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re: I found out I have a 10 year old son - Update Page 10
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:47 pm to BallCoachinFool
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:47 pm to BallCoachinFool
The post isn't even that long, for all of the people complaining.
To the OP, I don't know what to say other than discuss your approach with the stepfather. Are you sure that the mom isn't going to try to pull some crazy stuff up? I would suggest researching the statute of limitations for crimes like rape in your jurisdiction as well, just to be safe.
To the OP, I don't know what to say other than discuss your approach with the stepfather. Are you sure that the mom isn't going to try to pull some crazy stuff up? I would suggest researching the statute of limitations for crimes like rape in your jurisdiction as well, just to be safe.
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Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:47 pm to OWLFAN86
can you help mentor this guy
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:48 pm to HogBalls
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And 10 years of back child support once crazy mother finds out you are seeing him.
Once a child is adopted the mother can no longer receive child support.
My step dad could not adopt me when I was younger because we would lose my biological fathers social security.
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:48 pm to BallCoachinFool
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:49 pm to BallCoachinFool
For what it's worth, I have a relative that was not allowed to see his child until the child was 8. For the first five years, he did not even know about it. During the past 5 years he has cultivated a wonderful relationship with this child. He basically did not pressure the kid and went out and had fun with him. He let his son lead him. I wish you well. Stay positive. Don't bad-mouth mom to him. Tell him the truth by saying you did not know he existed or something like that. When the time is right, let him know he is so special that he has two fathers. Do not give him any indication, he has to choose who his "real father" is. Fast forward 10 years and you'll be attending his college graduation. AGain, best. Keep us posted from time to time.
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:49 pm to BallCoachinFool
The million dollar question is why would this woman say she was gang raped rather than letting you be a father to this kid?
There's something wrong with that picture.
There's something wrong with that picture.
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:49 pm to Lester Earl
quote:you still want to make fun of me losing a child ?
Lester Earl
youre a sad person
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:50 pm to BallCoachinFool
quote:
Once a child is adopted the mother can no longer receive child support
That is very interesting. Are you certain that is still the law and that the stepdad filled out all of the adoption papers?
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:50 pm to uptownsage
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Why don't you speak to a child psychologist or therapist?
I am reaching out to all walks of people. I just know every once in a while this place produces some good information.
I was also just needing to vent. I have told the story 1000 times and it feels better every time I tell it.
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:51 pm to BallCoachinFool
Is this woman attractive?
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:52 pm to OWLFAN86
or from when you helped mentor 7thward, but ok mr over reactor
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:52 pm to Stud Bud
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he million dollar question is why would this woman say she was gang raped rather than letting you be a father to this kid?
Her family was poor. My family had a little money. She was worried she would lose the child to us and she was afraid her mother would cut her off from the rest of the family as well as her scholarships.
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:53 pm to BallCoachinFool
..and don't dwell on what could have been. Focus on what will be.
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:53 pm to BallCoachinFool
Ok, well I guess she pretty hot then. Thanks,
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:55 pm to LSUTANGERINE
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LSUTANGERINE
Thank you kind sir
Dad swears he does not want anything from us. He just wants the child to be happy. I do not want to step in and try to be the MAN in his life. I just want to help him get to where he should be emotionally. Apparently he is very smart and a giant at 5'2" only being 10.
All I want is for this kid to know if I would of had the choice I would have been there for everything. I do not even know him and I know I love him.
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:55 pm to Wolfhound45
quote:No, that's how he got in the mess to begin with.
You came to the right place
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:56 pm to Lester Earl
quote:I didn't "mentor" 7th I acted as a friend
or from when you helped mentor 7thward, but ok mr over reactor
everyone needs a friend once in a while
sorry that bothers you, Back after Katrina I told you if you needed a place to stay my house had a free room, I was serious, would never make light of what was obviously a tough situation for those affected by the storm
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:57 pm to OWLFAN86
im sorry i upset you
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:57 pm to BallCoachinFool
Fyi nobody read that shite.
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