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re: My friends girlfriend hates football.

Posted on 10/19/15 at 5:15 pm to
Posted by mahdragonz
Member since Jun 2013
6935 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 5:15 pm to
You knew that when you married her.

Why woukd you expect her to change?
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18769 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 5:45 pm to
My wife loves football. My issue is we have opposite teams for NFL (me Saints and her Cowboys). This sounds like something that should have been worked out before you got married (like who does the cooking, etc.).
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68199 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 5:45 pm to
For the first 10 years of marriage she didn't like it, but I watched it anyway regardless of complaints. I'm not nearly as into it as when I was single, but I told her it's something I enjoy and I'm going to do it.

Now, she goes with me to most of the Saints games by her choice.

Seriously, why do you even concern yourself with such a petty complaint from her?
Posted by mailman
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
6143 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 5:48 pm to
Betta af thread of the year goes to...
Cmon man you're grown arse man asking to watch a fricking game. You and the rest of the nation are doing it as clean socially accepted American tradition. Get some nuts
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68199 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 5:54 pm to
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Sounds like I will just watch football alone now


What the hell is wrong with that? Better than the nagging and questions, " Why does the man with the ball always run at the players on the other team? Why not run around them?"
Posted by Gulf Coast Tiger
Ms Gulf Coast
Member since Jan 2004
18662 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:04 pm to
Did she know you loved football when y'all got married? If yes, then tell her to Shut up.


Did you know she hated football when y'all got married? If yes, then shut up.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:04 pm to
You are a world class pussy. It's not about football, it's marrying and listening to a sour slut who doesn't want you to have a life. Why would you entertain staying with someone who doesn't want you happy?

Congrats, you are that guy we all laugh at who's who're runs his life and tells him when it's ok to smile.

Loser!
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79189 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:09 pm to
My GF has team/school loyalty, I don't think she actually cares about football.

She does care about not hearing shite from rival teams/schools, the social aspect of tailgating and watching games, and the fact that watching and going to football games is pretty much as Texas/Southern/American as it gets.

If she ever gives it up my plan is to compare her to SJW liberal types and I imagine that'll solve it.
Posted by jmcs68
Member since Sep 2012
40401 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:13 pm to
The reality is you could be doing a hell of a lot worse than staying home and watching football. Tell her to think about that for a bit.
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
38378 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:29 pm to
I tell every girl that I date that Alabama football was my first love, and that on Saturdays in the fall, Alabama football comes first. I don't mind missing a big game to do something with a lady friend, but I'm not going to miss an Alabama game to do something with a lady friend. That's enough compromise for me. I always tell them that if it appears things may get serious. Like oh by the way this is what happens in the fall, and that's just how it is.

Basically I put my foot down early on that. Since I love Alabama football and it makes me happy to sit down and watch them play, I really couldn't care less if some girl is watching it with me or not, as long as I'm watching
This post was edited on 10/19/15 at 6:31 pm
Posted by TOKEN
Member since Feb 2014
11990 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:47 pm to
This is why God created the mistress!
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30612 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:49 pm to
quote:

The reality is you could be doing a hell of a lot worse than staying home and watching football. Tell her to think about that for a bit.



True. But some more important information. My wife is from a non football watching family. Her dad and brothers do not watch football or really any sports. Sucks that I can not discuss sports with her family when I visit b/c that is easy for me.

My family from Grandparents, Aunts/Uncles, all the way down to siblings eat and sleep LSU/Saints football. We all grew up that way. If we are not watching the game together we text each other during the games and discuss it.

I guess it is a culture shock to my new wife right now but hopefully she will grow into it. It is just a different way of life that she is not used to. But right now I'm ok watching the games alone while she does her stuff.

This post was edited on 10/19/15 at 7:35 pm
Posted by hillcountrywanderer
Buda, TX
Member since Jul 2014
529 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:53 pm to

quote:

My wife does not like football but she rarely ever complains when I watch it.


She's probably getting some strange on the side, I'd watch out bro.
Posted by JombieZombie
Member since Nov 2009
7687 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:54 pm to
As long as it's not affecting your professional life or your relationship then she just needs to shut up about it. If it wasn't football it would be something else.
Posted by jmcs68
Member since Sep 2012
40401 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 6:55 pm to
quote:


I guess it is a culture shock to my new wife right now but hopefully she will grow into it. It just a different way of life that she is not used to.



I like you grew up watching and attending sporting events. Before I had children I didn't care for anything outside of college sports or the Saints. That changed when my son started tee-ball. She'll come around. Best of luck to you and congrats on the marriage.
Posted by Mung
NorCal
Member since Aug 2007
9054 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 7:08 pm to
quote:

my wife is a Gajan so football is in her blood


Hokie, Baker High '75

woo-hoo!
Posted by Corch Urban Myers
Columbus, OH
Member since Jul 2009
5993 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 7:12 pm to
My wife hates football too. Along with all other organized sports.

My advice: do your thing and let her do hers. If she can't accept that, then leave the bitch.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129001 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 7:17 pm to
I've gotten to where I honestly just don't really care about watching football anymore(not even LSU football). But don't care if my husband watches it. I'll sit on the couch with him and sometimes watch, but usually just find something else to occupy my time while he watches(reading, playing on the computer, etc).

However, I understand that if his teams are playing(he's from AZ so he is a huge AZ Cards fan), he's gonna want to watch the game if he is home. I can go in another room or leave if I don't want to watch.



Marriage is about compromise....and not expecting the other person to change and accepting them they way they are(you talk about her gaining interest, just accept she doesn't....would you want her wishing you lost interest in football?) As long as she respects that you want to watch the games and doesn't whine about you watching them, I say don't stress over it.
Posted by reginaphilange
Member since Mar 2014
415 posts
Posted on 10/19/15 at 7:33 pm to
I promise you if you get into the social scene to watch the games, your wife will change her tune. My husband watches as many games as he can Thursday through Monday. On Saturdays, he has three tvs set up in the living room, but you know what? My husband is here at home, a room or two away from me, enjoying himself. Why would that bother me? I would much rather him here (not drinking and driving or riding with someone who has been drinking) than out at a bar. Plus, it gives me time to do my own thing.
Posted by caliegeaux
Member since Aug 2004
10145 posts
Posted on 10/20/15 at 6:56 am to
quote:

Our first LSU Bama game together was the 9-6 game. I figure if we could make it through that and all the Alabama LSU games that have happened since then, we've got a good thing going here.


I was there as well....great atmosphere. And yeah, if y'all survived that night (for your sake) and she's surviving the rapeage since then, y'all are good!
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