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re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:51 am to Spilled Milk
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:51 am to Spilled Milk
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honestly tried to have this convo in the past, several times...it ends with her saying she feels like we do it more than what I'm claiming(she's just not being honest with herself) or it ends with me just conceding because she's worked the conversation down an unrelated path.
This is sad. It's going to come down to you deciding how important sex is to you. It's okay that sex is important to you. It's normal and heathy to want sex. Nothing kills confidence and happiness faster than feeling unwanted.
If she refuses to really discuss or change, I'm not sure what else you can do. I never want to feel like I'm being pity fricked.
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Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:52 am to Spilled Milk
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t ends with her saying she feels like we do it more than what I'm claiming(she's just not being honest with herself)
Tell her she's making stuff up in her head again, that will most definitely work.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:52 am to Spilled Milk
quote:Frick the conversations. Take her to happy hour today on national margarita day. Drink way to much then go home and have some fun. Yalls life sounds boring AF.
I've honestly tried to have this convo in the past, several times...
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:52 am to Evil Little Thing
Hey...
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:53 am to lsunurse
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maybe even less now that I think about it.
Yikes....how do she ever get pregnant then?
We were all thinking that but you had to go and say it! 
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:53 am to Spilled Milk
do you question her fidelity?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:55 am to Displaced
Damn, time to get therapy or a divorce...
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:55 am to Spilled Milk
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I've honestly tried to have this convo in the past, several times...it ends with her saying she feels like we do it more than what I'm claiming(she's just not being honest with herself) or it ends with me just conceding because she's worked the conversation down an unrelated path.
That sucks but I'd be packing my stuff after a conversation like that.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:56 am to yellowfin
Sure I saw a reddit bomb about this where guy made spreadsheet showing request and results/excuses
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:57 am to Bullfrog
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Frick the conversations. Take her to happy hour today on national margarita day. Drink way to much then go home and have some fun. Yalls life sounds boring AF.
This is kind of what I'm thinking. Women will try and cut a mans nuts off because they are insecure with themselves. The best thing the OP can do is focusing on being a man again.... Go golf, fish, hang out etc. she needs to admire you again. She will take care of your kids while you're gone, and if she doesn't feel obligated to do this as a woman and mother then she's a bad apple. I've seen women leave their kids and they are trash IMO.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:57 am to Spilled Milk
quote:You two need to go to therapy, and not just as couples. Go to therapy individually because it sounds like you have communication issues. And while it sounds like she's the one being unrealistic about how much sex you're having, you probably need therapy too.
I've honestly tried to have this convo in the past, several times...it ends with her saying she feels like we do it more than what I'm claiming(she's just not being honest with herself) or it ends with me just conceding because she's worked the conversation down an unrelated path.
Been there, done that.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:00 am to Rouge
This guy should download that app I mentioned.
Hearts can be the days they actually have sex. Lightening bolts can be the days he has to take matters into his own hands
OP.....seriously though, good luck. You deserve better than this.
Hearts can be the days they actually have sex. Lightening bolts can be the days he has to take matters into his own hands
OP.....seriously though, good luck. You deserve better than this.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:01 am to lsunurse
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OP.....seriously though, good luck. You deserve better than this.
Seriously though... You deserve some type of award for staying faithful this whole time only getting sex that much!!!
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:01 am to Spilled Milk
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I'm trying to be mindful and respectful of her, I sense she wants nothing to do with it so I don't push the issue.
I hate to repeat the OT douchebag response, but this is a very "beta" answer when you're admitting to us that you want more sex while also admitting that you rarely make the move.
You're not "sensing" anything if you don't pursue her and have her say no. You have to actually get her to the point of saying "Not tonight" or "I'm tired" or "I have a headache." If you insist on sex after she says that, then you're pushing the issue. Flirting, kissing, feeling, romancing - that's just what it takes to get women interested in sex. Most of them aren't going to just show up in lingerie when you're in the mood. I mean, what do you expect to see in her so that you can "sense" she wants to have sex?
Sounds like you're expecting to have more sex while not wanting to do much for it. My wife and I have a great relationship. A few weeks ago, our son went down for bed and she crashed on the couch wanting to go to sleep. She kicked off her shoes and apologized for her stinky feet. I used that as a jump off point to flirt and be silly. Yeah, her feet stunk, but it took about five minutes of flirting to convince her to get into the bath tub with me. About an hour later, we were both very, very happy and ready for sleep.
No, that's not the most romantic, sexy story that many people think about when it comes to sex, but it's a definite reality of being married working parents who still want to have an intimate relationship.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:01 am to lsunurse
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Lightening bolts can be the days he has to take matters into his own hands
You think he should rape her?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:02 am to lsunurse
some people just dont have sex.
see it more with older 'separate beds' generation but my daughter (she's 14) was telling me her friend told her that her mom & dad haven't had sex in several years but are VERY HAPPY
i thought that was just odd.
see it more with older 'separate beds' generation but my daughter (she's 14) was telling me her friend told her that her mom & dad haven't had sex in several years but are VERY HAPPY
i thought that was just odd.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:02 am to lsu480
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You think he should rape her?
She may be into that
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:03 am to LSUfanNkaty
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Seriously though... You deserve some type of award for staying faithful this whole time only getting sex that much!!!
He really does.
I would have ghosted long ago.
Like most men I think sex =love.
This post was edited on 2/22/16 at 10:03 am
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:03 am to StringedInstruments
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Yeah, her feet stunk
You sucked those nasty toes, didn't you?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:04 am to lsu480
No! Those are the days he jacks off. Documented to show her.
What part of "his own hands" did you not grasp?
What part of "his own hands" did you not grasp?
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