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Is seeing a therapist regularly a red flag?

Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:46 pm
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:46 pm
Not someone who is looking for help getting thru a bad situation but a person that goes to a therapist once a week regardless if they have issues or not. The last couple of chicks I tried to date did this and it seemed the consistency between them was they overthought everything about the relationship to the point of talking themselves out of a commitment. Another example of single women in their mid 30s who have no kids and have never been married usually having a reason why.

What says the OT?
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:46 pm to
Not really. It means that they're self-aware enough to mean they know they need help.
Posted by captainahab
Highway Trio8
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:47 pm to
Daddy issues - run!
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
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67590 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:47 pm to
all women could use a therapist
Posted by broadhead
Member since Oct 2014
2107 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:47 pm to
Yeah, she sounds crazy but the sex should be worth it for a little while.
Posted by yellowhammer2098
New Orleans, LA
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:48 pm to
Isn't this what friends are for? As opposed to paid help (therapist)?
Posted by PsychTiger
Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:48 pm to
She just hasn't met a man who can please her, yet.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:49 pm to
of course it is
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:50 pm to
It's not a red flag, but it's a yellow flashing light. It means you don't need to stop, but proceed with caution.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108403 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:51 pm to
quote:

Isn't this what friends are for? As opposed to paid help (therapist)?



You don't have to see your therapist whenever you go out for hours at a time, and friends (particularly females) can give some awful advise. A therapist means she's self aware, which is a hell of a lot better than a psycho who insists they're right about everything, no matter how crazy it sounds.
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56248 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:51 pm to
Maybe some guys just enjoy playing the rapist?

It's just not my style.
Posted by ballscaster
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:55 pm to
quote:

It's not a red flag, but it's a yellow flashing light. It means you don't need to stop, but proceed with caution.

I'd posit that it's closer to a green flag than a red flag, though I completely agree with what you say.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:56 pm to
Yes it means she has issues. Cum in her butt, not vag.
Posted by MrSmith
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:59 pm to
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Not really. It means that they're self-aware enough to mean they know they need help.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:59 pm to
Trashy
Posted by Kraut Dawg
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:04 pm to
This post was edited on 11/8/20 at 11:23 am
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:07 pm to
Anyone who sets aside a chunk of money and at least an hour a week to focus on what makes them unhappy with a stranger, definitely has some issues.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:10 pm to
All chicks need therapy
Posted by Titan
Member since Apr 2008
2471 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:32 pm to
quote:

It means that they're self-aware enough to mean they know they need help.


I concur. People who dont know when to seek help or think bad of others who do are mentally weak.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79212 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:44 pm to
quote:

Not really. It means that they're self-aware enough to mean they know they need help.



Ehhh, very well could be.

But I have to say that I've seen plenty of females in particular who see a therapist regularly who also continue to make the same absurd, attention-seeking decisions over and over again.

Some people view perceived mental health issues, minor depression, behavioral/emotional issues as part of their personality. Sometimes that is necessary, sometimes it is a fricked up hobby.
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