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re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?

Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:24 am to
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:24 am to
Once a year if I want it or not.
Posted by Spilled Milk
Member since Mar 2015
1075 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:25 am to
quote:

You do plant or offshore work? Shift work?


Nope, home every night
Posted by BamaChemE
Midland, TX
Member since Feb 2012
7140 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:25 am to
quote:


Yeah, I try to bring it up every once in a while but she gets defensive and says we do it more often than that...which we don't.


Buy a calendar and highlight or in someway mark the times you have sex. Don't say anything about it until Christmas. Or you could put together an excel spreadsheet complete with excuses she gives for not wanting to have sex. I think it worked really well for the last guy who did that on the internet.
This post was edited on 2/22/16 at 8:26 am
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28326 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:25 am to
quote:

Yes, is this typical?

Not sure what is typical but if I don't at least once a week I start accidentally breaking expensive things around the house.

At once every 4-6 weeks I'd have to have either a girlfriend or a nearby brothel to stay sane.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97632 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:26 am to
quote:

we average sex once every 4-6 weeks


I'd be fricking the maid, babysitter, stripper, etc if my wife only had sex with me once a month


Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14792 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:26 am to
quote:

There are a couple of times during the year we may have sex twice in the same week


Do you know which weeks these will be?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:26 am to
quote:

Yeah, I try to bring it up every once in a while but she gets defensive and says we do it more often than that...which we don't.


keep track officially.

surely there is an app for that.
Posted by Spilled Milk
Member since Mar 2015
1075 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:26 am to
quote:

Are there medical issues that you or your wife have?

Nope
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18769 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:26 am to
Why the frick are you sharing personal details like that on TD? Do you have any respect for the privacy of your marriage?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:27 am to
i would question her fidelity if i were you.
Posted by RileyTime
Gulf Breeze, FL
Member since Oct 2008
6929 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:27 am to
I've been married for about 14 months, and since I've been married I would say probably 2 times a week average... But a lot has happened over the last year that have brought down the numbers... Like moving from Seattle to Raleigh haha.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:28 am to
around 2-3 times per week
Posted by BamaChemE
Midland, TX
Member since Feb 2012
7140 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:28 am to
Are you bad at sex?

Was she raised in an ultra conservative home where sex was considered the ultimate evil?
Posted by Spilled Milk
Member since Mar 2015
1075 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:28 am to
quote:

Buy a calendar and highlight or in someway mark the times you have sex. Don't say anything about it until Christmas. Or you could put together an excel spreadsheet complete with excuses she gives for not wanting to have sex. I think it worked really well for the last guy who did that on the internet.


I guess I should also say, she doesn't turn me down when I make my "move" but I can also sense when she doesn't feel like it...which is nearly all the time. I don't force the issue, but it is starting to get to me.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14792 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:29 am to
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Like moving from Seattle to Raleigh haha


Was seeing hipsters and gloomy/rainy weather all day more of an aphrodisiac for her?
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:29 am to
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Or you could put together an excel spreadsheet complete with excuses she gives for not wanting to have sex. I think it worked really well for the last guy who did that on the internet.


Don't even show this to your wife . I made that mistake. Couldn't imagine if I had actually been the one keeping track.

It comes and goes for us. There's months when it isn't happening much at all. Then there are better months. My wife still has the mentality of a girl you took home from the bar. She's got to say no for some reason. But sometimes no means yes. But sometimes no really means no. It's infuriating. Sometimes you just got to keep pushing till you get slapped. Now I'm depressed.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28326 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:30 am to
So you and your wife have only had sex approximately 60 times in the last six years?

Geez. I guess you're okay with it to let it go on that long.

Any kids?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:30 am to
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Buy a calendar and highlight or in someway mark the times you have sex. Don't say anything about it until Christmas


i would approach it head on rather than this passive agressive BS.
Posted by Supermoto Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2010
9927 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:30 am to
quote:

At once every 4-6 weeks I'd have to have either a girlfriend or a nearby brothel to stay sane.

This
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97632 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to
I told my wife I like to have sex 2-3 times a week, it's up to her whether that's with her or someone else
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