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re: In need of prayers
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:29 am to RandySavage
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:29 am to RandySavage
quote:You ruined your marriage for a BJ?
Also we never had sex
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Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:30 am to RodFarva
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You ruined your marriage for a BJ?
Maybe the mistress was pegging him because his wife wasn't into it.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:30 am to RandySavage
On the AU board you said it lasted 8 months? That’s a long affair with no sex.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:31 am to RandySavage
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Also we never had sex
Nobody involved will believe that. You’re totally fricked.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:31 am to stout
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Maybe the mistress was pegging him because his wife wasn't into it.
This could be a possibility.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:31 am to stout
I realized i couldn't love her the way she deserved when i could barely stand to look at her because of the guilt. The only chance we have was for a confession and hopefully one day restoration
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:32 am to RandySavage
It is never too late for forgiveness
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:33 am to SingleMalt1973
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On the AU board you said it lasted 8 months? That’s a long affair with no sex.
Yea I will take things that didn't happen. No way you carry on an 8 month long affair without sex.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:34 am to diat150
Oddly enough affirmation that i was a good person, all while doing an incomprehensibly terrible thing
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:34 am to RandySavage
Friend,
May God’s unfailing, infinite forgiveness wash over you. The only one whose position it is to condemn you is Christ Jesus. But Christ died for us while we were still sinners. He did not wait for us to be sinless and good. Christ died for us while we were still sinners. Hear that good news again and again.
Go forth now and make your life a living sacrifice. Do only good in this world, the type of good Jesus teaches. Forgive freely. Serve joyfully. Give without counting the cost. Love unconditionally.
God bless you and your family.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
May God’s unfailing, infinite forgiveness wash over you. The only one whose position it is to condemn you is Christ Jesus. But Christ died for us while we were still sinners. He did not wait for us to be sinless and good. Christ died for us while we were still sinners. Hear that good news again and again.
Go forth now and make your life a living sacrifice. Do only good in this world, the type of good Jesus teaches. Forgive freely. Serve joyfully. Give without counting the cost. Love unconditionally.
God bless you and your family.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:35 am to RandySavage
Why did you tell her? To sooth your own conscious or were you forced to?
IMHO, if you could silence it for their sakes and bear that burden for the rest of your life, that’d be the strategy.
Dude…….just SMH
IMHO, if you could silence it for their sakes and bear that burden for the rest of your life, that’d be the strategy.
Dude…….just SMH
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:36 am to RandySavage
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I realized i couldn't love her the way she deserved
You didn't care about doing this for the 8 months you were cheating on her, pal.
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i could barely stand to look at her because of the guilt.
Yet you still waited weeks to tell her after ending it. You only told her to relieve your guilt. Not to benefit her. Stop acting like suddenly you are acting in her interest and not your own.
As others said you need to seek counseling but before you do that you need to be honest and admit to you are very self-centered.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:36 am to RandySavage
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I told my wife last night about an affair i had been carrying on with one of her good friends. We have three young amazing children whose childhoods i have irreparably harmed.
As a person who has been through this, more than once, the marriage is over.
Just focus on repairing the shreds of the relationship the best you can without living together, that trust is never going to be fixed.
Good luck, take it as an opportunity to deep dive into your shadow and repair what is causing this.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:36 am to stout
When you get to this point of brokenness there are no more lies
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:37 am to stout
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Yea I will take things that didn't happen. No way you carry on an 8 month long affair without sex.
yeah he seems to be avoiding the question I had. I would imagine almost every affair involves lust and hard to believe that he carried this on for 8 months and they didnt have sex.
not knocking the guy cheating is pretty prevalent in american marriages. some put it as high as 70% of marriages have at least 1 incident of infidelity.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:40 am to RandySavage
Ah. So you blew their worlds to pieces for your own guilt needs…….that’s doubling down on the betrayal.
arse
arse
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:41 am to RandySavage
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When you get to this point of brokenness there are no more lies
Its a fantastic chance to rebuild you.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:41 am to CharlesLSU
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Ah. So you blew their worlds to pieces for your own guilt needs…….that’s doubling down on the betrayal.
Yep
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:41 am to GeauxZone90
My advice is to cling to Jesus and fight each day to become the man you want/have to be. I would even urge you to not even do it for them right now because those goalposts will constantly change due to the pain YOU have caused. Accept their anger and pain because it’s real, but use it as fuel to become the person God wants you to be. The only thing that can fix this is hard work, time, forgiveness and grace. God will give those to you for free but unfortunately you’ll have to earn that back from your family.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:43 am to wryder1
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I would even urge you to not even do it for them right now
He's not doing this for them. This is still all about him and how he feels. Even telling his wife to relieve his conscious was about him and not his wife and kids.
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