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re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:14 am to Spilled Milk
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:14 am to Spilled Milk
30 years. 3-5 times a week
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Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:15 am to LNCHBOX
who knows, as in all threads, we are only getting partial info. im sure its somewhere in the middle though.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:16 am to Spilled Milk
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Yes, there are two kids.
Kids can interfere for sure. This can happen when babies are awake all hours of the night and you're exhausted. Also, women do go through an emotional challenge after babies where they can feel uncomfortable about their bodies. Just reassure her she's hot still. I think you guys need to find time after your kids go to bed. Also I think you need to be the instigator and be demanding honestly. Explain to her sex is important in marriage. I promise she's looking for to be desired, don't let her reject you with stupid excuses. She's either depressed or has emotionally stepped away. This doesn't mean the end or anything like that but up to you to bring it back.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:19 am to Spilled Milk
Not sure if this has been mentioned yet, but is she on birth control?
Some birth control meds can really kill a woman's sex drive. She should talk to her dr about changing.
My wife got off of BC pills a few years ago, and we went from once a week or so to 3x weekly.
Some birth control meds can really kill a woman's sex drive. She should talk to her dr about changing.
My wife got off of BC pills a few years ago, and we went from once a week or so to 3x weekly.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:20 am to LSUfan20005
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My wife got off of BC pills a few years ago, and we went from once a week or so to 3x weekly.
Same here... Birth control meds makes them insane.
This post was edited on 2/22/16 at 9:21 am
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:24 am to LNCHBOX
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Do yall really look at your wives this shallowly?
OP's issue is him not initiating it enough for his own desire.
He probably stopped initiating because he knows his wife doesn't like it, and he feels weird having sex with a rag doll
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:25 am to KG6
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It comes and goes for us. There's months when it isn't happening much at all. Then there are better months. My wife still has the mentality of a girl you took home from the bar. She's got to say no for some reason. But sometimes no means yes. But sometimes no really means no. It's infuriating. Sometimes you just got to keep pushing till you get slapped. Now I'm depressed.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:26 am to Spilled Milk
I used to buy thousand packs of condoms from condomdepot...
Now I buy 24 packs of skyns.
Our numbers are down to once a week for the last year...
As soon as my wife can be on birth control again, I expect to knock out 60 in the first month. I actually have vacation planned for it. She won't walk straight for six months.
Now I buy 24 packs of skyns.
Our numbers are down to once a week for the last year...
As soon as my wife can be on birth control again, I expect to knock out 60 in the first month. I actually have vacation planned for it. She won't walk straight for six months.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:26 am to Spilled Milk
Say nothing and get this: LINK
If she's clean, try harder and get counseling.
If she's clean, try harder and get counseling.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:29 am to sleepytime
Dude if you have to scientifically check your wife's panties for other men semen then your marriage is already over.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:29 am to sleepytime
my wife is crazy hot and the 1yo DEFINITELY has an impact on our sex life because she's the one up late with him when he's fussy and won't go to sleep and if we let him 'cry it out', listening to him kills the mood utterly and completely.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:30 am to Spilled Milk
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Yes, is this typical?
Yikes. No. I've been married since 2003 and we're way more frequent than that. I feel sorry for you.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:32 am to Spilled Milk
How long does it typically take for a couple to stop having frequent sex?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:32 am to Mo Jeaux
I sometimes wish I had just gotten my arse up that Saturday morning and got that damn plan b pill
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:33 am to Tiger Ryno
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Ask her what you can do to help the situation for her. Maybe there are things you can take off her plate. Giving the kids their bath...doing the dishes...help with laundry. Take the initiative.
I do most of these things, I clean the house, cook supper, do all of my laundry all the time and the kids laundry about 80% of the time.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:34 am to sportsaddit68
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The way you are describing her emotions and such makes me think the reason you are getting it 4-6 weeks is simply pity sex.
Yes, this is a very accurate description...I feel like when we do have it she's like " ok, guess I need to do this"
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:35 am to Spilled Milk
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Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?
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I've been married 6+ years...we average sex once every 4-6 weeks.
YIKES!!! That sucks dude...I've been married for almost 6 years, and together with her for almost 10, and we have sex around 4 times a week on average. I guess it comes to about every other night, having sex. Now....I still take care of myself on other nights...I ain't old and my sex drive is kicking
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:36 am to Spilled Milk
i'll be honest:
my first wife and i did not have sex that often because quite frankly, i was not in love with her and got married for a whole lot of incorrect reasons like i was 'saving her from a bad situation', 'felt sorry for her', etc.
yep. stupid as hell.
anyway, my new wife i am in love with and she is sexy as hell and my sex drive kicked into a new gear after we got together so 2 marriages and my situation couldn't be more different with how often we have sex and how much we desire each other.
my first wife and i did not have sex that often because quite frankly, i was not in love with her and got married for a whole lot of incorrect reasons like i was 'saving her from a bad situation', 'felt sorry for her', etc.
yep. stupid as hell.
anyway, my new wife i am in love with and she is sexy as hell and my sex drive kicked into a new gear after we got together so 2 marriages and my situation couldn't be more different with how often we have sex and how much we desire each other.
This post was edited on 2/22/16 at 9:37 am
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:36 am to Spilled Milk
You need to find a way for a family member to watch the kiddos for 3-5 days minimum...take her on a vacation... Seduce her all over again. DON'T GET HER PREGNANT AGAIN ON THE VACATION.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:37 am to Spilled Milk
Something is wrong then. Time to lay it all out for her.
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