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re: Is your S/O fat? Would you ever tell him/her to get in better shape?

Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:46 am to
Posted by Displaced
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Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:46 am to
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Men evolved to be attracted to thin women with ideal hip to waist ratios. Because spreading his seed to fat women in primal times meant his offspring had a less chance of surviving because he bred with a woman who made bad choices. Fat women were a liability in tribal times.


You're actually 100% wrong. In primal times, bigger women were seen as better than skinny women because your children would have a lesser chance of starving to death.

Educate yourself a bit and read about the Venus of Willendorf.

Mating with skinny women is a privilege of our current lifestyle. It's the same for big men in olden days. Fat men meant children got to eat.
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:46 am to
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My SO has body image issues.

She'll never get fat, but I think she is the type that wants me to be heavy so she can feel better about herself.

Every time I get serious about training she gets really frustrated with me. I even try and work around her schedule and then she guilt trips me about never having time to work out herself.

FML


This is common

A lot of women who get fat will shame their man and try to get him fat too. For example he will go the gym and they will bitch about it, "Why are you going to the gym, I like you the way you are, you could stand to gain a few bounds, I like dad bods, etc." Then he gets fat. Women do this to feel better about themselves being fat, and because they know if she is fat and he is in shape, he will leave her for a woman who isn't fat. It's just her way of keeping her around

The best card a man has is the ability to walk away. If she won't get in shape, you need to let her know you can and will walk. The fear of losing you is what will motivate her. If she knows you will stay no matter what, what is her motive to stay in shape?
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:47 am to
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A lot of women who get fat will shame their man and try to get him fat too
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She'll never get fat


Reading is hard for red pillers.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
53697 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:47 am to
The alpha play here would be to put some type weight clause in the pre-nup where she gets less if she becomes fat.
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
24514 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:47 am to
Men are hardwired to be attracted to young women with a certain hip/waist ratio because men are genetically programmed to engage in reproductive behavior. Old women have lost their ability to have babies. Obese women are subconscoiusly written of as either unhealthy i.e. not being able to produce healthy offspring, or as being pregnant.
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:48 am to
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I called my wife out on eating a slice of pizza late at night on a whim. She's not fat but basically came at me like:



Good luck with that accountability thing...


we've been this way our entire relationship. It's positive peer pressure to eat healthy.
Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:49 am to
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Fat women in caveman times


Are we sure that these existed?
Posted by InfantryDawg
Valhalla
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:49 am to
This will not end well for you .
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20089 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:50 am to
The arrangement to prod each other over weight issues will not end well. She will not respond as planned, you miss out on sex, and then bitching at each other will increase. Just be happy growing fat and screwing a fat woman the rest of your life. Never bring up weight to a woman!
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:51 am to
Are you suggesting that a man leave his wife and kids because she got fat?
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30622 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:51 am to
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The alpha play here would be to put some type weight clause in the pre-nup where she gets less if she becomes fat.

Thats like a modeling contract. You gain 5 pounds, you get dropped, with no ramifications for the modeling company. Could be a very productive marriage contract for the rich guy that buys a trophy wife
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30622 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:52 am to
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The arrangement to prod each other over weight issues will not end well. She will not respond as planned, you miss out on sex, and then bitching at each other will increase. Just be happy growing fat and screwing a fat woman the rest of your life. Never bring up weight to a woman!

We got our first admitted Chubby Chaser baws
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32719 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:53 am to
Let's say i buy that. I have a feeling that what the cavemen considered healthy, you consider obese.
This post was edited on 4/19/17 at 9:56 am
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:53 am to
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To pecker:

What happens when y'all are both 50+ and your hormones are failing you. You aren't going to be young and attractive forever.


You're definitely not going to be young and attractive forever. I still believe you can be healthy though.

We find each other attractive, physically and psychologically. Outer attractiveness will of course fade with time, but it doesn't have to be because of an unhealthy lifestyle. We both feel strongly about that. My parents are huge health nuts and very active so I was raised that way. She had a similar upbringing so she's serious about eating well and working on her body, even when working 70-hr weeks.
Posted by FlappingPierre
St. George
Member since Nov 2013
4407 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:55 am to
You have quickly turned into the worst poster on this site
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32719 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:57 am to
I don't mind his schtick. He's like a less douchey GN mixed with a less funny LucasP

And he routinely posts pics of his fiancee's arse so he gains some points there.
This post was edited on 4/19/17 at 9:59 am
Posted by NWLA Tiguh12
Member since Jul 2015
2402 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:58 am to
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Not sure what is so funny

The stupid shite you say is quite comical.

Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 4/19/17 at 9:58 am to
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Everyone shits all over Pecker and GNugs when they start threads, and rightfully so for the amount of attention they bring to themselves, but they have solid ideas. Very unorganized and controversial ideas, but still solid ideas.

For example in this thread, husbands and wives need to hold each other accountable for their weight gain, so that we can improve our health overall, and everyone can be better off. If everyone did this, we wouldn't have an obesity problem, which eventually spreads to our children as well, and endangers their health


This is why you're a top tier poster. Not because you agree with me. And not because you're not an obese loser who lashes out in anger. And not because you're not a mangina who has to get his wife's permission before going to the grocery store.

Mostly because you're just not a pussy.
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 10:01 am to
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Damn dude. You must be naturally built like a string bean. If so I have a feeling your side of the bargain will be considerably easier.



My natural build is somewhere in between. I've never been skinny but I've never been big. I can put on muscle easily. But the same is true with fat. I've managed to keep my body fat% low for the past 4 years with just diet. Don't really do cario anymore.
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
11572 posts
Posted on 4/19/17 at 10:03 am to
Fine and dandy but what are you going to do or what is she going to do when the gene pool makes its appearance....bolt???

You might need to re-think the weight placed upon physical appearance before any knot is tied

to your question, no, neither of us are fat. we have gained weight over the past 37 years but are in pretty decent shape
This post was edited on 4/19/17 at 10:09 am
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