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookTwitterInstagram