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re: Is there anything dumber than living with a woman you arent married to
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:04 am to lsunurse
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:04 am to lsunurse
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So the quality women he would want to settle down with....will want nothing to do with him because of his lack of relationship experience. Leaving his dating pool to crazy women with a ton of baggage who will settle for anyone.
I dont plan on going for post wall women in their late 20s/early 30s when I am in my mid to late 30s. So no need for me to worry about the post wall women with baggage desperately looking to lock down a man.
I plan on going after women in their early to mid 20s, on the tail end of their peak years. Go ahead and say this is creepy because of the age gap and all, but its more common than you think. Watch what women do, not say. Women may say that dating a man in his mid 30s as a 25 year old is creepy, but their actions say otherwise.
"OMG a 35 year old man dating a 25 year old is so creepy!" is just nonsense used by bitter post wall single women to try to shame men into dating post wall women in their 30s instead. A woman is 31 years old, has hit the wall, and is mad that men her age pass her up for younger pieces of arse instead of her. Maybe she should have locked down a man in her prime years instead of spending her prime years "finding myself" (aka non stop partying and having sex with as many men as she could and saying I am not ready for committment yet, I need to find myself, I want to live it up and enjoy myself)
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Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:05 am to goldennugget
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You are always having to demonstrate value and masculinity with a woman for her to keep wanting your dick. Which is why when you get complacent and become an out of shape skinny fat loser, she will lose attraction.
This is hardly a revelation.
I mean it is a fact of life that people do not age like fine wine, but yes if you completely let yourself go, put on 50 lbs of fat, and turn into a totally different person than you were when you began the relationship, then the woman is likely to lose interest. Again, this has ZERO to do with availability or commitment.
ETA: I would also point out that if you let yourself go after getting "comfortable" in a relationship then it is likely you were only staying fit as a way of peacocking for the opposite sex, and the case could be made that you have, in a way, tricked the woman into being interested in you. When you revert to your natural self (let yourself go), she gets to know the real you and doesn't like what she finds. Is that her fault?
This post was edited on 1/16/17 at 9:12 am
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:08 am to goldennugget
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she can withhold sex from you. Most men will shrivel up and go about the wrong way of fixing it - pleading, trying to negotiate with her, buying her shite
This is so true!!! My first marriage ended after I spent 60 grand on ineffective sex bribes. It's like you're seeing my life!!! Where can I learn more about winning at women?
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:08 am to goldennugget
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do not understand why men do this, its very stupid, you might as well call a woman you move in with mommy because thats exactly what is being established, a mother-son relationship
I guess my question for men who live with women you aren't married to, is what do you have to gain/benefit from it, that you couldn't have by living independent of each other. What is your advantage.
When you move in with a woman you arent married to you lose all the power in the relationship, its a trap. You might as well be married because all the liabilities and accountabilities of marriage are in effect, and some states even have laws where if you cohabitiate, by law you practically are married.
When you move in with a woman her sexual availability will guarantee to decrease, because by moving in, she can comfortably relax knowing that you have no options and she is your only source of sexual intimacy. She is now in the perfect position to ration her sexuality because she has the ultimate sense of comfort. The number one way to have leverage over a woman is for her to fear and dread that you have other options than her, which you lose.
What sounds better, living independently and enjoying all options and freedom to not be hindered to a woman, or moving in with her and having to deal with every waking moment of hers.
Moving in with a woman implies commitment, and whenever you commit to anything you lose your two most valuable resources, options and the ability to maneuver.
I am guessing you don't live a very populated area.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:12 am to goldennugget
quote:Implies you can't pull strange living under same roof. If. That were true there would be no cheating spouses.
When you move in with a woman her sexual availability will guarantee to decrease, because by moving in, she can comfortably relax knowing that you have no options and she is your only source of sexual intimacy. She is now in the perfect position to ration her sexuality because she has the ultimate sense of comfort. The number one way to have leverage over a woman is for her to fear and dread that you have other options than her, which you lose.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:12 am to goldennugget
I personally am not going to live with my SO before getting married, but the benefits of doing so are pretty obvious.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:13 am to goldennugget
While I agree with your premise, your reasons are pretty f'd up. If you are in a relationship and you are concerned about who is "in control" then that relationship is doomed to fail whether or not you are cohabiting.
