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re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?

Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18379 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to
Then it's you. She never turns you down? Then it sounds like you're only making a move every four to six weeks.
Posted by EyeoftheEldrick12
Member since Jul 2012
1949 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to
Sounds pretty Beta to me. Tie your wife down and give it to her where she will want it again.

Maybe your problem will be solved or maybe you will be looking into a new wife.
Posted by BamaChemE
Midland, TX
Member since Feb 2012
7140 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to
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I guess I should also say, she doesn't turn me down when I make my "move" but I can also sense when she doesn't feel like it...which is nearly all the time. I don't force the issue, but it is starting to get to me.


I don't know how much you know about physics, but several studies have shown that sex is a lot like inertia. The simplified version is that sex causes more sex. No sex causes less sex. Keep hitting it and you should see her desire increase as a result. I'll try to find links later.
Posted by Spilled Milk
Member since Mar 2015
1075 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:31 am to
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So you and your wife have only had sex approximately 60 times in the last six years?


60 times in six years is probably a tad on the high end...there were stretches where we would go 6-8 weeks without sex. Yes, there are two kids.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14792 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:32 am to
quote:

60 times in six years is probably a tad on the high end


Pics?
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to
It sounds like you and your wife need to exercise. Fat people aren't attractive.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18379 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to
Dude get some marriage counseling. Life doesn't have to be that way.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15503 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to
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keep track officially. surely there is an app for that.


This is a bad idea and they get even more angry if you try to use hard evidence to prove them wrong.
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to
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Yeah, I try to bring it up every once in a while but she gets defensive and says we do it more often than that...which we don't.


Either she isn't attracted to you or she doesn't like sex, either way it sucks and you need to either accept it or think about moving on if sex is that important to you.
Posted by Spilled Milk
Member since Mar 2015
1075 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:33 am to
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I don't know how much you know about physics, but several studies have shown that sex is a lot like inertia. The simplified version is that sex causes more sex. No sex causes less sex. Keep hitting it and you should see her desire increase as a result. I'll try to find links later.


I can understand this school of thought, but after we have sex the "eh, I'm over it" feeling is just oozing off her.
Posted by Chicagoland Tiger
North Scottsdale
Member since Feb 2011
305 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:34 am to
61 years old and just (re)married for the second time in October 2014....average about 6x per week....
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to
are you out of shape?
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66429 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to
She's not attracted to you. Get back in shape and get rid of the gut.
Posted by Spilled Milk
Member since Mar 2015
1075 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to
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either way it sucks and you need to either accept it or think about moving on if sex is that important to you.

It's obviously not that important, as I've lived with this for quite some time...it's just starting to get to me is all
Posted by BamaChemE
Midland, TX
Member since Feb 2012
7140 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to
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This is a bad idea and they get even more angry if you try to use hard evidence to prove them wrong.


One of the advantages of marrying an engineer is that she actually responds positively to logical, fact-based arguments.
Posted by RileyTime
Gulf Breeze, FL
Member since Oct 2008
6929 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to
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Was seeing hipsters and gloomy/rainy weather all day more of an aphrodisiac for her?


Haha nah. Our sex life is starting to pick back up now that we are settled. We were living with a friend from Sept to Dec of 2015 due to stupid circumstances and she is a high stress woman so I wasn't getting it as much as I wanted... And I have been on night shift here for the last month so that didn't help.

But I survive just fine.
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
89513 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to
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hard evidence


Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:35 am to
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61 years old and just (re)married for the second time in October 2014....average about 6x per week


be sure to ask your doctor if your heart is healthy enough for sex.
Posted by Spilled Milk
Member since Mar 2015
1075 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:36 am to
quote:

are you out of shape?


I'm no young Warren Beatty or anything
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41819 posts
Posted on 2/22/16 at 8:36 am to
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Married OTers

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I've been married 6+ years
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we average sex once every 4-6 weeks.



marriage, not even once
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