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re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to Spilled Milk
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to Spilled Milk
Then it's you. She never turns you down? Then it sounds like you're only making a move every four to six weeks.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to Spilled Milk
Sounds pretty Beta to me. Tie your wife down and give it to her where she will want it again.
Maybe your problem will be solved or maybe you will be looking into a new wife.
Maybe your problem will be solved or maybe you will be looking into a new wife.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to Spilled Milk
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I guess I should also say, she doesn't turn me down when I make my "move" but I can also sense when she doesn't feel like it...which is nearly all the time. I don't force the issue, but it is starting to get to me.
I don't know how much you know about physics, but several studies have shown that sex is a lot like inertia. The simplified version is that sex causes more sex. No sex causes less sex. Keep hitting it and you should see her desire increase as a result. I'll try to find links later.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to Havoc
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So you and your wife have only had sex approximately 60 times in the last six years?
60 times in six years is probably a tad on the high end...there were stretches where we would go 6-8 weeks without sex. Yes, there are two kids.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:32 am to Spilled Milk
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60 times in six years is probably a tad on the high end
Pics?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to Spilled Milk
It sounds like you and your wife need to exercise. Fat people aren't attractive.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to Spilled Milk
Dude get some marriage counseling. Life doesn't have to be that way.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to Displaced
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keep track officially. surely there is an app for that.
This is a bad idea and they get even more angry if you try to use hard evidence to prove them wrong.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to Spilled Milk
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Yeah, I try to bring it up every once in a while but she gets defensive and says we do it more often than that...which we don't.
Either she isn't attracted to you or she doesn't like sex, either way it sucks and you need to either accept it or think about moving on if sex is that important to you.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to BamaChemE
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I don't know how much you know about physics, but several studies have shown that sex is a lot like inertia. The simplified version is that sex causes more sex. No sex causes less sex. Keep hitting it and you should see her desire increase as a result. I'll try to find links later.
I can understand this school of thought, but after we have sex the "eh, I'm over it" feeling is just oozing off her.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:34 am to fishfighter
61 years old and just (re)married for the second time in October 2014....average about 6x per week....
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to Spilled Milk
She's not attracted to you. Get back in shape and get rid of the gut.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to lsu480
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either way it sucks and you need to either accept it or think about moving on if sex is that important to you.
It's obviously not that important, as I've lived with this for quite some time...it's just starting to get to me is all
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to Dam Guide
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This is a bad idea and they get even more angry if you try to use hard evidence to prove them wrong.
One of the advantages of marrying an engineer is that she actually responds positively to logical, fact-based arguments.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to ThatMakesSense
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Was seeing hipsters and gloomy/rainy weather all day more of an aphrodisiac for her?
Haha nah. Our sex life is starting to pick back up now that we are settled. We were living with a friend from Sept to Dec of 2015 due to stupid circumstances and she is a high stress woman so I wasn't getting it as much as I wanted... And I have been on night shift here for the last month so that didn't help.
But I survive just fine.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to Chicagoland Tiger
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61 years old and just (re)married for the second time in October 2014....average about 6x per week
be sure to ask your doctor if your heart is healthy enough for sex.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:36 am to Displaced
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are you out of shape?
I'm no young Warren Beatty or anything
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:36 am to Spilled Milk
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Married OTers
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I've been married 6+ years
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we average sex once every 4-6 weeks.
marriage, not even once
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