Cohabitation before marriage is more of a roommate issue. You expect both parties to pay their share equally. In a marriage both are expected to carry their weight however there is always an ebb and flow to it due to life circumstances. Sometimes the husband has to take a bigger share and vice versa.
I do think the "well I want to know if we are compatible living together" angle is weak bc if u spend enough time with a person then you should understand what it will be like if u shared a space. Cohabitation prior does not lead to less divorces (actually opposite).
The one benefit is financial but the issue is the roommate angle I mentioned above.
Cohabitation before marriage is more of a roommate issue. You expect both parties to pay their share equally. In a marriage both are expected to carry their weight however there is always an ebb and flow to it due to life circumstances. Sometimes the husband has to take a bigger share and vice versa.
I do think the "well I want to know if we are compatible living together" angle is weak bc if u spend enough time with a person then you should understand what it will be like if u shared a space. Cohabitation prior does not lead to less divorces (actually opposite).
The one benefit is financial but the issue is the roommate angle I mentioned above.
This post was edited on 1/16/17 at 9:15 am
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:14 am to goldennugget
I prefer them to live with me, but keep their own place. I have everything I need in a house, so I don't want all of that extra shite laying around. I also want them at my house as much as possible because I obviously like being around them. That means they basically live at my house all of the time, but keep their extra shite at their place.
If you can't deal with that, you aren't serious enough about your relationship. If you can't hold a serious relationship, something is wrong with you. I suggest getting off of reddit and sticking to the OT. At least we can bang bawetts without reading books or strategizing
If you can't deal with that, you aren't serious enough about your relationship. If you can't hold a serious relationship, something is wrong with you. I suggest getting off of reddit and sticking to the OT. At least we can bang bawetts without reading books or strategizing
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:14 am to RummelTiger
Is there a way to block this autistic virgin from my feed? He's singlehandedly ruining this site post by post
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:20 am to STEVED00
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If you are in a relationship and you are concerned about who is "in control" then that relationship is doomed to fail whether or not you are cohabiting.
This X 100. Real relationships are about giving.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:21 am to goldennugget
I did it because it's a lot easier to break up than divorce.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:21 am to goldennugget
stupid thread.
stupid poster.
stupid poster.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:23 am to goldennugget
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I plan on going after women in their early to mid 20s, on the tail end of their peak years.
And they still will see your lack of relationship experience a huge red flag. At least...the stable ones that won't cheat on you and will make a solid marriage partner.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:25 am to goldennugget
Plus it's a sin
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:25 am to goldennugget
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Is there anything dumber than living with a woman you arent married to
living with a woman who is your ex wife
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:26 am to goldennugget
you sound like you have the same views of women that my little brother has.
he's 18 and the epitome of a douche. my roommate and i watch him get shut down over and over again because he tries to "play the game".
if your just interested in boning randos then sure keep thinking this way,
enjoy being alone for the rest of your life though.
he's 18 and the epitome of a douche. my roommate and i watch him get shut down over and over again because he tries to "play the game".
if your just interested in boning randos then sure keep thinking this way,
enjoy being alone for the rest of your life though.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:27 am to lsunurse
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And they still will see your lack of relationship experience a huge red flag. At least...the stable ones that won't cheat on you and will make a solid marriage partner.
From what I've seen, young girls in their twenties don't go for guys in their late thirties unless they're wealthy, charming and extremely confident. It's hard to become any of those by spending your twenties bitterly writing on message boards about how girls are dumb.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:27 am to lsunurse
I kid you not normally the one of the first three questions a woman would ask when I went on a date with or got to know was, "What is your longest termed relationship?"
This post was edited on 1/16/17 at 9:30 am
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:28 am to 50_Tiger
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normally the first three questions a woman I went on a date with or got to know was, "What is your longest termed relationship?"
That's 1 question, silly.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 9:29 am to ThatMakesSense
lol edited so itMakesSense
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