re: Is there anything dumber than living with a woman you arent married to

Maybe one day you'll be able to have a girlfriend.....

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Maybe one day you'll be able to have a girlfriend.....

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When I hit my peak years in my mid 30s, sure

I am fine with spinning plates for now

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Is there anything dumber than living with a woman you arent married to

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I can think of many things that are dumber, but one thing really comes to mind. That would be running your mouth off to some mexicans, getting punked out like a little bitch, and running away because you're scared all while posting to a message board about how you're worried they might frick you and/or your subtle-brag Audi up and complaining that your ice cream cake is melting.

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Dude spends all of his time making shitty gambling models and losing money betting sports.

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Funny how you stopped talking shite in the bowl bet thread when I kept posting winner after winner

i'm not the one missing the point bud.

I'm happily married and trust me when I say there is no "withholding" in my home. I can assure you that I know more about this topic than you.

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she can withhold sex from you

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The point you are missing is that if a woman willingly withholds sex, then she isn't all that interested in sex (from the withholdee) in the first place. Availability has nothing to do with this, period.

I do understand your point, but the problem is that you are taking the default position that women will always use sex as a manipulation tool if given the opportunity. I am trying to tell you that this is only the case if the woman doesn't value the sex in the first place.

If you are giving her that fire D, then she is going to want it. If you don't push the right buttons, then yes she can (and will) use sex as a bargaining chip to get what she wants out of you.

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NOT living with a woman before marrying her is actually the dumbest thing you can do

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Why would I commit to an LTR long before my prime years.

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So you can learn how they work. You don't want to hit your 'prime years' and lack experience.

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GoldenNugget is the reason Hooters comes up with secret shots for women to order during Tinder dates gone horribly wrong

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So you can learn how they work. You don't want to hit your 'prime years' and lack experience.

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Yeah I don't think he realizes that a man in his 30s that has never had a LTR is a huge red flag to a woman actually wanting a stable relationship.


So the quality women he would want to settle down with....will want nothing to do with him because of his lack of relationship experience. Leaving his dating pool to crazy women with a ton of baggage who will settle for anyone.

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The point you are missing is that if a woman willingly withholds sex, then she isn't all that interested in sex (from the withholdee) in the first place. Availability has nothing to do with this, period.

I do understand your point, but the problem is that you are taking the default position that women will always use sex as a manipulation tool if given the opportunity. I am trying to tell you that this is only the case if the woman doesn't value the sex in the first place.

If you are giving her that fire D, then she is going to want it. If you don't push the right buttons, then yes she can (and will) use sex as a bargaining chip to get what she wants out of you.

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I agree with all of this. You are always having to demonstrate value and masculinity with a woman for her to keep wanting your dick. Which is why when you get complacent and become an out of shape skinny fat loser, she will lose attraction.

Hence the 7th rule of the 7 habits of highly effective people - "Sharpen the Saw". You always have to be sharpening the saw and be demonstrating value to the woman. Otherwise she will lose attraction. It's why having a dad bod is the worst thing you can do for yourself.

Yet somehow if a man loses attraction to a woman because she gets complacent and gets fat and out of shape, he is considered a fat shaming shitlord who needs to man up, grow up and still accept her. But if a woman loses attraction to a man because he gets complacent and out of shape, there is nothing wrong with that, its the man's fault.

Double standards. The man is to blame either way.