Physically it may seem awesome for a guy in his mid 30s to date a 20 year old. But he also has to deal with her immaturity and just where she is in her life vs where is his and wants to be.
right, but the mid 30's guy can date a 20 yr old or a 25 yr old, or a 30 yr old. He has options. He can dump her if she's not meeting his needs. He doesn't have to waste his time. He has high value.
a 35 yr old woman, on average, does not have as high a value. a 35 yr old guy may not date her because he can date a younger girl, easily.
it's not always this way,